He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him.

A deacon must be faithful to his wife, and he must manage his children and household well.

But if she has children or grandchildren, their first responsibility is to show godliness at home and repay their parents by taking care of them. This is something that pleases God.

She must be well respected by everyone because of the good she has done. Has she brought up her children well? Has she been kind to strangers and served other believers humbly? Has she helped those who are in trouble? Has she always been ready to do good?

So I advise these younger widows to marry again, have children, and take care of their own homes. Then the enemy will not be able to say anything against them.