Book of Common Prayer

3 These are true words. If a man wants to be a leader of the church people, he seeks a good thing.

² For a man to be a church leader, people must speak well of him. He must have only one wife. He must be able to control himself. He must use good sense. He must behave himself well. He must be kind to strangers in his house. He must be a good teacher.

³ He must not get drunk. He must not fight. But he must be kind. He must not quarrel. He must not love money.

⁴ He must be a good leader for his own family. His children must obey him and respect him.

⁵ If a man does not know how to lead his own family, how can he take care of the church of God?

⁶ A church leader must not be a new believer. If he were a new believer, he might become proud and set himself up like the devil did.

⁷ People who are not church people must also speak well of a church leader, so that he will not fall into the devil's trap.

⁸ In the same way, the leader's helpers must be men whom people respect. They must not say one thing one time and something different another time. They must not drink too much wine. They must not try to get rich in wrong ways.

⁹ They must know God's plan and what we believe. They must do only what they know is right.

¹⁰ Try these men first. Then let them help the church people if they have done nothing wrong.

¹¹ In the same way, their wives must be women whom people respect. They must not tell lies about anyone. They must be able to control themselves. They must live so that people can trust them in all things.

¹² The leader's helpers must have only one wife. They must be good leaders for their children and family.

¹³ When they have done the work of a helper well, people will respect them. If they do well, they will not fear to tell what they believe about Christ Jesus.

¹⁴ I am writing to you about these matters even though I hope to come to you soon.

¹⁵ Then if I do not come right away, you will know what people should do in God's family. This family is the church of the living God. The church people hold what is true and keeps it strong.

¹⁶ God's plan is very great as we all know. Here it is: we saw God as a man; God's Spirit proved he was right; angels saw him; the nations were told about him; people of the world believed in him; God took him up into heaven.

⁴³ `When a bad spirit has gone out of a man, he goes through dry places. He looks for a place to rest, but he does not find any.

⁴⁴ Then he says, "I will go back to my house from where I came." When he comes back, he finds it is empty, clean, and all fixed up.

⁴⁵ Then he goes and brings seven other spirits with him. They are worse than he is. They go in and live there. Now the man is worse than he was at first. That is how it will be for the wrong people of today.'

⁴⁶ While Jesus was still talking to the people, his mother and brothers stood outside. They wanted to talk to him.

⁴⁷ Someone told him, `Your mother and your brothers are standing outside. They want to talk to you.'

⁴⁸ But to the man who told him, he said, `Who is my mother? Who are my brothers?'

⁴⁹ He pointed to his disciples and said, `These people are my mother and my brothers!

⁵⁰ Anyone who obeys my Father in heaven is my brother, my sister, and my mother.'