行事与圣徒的身份相称

因此,你们既然是上帝疼爱的儿女,就要效法上帝。 要以爱心待人,像基督爱我们一样,祂为我们牺牲自己作为献给上帝的馨香供物和祭物。

一切淫乱、污秽或贪婪的事在你们当中连提都不要提,才合乎圣徒的身份。 污言秽语、愚昧粗俗的谈笑都不合宜,总要说感恩的话才好。 因为你们清楚知道,淫乱的人、污秽的人,还有贪婪的人,就是拜偶像的人,在基督和上帝的国里没有立足之地。 不要被虚空的道理欺骗,因为上帝的烈怒必临到上述那些悖逆的人。 所以,你们不要与他们同流合污。

你们从前活在黑暗中,现在既然活在主的光明中,行事为人就该像光明的儿女。 光明总是结出良善、公义和真理的果子。 10 你们要察验什么是主所喜悦的事, 11 不可参与那些黑暗无益的事,反要揭发斥责, 12 因为那些人暗地里做的事就是提起来都觉得可耻。 13 然而,一切的事被光一照,都会真相大白, 14 因为光能使一切显明出来。因此有人说:

“沉睡的人啊,醒来吧!
从死人中起来吧,
基督要光照你了!”

15 因此,你们要注意自己的生活,不要像愚昧人,要像有智慧的人。 16 要爱惜光阴,因为现今是个邪恶的世代。 17 所以,不要做糊涂人,要明白主的旨意。 18 不要醉酒,醉酒会使人放荡,要被圣灵充满。 19 要用诗篇、圣乐、灵歌互相激励,从心底唱出赞美主的旋律。 20 凡事总要奉我们主耶稣基督的名感谢父上帝。

夫妇之道

21 你们要存敬畏基督的心彼此顺服。

22 做妻子的要顺服自己的丈夫,如同顺服主基督。 23 因为丈夫是妻子的头,正如基督是祂的身体——教会的头,又是教会的救主。 24 教会怎样顺服基督,妻子也要照样凡事顺服丈夫。

25 做丈夫的要爱妻子,正如基督爱教会,为教会舍己, 26 好借着自己的道用水洗净教会,使她圣洁, 27 以便把圣洁、完美、没有污点、皱纹等瑕疵的荣耀教会呈献给祂自己。 28 同样,做丈夫的也要爱妻子如同爱自己的身体,爱妻子就是爱自己。 29 没有人会厌恶自己的身体,人总是珍惜保养身体,正如基督对待教会一样, 30 因为我们是祂身上的肢体。 31 “因此,人要离开父母,与妻子结合,二人成为一体。” 32 这是一个极大的奥秘,然而我是指着基督和教会的关系说的。 33 总之,你们做丈夫的都要爱妻子如同爱自己,做妻子的也要敬重丈夫。

你们是上帝钟爱的儿女,所以,要努力效仿上帝。 要过有爱心的生活,爱他人就如同基督爱我们一样。基督为了我们牺牲了自己—他是献给上帝的芬芳的贡奉和祭品。

你们中间不可有不道德的性行为,不可有任何邪恶与贪婪(自私)。这些事在你们当中连提都不要提,因为你们是上帝的圣民 [a] 也不可说可耻、愚蠢的话,或讲粗俗的笑话。这些话不是你们该说的,相反,要说向上帝感恩的话。 你们必须知道:任何在性行为上不道德、不洁或贪婪的人(这种人等于偶像崇拜者),都不会在基督和上帝的天国里占有一席之地。

不要让任何人用空话欺骗你们,正是因为这些事情,上帝的愤怒要降临到那些不服从的人身上了。 因此,不要成为这些人的同伙。 过去,你们充满了黑暗(罪恶),但是,现在你们在主内充满了光明(善良)。要像属于光明的儿女那样去生活。 光明带来了各种善良、正义的生活和真理。 10 要努力寻求令主喜悦的事情。 11 不要做笼罩在黑暗之中的徒劳无益的事情,而要揭露它们。 12 甚至连谈起别人所做的不光明的事都是可耻的。 13 但是,暴露在光明之中的一切都变得清晰可见, 14 变得清晰可见的也都能成为光明。这就是为什么我们说:

“醒来,沉睡的人,
从死里复活,
基督会照亮你们。”

15 所以,你们的生活方式要谨慎。不要像愚昧无知的人,而要像明智的人那样生活。 16 要充分利用每一个机会,因为现在的时代是邪恶的。 17 因此,不要做糊涂人,要明白主的旨意是什么。 18 不要因酗酒而堕落,而要让圣灵充满你们。 19 要用诗篇、圣诗和灵歌相互交流,从内心歌唱并且创作赞美主的音乐。 20 要常以我们的主耶稣基督的名义,感谢父上帝赐给我们的一切。

妻子和丈夫

21 出于对基督的敬畏,你们要互敬互让。

22 妻子应该像顺从主一样顺从丈夫, 23 因为丈夫是妻子的头,正如基督是教会的头一样。教会是基督的身体—基督是这个身体的救主。 24 所以,就像教会服从基督一样,妻子在各方面也应该服从丈夫。

25 丈夫要爱你们的妻子,就像基督爱教会并为教会献出了生命一样。 26 他这么做,是为了通过福音,让教会在水中受到洁净,使教会变得神圣。 27 他这么做,是为了能够把教会做为一个容光焕发的新娘献给自己,她没有任何污点、皱纹和缺陷,是纯洁和无瑕的。 28 同样,丈夫也应该像这样爱自己的妻子。他们应该像爱自己的身体一样爱自己的妻子。爱妻子就是爱自己。 29 因为没有人憎恨自己的身体。每个人都保养和照料着自己的身体,这也是基督为教会所做的事情。 30 因为我们都是他的身体的组成部分, 31 正如《经》上所说∶“所以,男人要离开父母,与妻子结合,两人成为一体。” 32 这个奥秘非常重要—我谈论的是基督和教会。 33 但是,你们每个人也必须像爱自己一样爱妻子,而妻子则必须尊重丈夫。

Footnotes

  1. 以 弗 所 書 5:3 上帝的圣民: 上帝的子民被称圣,因为通过基督他们得以纯洁,他们只属于上帝。

Be Imitators of God

(A)Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children, and (B)walk in love, just as Christ also (C)loved [a]us and (D)gave Himself up for us, an (E)offering and a sacrifice to God [b]as a (F)fragrant aroma.

But (G)sexual immorality [c]or any impurity or greed must not even be named among you, as is proper among [d]saints; nor (H)filthiness and foolish talk, or coarse jesting, which (I)are not fitting, but rather (J)giving of thanks. For this you know with certainty, that (K)no one sexually immoral or impure or greedy, who is an idolater, has an inheritance in the kingdom (L)of Christ and God.

(M)Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things (N)the wrath of God comes upon (O)the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be (P)partakers with them, for (Q)you were formerly (R)darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as (S)children of light (for (T)the fruit of that light consists in all (U)goodness and righteousness and truth), 10 [e](V)trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord. 11 (W)And do not participate in the unfruitful (X)works of (Y)darkness, but instead even [f](Z)expose them. 12 For it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. 13 But all things become visible (AA)when they are [g]exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light. 14 For this reason [h]it says,

(AB)Awake, sleeper,
And arise from (AC)the dead,
And Christ (AD)will shine on you.”

15 Therefore look carefully how you (AE)walk, not (AF)as unwise but as wise, 16 (AG)redeeming the time, because (AH)the days are evil. 17 On account of this, do not be foolish, but (AI)understand what the will of the Lord is. 18 And (AJ)do not get drunk with wine, [i]for that is (AK)dissipation, but be (AL)filled with the Spirit, 19 (AM)speaking to [j]one another in (AN)psalms and (AO)hymns and spiritual (AP)songs, (AQ)singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord; 20 (AR)always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to [k](AS)God, even the Father; 21 [l](AT)and being subject to one another in the [m](AU)fear of Christ.

Wives and Husbands

22 (AV)Wives, (AW)be subject to your own husbands, (AX)as to the Lord. 23 For (AY)the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the (AZ)head of the church, He Himself (BA)being the Savior of the body. 24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.

25 (BB)Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and (BC)gave Himself up for her, 26 (BD)so that He might sanctify her, having (BE)cleansed her by the (BF)washing of water with (BG)the word, 27 that He might (BH)present to Himself the church [n]in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she would be (BI)holy and blameless. 28 So husbands ought also to (BJ)love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are (BK)members of His (BL)body. 31 (BM)For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. 32 This mystery is great, but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to (BN)love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she [o](BO)respects her husband.

Footnotes

  1. Ephesians 5:2 Some mss you
  2. Ephesians 5:2 Lit for an odor of fragrance
  3. Ephesians 5:3 Lit and all
  4. Ephesians 5:3 Or holy ones
  5. Ephesians 5:10 Lit proving what
  6. Ephesians 5:11 Or reprove
  7. Ephesians 5:13 Or reproved
  8. Ephesians 5:14 Or He
  9. Ephesians 5:18 Lit in which is
  10. Ephesians 5:19 Or yourselves
  11. Ephesians 5:20 Lit the God and Father
  12. Ephesians 5:21 Lit being subject
  13. Ephesians 5:21 Or reverence
  14. Ephesians 5:27 Lit glorious
  15. Ephesians 5:33 Lit fear, cf. 5:21