For over two decades, I have been espousing the phrase “Not wrong, just different” as a key principle of the Love and Respect message. A husband who hears, speaks, and interprets “blue” should not be understood as being wrong by his “pink” wife who views the world differently than he does. As well, a wife who sees the world through pink undertones should not be accused of being in error simply for not being the same as her “blue” husband. As Genesis 1:27 tells us—which Jesus reiterates in Matthew 19:4—in the beginning God created us “male and female.” Different. Not the same. Hence, men and women were specifically designed by God, “not wrong, just different.”