He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity

(but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?),

Deacons must be husbands of one wife, and good managers of their children and their own households.

but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one should act in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and support of the truth.

But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

Therefore, I want younger widows to get married, have children, manage their households, and give the enemy no opportunity for reproach;