Sirach 31:12-32:13
Common English Bible
Behavior at meals
12 Have you been seated
at a magnificent table?
Don’t be greedy as you sit there,
and don’t say,
“Look how much food there is!”
13 Remember, a greedy eye is a bad thing.
What has been created more greedy
than the eye?
For this reason, every face sheds tears.
14 Don’t reach out your hand
for whatever you see,
and don’t crowd your dinner companion by reaching into the same bowl.
15 Put yourself in your companion’s place,
and be considerate in everything.
16 Eat what’s put in front of you
like a normal human being,[a]
and don’t chew rudely,
or you will be hated.
17 Be the first to stop,
to show your good breeding,
and don’t be gluttonous;
otherwise, you will offend.
18 If you have been seated
with a lot of people,
don’t help yourself before they do.
19 A little food is more than enough
for well-educated people!
They won’t gasp for breath
when they lie down to sleep.
20 Healthy sleep depends
on not stuffing yourself.
Such people arise early and feel good.[b]
The gluttons suffer the pains of insomnia, nausea, and colic.
21 If you’ve overstuffed yourself,
get up, vomit far away,
and you will feel better.
22 Listen to me, my child,
and don’t show me contempt,
and in the end you will understand
what I’m saying;
be careful[c] in everything you do,
and you will never fall sick.
23 People will bless those
who are generous with bread;
they give reliable testimony
to the excellence of such people.
24 The city will murmur about those
who are stingy with bread,
giving accurate witness
to the wickedness of such people.
25 Don’t demonstrate your bravado
in wine drinking,
because wine has destroyed many.
26 A furnace tests the hardening of steel
when it’s dipped,[d]
so wine tests the heart
when the arrogant quarrel.
27 If taken in moderation,
wine makes people’s lives better.
What’s life to those who
don’t have wine?
It was created from the beginning
to bring merriment.
28 The right amount of wine
consumed at the right time
makes for a joyful heart
and a light spirit.
29 Too much wine drunk
in the midst of strife and conflict
makes for a bitter spirit.
30 Getting drunk causes fools to lose
their temper and do themselves harm,
reducing their strength,
and adding injuries as well.
31 Don’t correct your neighbors
at a wine banquet,
and don’t show them contempt
when they are partying;
don’t say any reproachful word
to them,
and don’t trouble them
with any demands.
32 If they have appointed you
as the banquet leader,
don’t think too much of yourself;
behave toward them
as if you were one of them.
Take care of their needs
and then sit down.
2 When you have done
everything necessary, recline,
so that you can have fun with them,
and because of your excellent behavior
you will receive a wreath.
3 Speak, you who are older,
for it’s your privilege.
But know what you’re talking about,
and don’t interrupt the music.
4 Where there’s a performance,
don’t talk too much,
and don’t be clever at the wrong time.
5 A musical performance at a wine party
is like a ruby seal on a gold ornament.
6 Melodic music accompanying sweet wine
is like an emerald seal
in a setting of gold.
7 Speak, you who are young,
if it’s necessary,
but only twice,
and only if you are asked.
8 Sum up what you have to say;
much can be said in few words.
Be like one who knows
but who can keep silent.
9 When you are among the more influential, don’t presume authority;
and where elders are present,
don’t talk idly about many things.
10 Lightning comes before thunder,
and good favor walks
in front of a modest person.
11 Rise up to leave in time,
and don’t be the last person out;
go back to your own home,
and don’t miss your work
the next day.
12 Enjoy yourself there,
and do what you please,
but don’t sin with arrogant words.
13 More than this,
bless the one who made you
and who lets you drink freely
from his good bounty.
Footnotes
- Sirach 31:16 Heb like a well-mannered person
- Sirach 31:20 LXX and their spirit with them
- Sirach 31:22 Heb moderate
- Sirach 31:26 Heb tests the work of the smith
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