Ben Sira 32:1-13

New American Bible (Revised Edition)

¹ If you are chosen to preside at a dinner, do not be puffed up,
    but with the guests be as one of them;
Take care of them first and then sit down;
²     see to their needs, and then take your place,
To share in their joy
    and receive a wreath for a job well done.
³ You who are older, it is your right to speak,
    but temper your knowledge and do not interrupt the singing.
⁴ Where there is entertainment, do not pour out discourse,
    and do not display your wisdom at the wrong time.
⁵ Like a seal of carnelian in a setting of gold:
    a concert of music at a banquet of wine.
⁶ A seal of emerald in a work of gold:
    the melody of music with delicious wine.
⁷ Speak, young man, only when necessary,^(A)
    when they have asked you more than once.
⁸ Be brief, say much in few words;
    be knowledgeable and yet quiet.
⁹ When among elders do not be forward,
    and with officials do not be too insistent.
¹⁰ The lightning that flashes before a hailstorm:
    the esteem that shines on modesty.
¹¹ Leave in good time and do not be the last;
    go home quickly without delay.
¹² There enjoy doing as you wish,
    but do not sin through words of pride.
¹³ Above all, bless your Maker,
    who showers his favors upon you.