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Chapter 3

Then sad at heart, I groaned and wept aloud. With sobs I began to pray:[a]

Tobit’s Prayer for Death

“You are righteous, Lord,
    and all your deeds are just;
All your ways are mercy and fidelity;
    you are judge of the world.(A)
And now, Lord, be mindful of me
    and look with favor upon me.
Do not punish me for my sins,
    or for my inadvertent offenses,
    or for those of my ancestors.(B)

“They sinned against you,
    and disobeyed your commandments.
So you handed us over to plunder, captivity, and death,
    to become an object lesson, a byword, and a reproach
    in all the nations among whom you scattered us.(C)

“Yes, your many judgments are right
    in dealing with me as my sins,
    and those of my ancestors, deserve.
For we have neither kept your commandments,
    nor walked in fidelity before you.

“So now, deal with me as you please;
    command my life breath to be taken from me,
    that I may depart from the face of the earth and become dust.
It is better for me to die than to live,[b]
    because I have listened to undeserved reproaches,
    and great is the grief within me.(D)

“Lord, command that I be released from such anguish;
    let me go to my everlasting abode;
    Do not turn your face away from me, Lord.
For it is better for me to die
    than to endure so much misery in life,
    and to listen to such reproaches!”

II. Sarah’s Plight

Sarah Falsely Accused. [c]On that very day, at Ecbatana in Media, it so happened that Raguel’s daughter Sarah also had to listen to reproaches from one of her father’s maids. For she had been given in marriage to seven husbands, but the wicked demon Asmodeus[d] kept killing them off before they could have intercourse with her, as is prescribed for wives. The maid said to her: “You are the one who kills your husbands! Look! You have already been given in marriage to seven husbands, but you do not bear the name of a single one of them. Why do you beat us? Because your husbands are dead? Go, join them! May we never see son or daughter of yours!”

10 That day Sarah was sad at heart. She went in tears to an upstairs room in her father’s house and wanted to hang herself. But she reconsidered, saying to herself: “No! May people never reproach my father and say to him, ‘You had only one beloved daughter, but she hanged herself because of her misfortune.’ And thus would I bring my father laden with sorrow in his old age to Hades. It is far better for me not to hang myself, but to beg the Lord that I might die, and no longer have to listen to such reproaches in my lifetime.”(E)

11 At that same time, with hands outstretched toward the window,[e] she implored favor:

Sarah’s Prayer for Death

“Blessed are you, merciful God!
    Blessed be your holy and honorable name forever!
    May all your works forever bless you.(F)
12 Now to you, Lord, I have turned my face
    and have lifted up my eyes.
13 Bid me to depart from the earth,
    never again to listen to such reproaches.

14 “You know, Master, that I am clean
    of any defilement with a man.
15 I have never sullied my own name
    or my father’s name in the land of my captivity.

“I am my father’s only daughter,
    and he has no other child to be his heir,
Nor does he have a kinsman or close relative
    whose wife I should wait to become.
Seven husbands of mine have already died.
    Why then should I live any longer?
But if it does not please you, Lord, to take my life,
    look favorably upon me and have pity on me,
    that I may never again listen to such reproaches!”

An Answer to Prayer. 16 At that very time, the prayer of both of them was heard in the glorious presence of God. 17 (G)So Raphael was sent to heal them both: to remove the white scales from Tobit’s eyes, so that he might again see with his own eyes God’s light; and to give Sarah, the daughter of Raguel, as a wife to Tobiah, the son of Tobit, and to rid her of the wicked demon Asmodeus. For it fell to Tobiah’s lot[f] to claim her before any others who might wish to marry her.

At that very moment Tobit turned from the courtyard to his house, and Raguel’s daughter Sarah came down from the upstairs room.

Footnotes

  1. 3:1 Pray: prayer is a significant theme, occurring at six major turning points in the story (3:2–6, 11–15; 8:5–8, 15–17; 11:14–15; 13:1–18).
  2. 3:6 It is better for me to die than to live: in his distress Tobit uses the words of the petulant Jonah (Jon 4:3, 8), who wished to die because God did not destroy the hated Ninevites. In similar circumstances, Moses (Nm 11:15), Elijah (1 Kgs 19:4), and Job (Jb 7:15) also prayed for death. Everlasting abode: a reference to Sheol, the dismal abode of the dead from which no one returns (Jb 7:9–10; 14:12; Is 26:14). See note on Tb 4:6.
  3. 3:7 From here on, the story is told in the third person. Verse 7 relates one of the several marvelous coincidences that the storyteller uses to suggest divine providence; see also vv. 16–17; 4:1; 5:4. Ecbatana: Hamadan in modern Iran; this was the capital of ancient Media. Raguel: the Greek form of the Hebrew name Re‘u’el, “friend of God.”
  4. 3:8 Asmodeus: in Persian aeshma daeva, “demon of wrath,” adopted into Aramaic with the sense of “the Destroyer.” It will be subdued (8:3) by Raphael (v. 17), whose name means “God has healed.”
  5. 3:11 Toward the window: that is, looking in prayer toward Jerusalem; cf. Dn 6:11. “Blessed are you” and “Blessed be God” are traditional openings of Jewish prayers (Tb 8:5, 15; 11:14; 13:1).
  6. 3:17 It fell to Tobiah’s lot: according to the patriarchal custom of marriage within the family group. Tobiah was Sarah’s closest eligible relative (6:12). Cf. 4:12–13; Gn 24:4; 28:2; Ru 3:9–12; 4:1–12.

Tobit’s Prayer

Then in my grief I wept, and I prayed in anguish, saying, “Righteous art thou, O Lord; all thy deeds and all thy ways are mercy and truth, and thou dost render true and righteous judgment for ever. Remember me and look favorably upon me; do not punish me for my sins and for my unwitting offenses and those which my fathers committed before thee. For they disobeyed thy commandments, and thou gavest us over to plunder, captivity, and death; thou madest us a byword of reproach in all the nations among which we have been dispersed. And now thy many judgments are true in exacting penalty from me for my sins and those of my fathers, because we did not keep thy commandments. For we did not walk in truth before thee. And now deal with me according to thy pleasure; command my spirit to be taken up, that I may depart and become dust. For it is better for me to die than to live, because I have heard false reproaches, and great is the sorrow within me. Command that I now be released from my distress to go to the eternal abode; do not turn thy face away from me.”

Sarah Falsely Accused

On the same day, at Ecbat′ana in Media, it also happened that Sarah, the daughter of Rag′uel, was reproached by her father’s maids, because she had been given to seven husbands, and the evil demon Asmode′us had slain each of them before he had been with her as his wife. So the maids[a] said to her, “Do you not know that you strangle your husbands? You already have had seven and have had no benefit from[b] any of them. Why do you beat us? If they are dead, go with them! May we never see a son or daughter of yours!”

Sarah’s Prayer for Death

10 When she heard these things she was deeply grieved, even to the thought of hanging herself. But she said, “I am the only child of my father; if I do this, it will be a disgrace to him, and I shall bring his old age down in sorrow to the grave.”[c] 11 So she prayed by her window and said, “Blessed art thou, O Lord my God, and blessed is thy holy and honored name for ever. May all thy works praise thee for ever. 12 And now, O Lord, I have turned my eyes and my face toward thee. 13 Command that I be released from the earth and that I hear reproach no more. 14 Thou knowest, O Lord, that I am innocent of any sin with man, 15 and that I did not stain my name or the name of my father in the land of my captivity. I am my father’s only child, and he has no child to be his heir, no near kinsman or kinsman’s[d] son for whom I should keep myself as wife. Already seven husbands of mine are dead. Why should I live? But if it be not pleasing to thee to take my life, command that respect be shown to me and pity be taken upon me, and that I hear reproach no more.”[e]

An Answer to Prayer

16 The prayer of both was heard in the presence of the glory of the great God. 17 And Raph′ael[f] was sent to heal the two of them: to scale away the white films of Tobit’s eyes; to give Sarah the daughter of Rag′uel in marriage to Tobi′as the son of Tobit, and to bind Asmode′us the evil demon, because Tobi′as was entitled to possess her. At that very moment Tobit returned and entered his house and Sarah the daughter of Rag′uel came down from her upper room.

Footnotes

  1. Tobit 3:8 Gk they
  2. Tobit 3:8 Other authorities read have not borne the name of
  3. Tobit 3:10 Gk to Hades
  4. Tobit 3:15 Gk his
  5. 3.11-15 The Vulgate version of this prayer (verses 13-23) reads as follows: “13 She said: Blessed is thy name, O God of our fathers: who when thou hast been angry wilt show mercy, and in the time of tribulation forgivest the sins of them that call upon thee. 14 To thee, O Lord, I turn my face, to thee I direct my eyes. 15 1 beg, O Lord, that thou loose me from the bond of this reproach, or else take me away from the earth. 16 Thou knowest, O Lord, that I never coveted a husband, and have kept my soul clean from all lust. 17 Never have I joined myself with them that play; neither have I made myself partaker with them that walk in lightness. 18 But a husband I consented to take, with thy fear, not with my lust. 19 And either I was unworthy of them, or they perhaps were not worthy of me: because perhaps thou hast kept me for another man, 20 for thy counsel is not in man’s power. 21 But this every one is sure of that worshippeth thee, that his life, if it be under trial, shall be crowned: and if it be under tribulation, it shall be delivered: and if it be under correction, it shall be allowed to come to thy mercy. 22 For thou art not delighted in our being lost: because after a storm thou makest a calm, and after tears and weeping thou pourest in joyfulness. 23 Be thy name, O God of Israel, blessed for ever.”
  6. Tobit 3:17 Other authorities read the great Raph′ael. And he

Tobit's Prayer

I was so embarrassed and ashamed that I sighed and began to cry. Then, as I choked back my tears, I prayed:


        You are righteous, O Lord!
You are merciful[a] in all you do,
    faithful in all your ways.
You are the judge of this world.[b]
3-4     I beg you, treat me with kindness.
Do not punish me for my sins,
    not even for sins of which I am unaware.
My ancestors rebelled and disobeyed[c] your commands,
    but do not punish me for their sins.
You let our people be plundered,
    taken captive and killed.
You made an example of our people,
    an object of contempt and disgrace
    in all the nations where you scattered us.
You have often judged my ancestors for their sins
    and punished me for mine.
We were disloyal and rejected your commands,
    so our punishment has always been just.
Now treat me as you please.
Take my life away and free me from this world;
    let my body return to the earth.
    I would be better off dead.
I am tormented by insults I don't deserve,
    and weighed down with despair.
Lord, give the command—
    bring all my troubles to an end,
    take me to my eternal rest.
Don't reject my prayer.
I would rather die than live in misery
    and face such cruel insults.

Sarah's Troubles

That same day in the city of Ecbatana in Media, it happened that Sarah, the daughter of a man named Raguel, was insulted by one of her father's servant women. Sarah had been married seven times, but the evil demon, Asmodeus, killed each husband before the marriage could be consummated. The servant woman said to Sarah,

You husband killer! Look at you! You've already had seven husbands, but not one of them lived long enough to give you a son.[d] Why should you take it out on us? Why don't you go and join your dead husbands? I hope we never see a child of yours!

10 Sarah was so depressed that she burst into tears and went upstairs determined to hang herself. But when she thought it over, she said to herself,
    No, I won't do it! People would insult my father and say,
    You had only one child, a daughter whom you loved dearly, but she hanged herself because she felt so miserable. Such grief would bring my gray-haired father to his grave, and I would be responsible. I won't kill myself; I'll just beg the Lord to let me die. Then I won't have to listen to those insults any longer!

Sarah's Prayer

11 Then Sarah stood by the window, raised her arms in prayer, and said,

God of mercy, worthy of our praise,
    may your name always be honored,
    may all your creation praise you forever.
12 Lord, I look to you for help.
13 Speak the word and set me free from this life;
    then I will no longer have to hear these insults.
14 You know, O Lord, that I'm still a virgin;
    I have never been defiled by a man.
15 Never have I disgraced myself or my father's name,
    as long as we have lived in this land of exile.
My father has no other child to be his heir,
    and there is no relative[e] whom I can marry.
I have already lost seven husbands,
    so why should I live any longer?
But if it is not your will to take my life,
    at least show mercy to me.
Don't let me hear those insults again!
        [f]

God Hears the Prayers of Tobit and Sarah

16 As Tobit and Sarah were praying, God in heaven heard their prayers 17 (A)and sent his angel Raphael to help them. He was sent to remove the white film from Tobit's eyes, so that he could see again, and to arrange a marriage between Sarah and Tobit's son Tobias, who, as her cousin, had the right to marry her. Raphael was also ordered to expel the demon Asmodeus from Sarah. At the very moment that Tobit went back into his house from the courtyard, Sarah, in her house in Ecbatana, was coming downstairs.

Footnotes

  1. Tobit 3:2 merciful; some manuscripts add and just.
  2. Tobit 3:2 You are the judge of this world; some manuscripts have You are always fair and just when you judge.
  3. Tobit 3:3 My ancestors...disobeyed; some manuscripts have I disobeyed.
  4. Tobit 3:8 but...son; some manuscripts have but it hasn't done you a bit of good.
  5. Tobit 3:15 relative: In Israel it was customary to marry within one's own tribe.
  6. Tobit 3:15 at least...again; some manuscripts have at least listen to my complaint.
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