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Tobit's Prayer

I was so embarrassed and ashamed that I sighed and began to cry. Then, as I choked back my tears, I prayed:


        You are righteous, O Lord!
You are merciful[a] in all you do,
    faithful in all your ways.
You are the judge of this world.[b]
3-4     I beg you, treat me with kindness.
Do not punish me for my sins,
    not even for sins of which I am unaware.
My ancestors rebelled and disobeyed[c] your commands,
    but do not punish me for their sins.
You let our people be plundered,
    taken captive and killed.
You made an example of our people,
    an object of contempt and disgrace
    in all the nations where you scattered us.
You have often judged my ancestors for their sins
    and punished me for mine.
We were disloyal and rejected your commands,
    so our punishment has always been just.
Now treat me as you please.
Take my life away and free me from this world;
    let my body return to the earth.
    I would be better off dead.
I am tormented by insults I don't deserve,
    and weighed down with despair.
Lord, give the command—
    bring all my troubles to an end,
    take me to my eternal rest.
Don't reject my prayer.
I would rather die than live in misery
    and face such cruel insults.

Sarah's Troubles

That same day in the city of Ecbatana in Media, it happened that Sarah, the daughter of a man named Raguel, was insulted by one of her father's servant women. Sarah had been married seven times, but the evil demon, Asmodeus, killed each husband before the marriage could be consummated. The servant woman said to Sarah,

You husband killer! Look at you! You've already had seven husbands, but not one of them lived long enough to give you a son.[d] Why should you take it out on us? Why don't you go and join your dead husbands? I hope we never see a child of yours!

10 Sarah was so depressed that she burst into tears and went upstairs determined to hang herself. But when she thought it over, she said to herself,
    No, I won't do it! People would insult my father and say,
    You had only one child, a daughter whom you loved dearly, but she hanged herself because she felt so miserable. Such grief would bring my gray-haired father to his grave, and I would be responsible. I won't kill myself; I'll just beg the Lord to let me die. Then I won't have to listen to those insults any longer!

Sarah's Prayer

11 Then Sarah stood by the window, raised her arms in prayer, and said,

God of mercy, worthy of our praise,
    may your name always be honored,
    may all your creation praise you forever.
12 Lord, I look to you for help.
13 Speak the word and set me free from this life;
    then I will no longer have to hear these insults.
14 You know, O Lord, that I'm still a virgin;
    I have never been defiled by a man.
15 Never have I disgraced myself or my father's name,
    as long as we have lived in this land of exile.
My father has no other child to be his heir,
    and there is no relative[e] whom I can marry.
I have already lost seven husbands,
    so why should I live any longer?
But if it is not your will to take my life,
    at least show mercy to me.
Don't let me hear those insults again!
        [f]

God Hears the Prayers of Tobit and Sarah

16 As Tobit and Sarah were praying, God in heaven heard their prayers 17 (A)and sent his angel Raphael to help them. He was sent to remove the white film from Tobit's eyes, so that he could see again, and to arrange a marriage between Sarah and Tobit's son Tobias, who, as her cousin, had the right to marry her. Raphael was also ordered to expel the demon Asmodeus from Sarah. At the very moment that Tobit went back into his house from the courtyard, Sarah, in her house in Ecbatana, was coming downstairs.

Footnotes

  1. Tobit 3:2 merciful; some manuscripts add and just.
  2. Tobit 3:2 You are the judge of this world; some manuscripts have You are always fair and just when you judge.
  3. Tobit 3:3 My ancestors...disobeyed; some manuscripts have I disobeyed.
  4. Tobit 3:8 but...son; some manuscripts have but it hasn't done you a bit of good.
  5. Tobit 3:15 relative: In Israel it was customary to marry within one's own tribe.
  6. Tobit 3:15 at least...again; some manuscripts have at least listen to my complaint.

Tobit’s Prayer

Then with much grief and anguish of heart I wept, and with groaning I began to pray:

“You are righteous, O Lord,
    and all your deeds are just;
all your ways are mercy and truth;
    you judge the world.[a](A)
And now, O Lord, may you be mindful of me
    and look favorably upon me.
Do not punish me for my sins
    or for my unwitting offenses
    or for those of my ancestors.
They sinned against you(B)
    and disobeyed your commandments.
So you gave us over to plunder, exile, and death,
    to become the talk, the byword, and an object of reproach
    among all the nations among whom you have dispersed us.(C)
And now your many judgments are true
    in dealing with me according to my sins.
For we have not kept your commandments
    and have not walked in accordance with truth before you.
So now deal with me as you will;
    command my spirit to be taken from me,
    so that I may be released from the face of the earth and become dust.
For it is better for me to die than to live,
    because I have had to listen to undeserved insults,
    and great is the sorrow that attends me.
Command, O Lord, that I be released from this distress;
    release me to go to the place of eternity,
    and do not, O Lord, turn your face away from me.
For it is better for me to die
    than to see so much distress in my life
    and better not to listen to insults.”(D)

Sarah Falsely Accused

On the same day, at Ecbatana in Media, it also happened that Sarah, the daughter of Raguel, was reproached by one of her father’s female slaves.(E) For she had been married to seven husbands, and the wicked demon Asmodeus had killed each of them before they had been with her as is customary for wives. So the female slave said to her, “You are the one who kills[b] your husbands! See, you have already been married to seven husbands and have not borne the name of[c] a single one of them.(F) Why do you beat us? Because your husbands are dead? Go with them! May we never see a son or daughter of yours!”

Sarah’s Prayer for Death

10 Overcome with emotion at that time, she wept and went up to her father’s upper room, intending to hang herself. But she thought it over and said, “Let no one ever reproach my father, saying to him, ‘You had only one beloved daughter, and she hanged herself out of distress!’[d] I would bring my father in his old age down in sorrow to Hades. It is better for me not to hang myself but to beg the Lord that I may die, so that I will not have to listen to these reproaches for the rest of my life.”(G) 11 At that same time, with hands outstretched toward the window, she prayed and said,

“Blessed are you, merciful God!
    Blessed is your name[e] forever;
    let all your works bless you forever.(H)
12 And now,[f] my face is toward you,
    and I have raised my eyes.(I)
13 Command that I be released from the earth
    and not listen to such reproaches any more.
14 You know, O Master, that I am innocent[g]
    of any defilement with a man
15 and that I have not disgraced my name
    or the name of my father in the land of my exile.
I am my father’s only child;
    he has no other child to be his heir,
and he has no close relative or other kindred
    for whom I should keep myself as wife.
Already seven husbands of mine have died.
    Why should I still live?
But if it is not pleasing to you, O Lord, to take my life,
    hear me in my disgrace.”

An Answer to Prayer

16 At that very moment, the prayers of both of them were heard in the glorious presence of God. 17 So Raphael was sent to heal both of them: Tobit by removing the white films from his eyes, so that he might see God’s light with his eyes,[h] and Sarah, daughter of Raguel, by giving her in marriage to Tobias son of Tobit, and by setting her free from the wicked demon Asmodeus. For Tobias was entitled to have her before all others who had desired to marry her. At the same time that Tobit returned from the courtyard into his house, Sarah daughter of Raguel came down from her upper room.(J)

Footnotes

  1. 3.2 Other ancient authorities read you render true and righteous judgment forever
  2. 3.8 Other ancient authorities read strangles
  3. 3.8 Other ancient authorities read have had no benefit from
  4. 3.10 Other ancient authorities lack out of distress
  5. 3.11 Other ancient authorities add holy and honorable
  6. 3.12 Other ancient authorities add Lord
  7. 3.14 Q ms adds in my bones
  8. 3.17 Other ancient authorities lack with his eyes

Then Tobias sighed, and began to pray with tears,

Saying: Thou art just, O Lord, and all thy judgments are just, and all thy ways mercy, and truth, and judgment:

And now, O Lord, think of me, and take not revenge of my sins, neither remember my offenses, nor those of my parents.

For we have not obeyed thy commandments, therefore are we delivered to spoil and to captivity, and death, and are made a fable, and a reproach to all nations, amongst which thou hast scattered us.

And now, O Lord, great are thy judgments, because we have not done according to thy precepts, and have not walked sincerely before thee:

And now, O Lord, do with me according to thy will, and command my spirit to be received in peace: for it is better for me to die, than to live.

Now it happened on the same day, that Sara daughter of Raguel, in Rages a city of the Medes, received a reproach from one of her father's servant maids,

Because she had been given to seven husbands, and a devil named Asmodeus had killed them, at their first going in unto her.

So when she reproved the maid for her fault, she answered her, saying: May we never see son, or daughter of thee upon the earth, thou murderer of thy husbands.

10 Wilt thou kill me also, as thou hast already killed seven husbands? At these words she went into an upper chamber of her house: and for three days and three nights did neither eat nor drink:

11 But continuing in prayer with tears besought God, that he would deliver her from this reproach.

12 And it came to pass on the third day, when she was making an end of her prayer, blessing the Lord,

13 She said: Blessed is thy name, O God of our fathers: who when thou hast been angry, wilt shew mercy, and in the time of tribulation forgivest the sins of them that call upon thee.

14 To thee, O Lord, I turn my face, to thee I direct my eyes.

15 I beg, O Lord, that thou loose me from the bond of this reproach, or else take me away from the earth.

16 Thou knowest, O Lord, that I never coveted a husband, and have kept my soul clean from all lust.

17 Never have I joined myself with them that play: neither have I made myself partaker with them that walk in lightness.

18 But a husband I consented to take, with thy fear, not with my lust.

19 And either I was unworthy of them, or they perhaps were not worthy of me: because perhaps thou hast kept me for another man.

20 For thy counsel is not in man's power.

21 But this every one is sure of that worshippeth thee, that his life, if it be under trial, shall be crowned: and if it be under tribulation, it shall be delivered: and if it be under correction, it shall be allowed to come to thy mercy.

22 For thou art not delighted in our being lost: because after a storm thou makest a calm, and after tears and weeping thou pourest in joyfulness.

23 Be thy name, O God of Israel, blessed for ever.

24 At that time the prayers of them both were heard in the sight of the glory of the most high God:

25 And the holy angel of the Lord, Raphael was sent to heal them both, whose prayers at one time were rehearsed in the sight of the Lord.

Chapter 3

Then sad at heart, I groaned and wept aloud. With sobs I began to pray:[a]

Tobit’s Prayer for Death

“You are righteous, Lord,
    and all your deeds are just;
All your ways are mercy and fidelity;
    you are judge of the world.(A)
And now, Lord, be mindful of me
    and look with favor upon me.
Do not punish me for my sins,
    or for my inadvertent offenses,
    or for those of my ancestors.(B)

“They sinned against you,
    and disobeyed your commandments.
So you handed us over to plunder, captivity, and death,
    to become an object lesson, a byword, and a reproach
    in all the nations among whom you scattered us.(C)

“Yes, your many judgments are right
    in dealing with me as my sins,
    and those of my ancestors, deserve.
For we have neither kept your commandments,
    nor walked in fidelity before you.

“So now, deal with me as you please;
    command my life breath to be taken from me,
    that I may depart from the face of the earth and become dust.
It is better for me to die than to live,[b]
    because I have listened to undeserved reproaches,
    and great is the grief within me.(D)

“Lord, command that I be released from such anguish;
    let me go to my everlasting abode;
    Do not turn your face away from me, Lord.
For it is better for me to die
    than to endure so much misery in life,
    and to listen to such reproaches!”

II. Sarah’s Plight

Sarah Falsely Accused. [c]On that very day, at Ecbatana in Media, it so happened that Raguel’s daughter Sarah also had to listen to reproaches from one of her father’s maids. For she had been given in marriage to seven husbands, but the wicked demon Asmodeus[d] kept killing them off before they could have intercourse with her, as is prescribed for wives. The maid said to her: “You are the one who kills your husbands! Look! You have already been given in marriage to seven husbands, but you do not bear the name of a single one of them. Why do you beat us? Because your husbands are dead? Go, join them! May we never see son or daughter of yours!”

10 That day Sarah was sad at heart. She went in tears to an upstairs room in her father’s house and wanted to hang herself. But she reconsidered, saying to herself: “No! May people never reproach my father and say to him, ‘You had only one beloved daughter, but she hanged herself because of her misfortune.’ And thus would I bring my father laden with sorrow in his old age to Hades. It is far better for me not to hang myself, but to beg the Lord that I might die, and no longer have to listen to such reproaches in my lifetime.”(E)

11 At that same time, with hands outstretched toward the window,[e] she implored favor:

Sarah’s Prayer for Death

“Blessed are you, merciful God!
    Blessed be your holy and honorable name forever!
    May all your works forever bless you.(F)
12 Now to you, Lord, I have turned my face
    and have lifted up my eyes.
13 Bid me to depart from the earth,
    never again to listen to such reproaches.

14 “You know, Master, that I am clean
    of any defilement with a man.
15 I have never sullied my own name
    or my father’s name in the land of my captivity.

“I am my father’s only daughter,
    and he has no other child to be his heir,
Nor does he have a kinsman or close relative
    whose wife I should wait to become.
Seven husbands of mine have already died.
    Why then should I live any longer?
But if it does not please you, Lord, to take my life,
    look favorably upon me and have pity on me,
    that I may never again listen to such reproaches!”

An Answer to Prayer. 16 At that very time, the prayer of both of them was heard in the glorious presence of God. 17 (G)So Raphael was sent to heal them both: to remove the white scales from Tobit’s eyes, so that he might again see with his own eyes God’s light; and to give Sarah, the daughter of Raguel, as a wife to Tobiah, the son of Tobit, and to rid her of the wicked demon Asmodeus. For it fell to Tobiah’s lot[f] to claim her before any others who might wish to marry her.

At that very moment Tobit turned from the courtyard to his house, and Raguel’s daughter Sarah came down from the upstairs room.

Footnotes

  1. 3:1 Pray: prayer is a significant theme, occurring at six major turning points in the story (3:2–6, 11–15; 8:5–8, 15–17; 11:14–15; 13:1–18).
  2. 3:6 It is better for me to die than to live: in his distress Tobit uses the words of the petulant Jonah (Jon 4:3, 8), who wished to die because God did not destroy the hated Ninevites. In similar circumstances, Moses (Nm 11:15), Elijah (1 Kgs 19:4), and Job (Jb 7:15) also prayed for death. Everlasting abode: a reference to Sheol, the dismal abode of the dead from which no one returns (Jb 7:9–10; 14:12; Is 26:14). See note on Tb 4:6.
  3. 3:7 From here on, the story is told in the third person. Verse 7 relates one of the several marvelous coincidences that the storyteller uses to suggest divine providence; see also vv. 16–17; 4:1; 5:4. Ecbatana: Hamadan in modern Iran; this was the capital of ancient Media. Raguel: the Greek form of the Hebrew name Re‘u’el, “friend of God.”
  4. 3:8 Asmodeus: in Persian aeshma daeva, “demon of wrath,” adopted into Aramaic with the sense of “the Destroyer.” It will be subdued (8:3) by Raphael (v. 17), whose name means “God has healed.”
  5. 3:11 Toward the window: that is, looking in prayer toward Jerusalem; cf. Dn 6:11. “Blessed are you” and “Blessed be God” are traditional openings of Jewish prayers (Tb 8:5, 15; 11:14; 13:1).
  6. 3:17 It fell to Tobiah’s lot: according to the patriarchal custom of marriage within the family group. Tobiah was Sarah’s closest eligible relative (6:12). Cf. 4:12–13; Gn 24:4; 28:2; Ru 3:9–12; 4:1–12.