30 He who loves his son will whip him often,
    so that he may rejoice at the way he turns out.^(A)

⁹ Pamper a child, and he will terrorize you;
    play with him, and he will grieve you.

¹³ Discipline your son and make his yoke heavy,^[a]
    so that you may not be offended by his shamelessness.^(A)