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Table Etiquette

12 [a]Are you seated at the table of the great?[b]
    Do not be greedy at it,
    and do not say, “How much food there is here!”(A)
13 Remember that a greedy eye is a bad thing.
    What has been created more greedy than the eye?
    Therefore it covers the face with tears.(B)
14 Do not reach out your hand for everything you see,
    and do not crowd your neighbor[c] at the dish.(C)
15 Judge your neighbor’s feelings by your own,
    and in every matter be thoughtful.(D)
16 Eat what is set before you like a well brought-up person,[d]
    and do not chew greedily, or you will be despised.(E)
17 Be the first to stop, as befits good manners,
    and do not be insatiable, or you will give offense.
18 If you are seated among many persons,
    do not help yourself[e] before they do.(F)

19 How ample a little is for the well-disciplined!
    They do not breathe heavily when in bed.
20 Healthy sleep depends on moderate eating;
    they rise early and feel fit.
The distress of sleeplessness and of nausea
    and colic are with the glutton.(G)
21 If you are overstuffed with food,
    get up to vomit, and you will have relief.
22 Listen to me, my child, and do not disregard me,
    and in the end you will appreciate my words.
In everything you do be moderate,[f]
    and no sickness will overtake you.
23 People bless those who are liberal with food,
    and the testimony to their generosity is trustworthy.(H)
24 The city complains of those who are stingy with food,
    and the testimony to their stinginess is accurate.(I)

Temperance in Drinking Wine

25 Do not try to prove your strength by wine-drinking,
    for wine has destroyed many.(J)
26 As the furnace tests the work of the smith,[g]
    so wine tests hearts when the insolent quarrel.(K)
27 Wine is very life to humans
    if taken in moderation.
What is life to one who is without wine?
    It has been created to make people happy.(L)
28 Wine drunk at the proper time and in moderation
    is rejoicing of heart and gladness of soul.(M)
29 Wine drunk to excess leads to bitterness of spirit,
    to quarrels and stumbling.(N)
30 Drunkenness increases the anger of fools to their own hurt,
    reducing their strength and adding wounds.(O)
31 Do not reprove your neighbors at a banquet of wine,
    and do not despise them in their merrymaking;
speak no word of reproach to them,
    and do not distress them by making demands of them.(P)

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Footnotes

  1. 31.12 Some ancient authorities add the title Concerning Food
  2. 31.12 Heb Syr: Gk at a great table
  3. 31.14 Gk him
  4. 31.16 Heb: Gk like a human being
  5. 31.18 Gk reach out your hand
  6. 31.22 Heb Syr: Gk industrious
  7. 31.26 Heb: Gk tests the hardening of steel by dipping

Table Etiquette

12 Are you seated at the table of the great?[a]
    Do not be greedy at it,
    and do not say, ‘How much food there is here!’
13 Remember that a greedy eye is a bad thing.
    What has been created more greedy than the eye?
    Therefore it sheds tears for any reason.
14 Do not reach out your hand for everything you see,
    and do not crowd your neighbour[b] at the dish.
15 Judge your neighbour’s feelings by your own,
    and in every matter be thoughtful.
16 Eat what is set before you like a well-bred person,[c]
    and do not chew greedily, or you will give offence.
17 Be the first to stop, as befits good manners,
    and do not be insatiable, or you will give offence.
18 If you are seated among many others,
    do not help yourself[d] before they do.

19 How ample a little is for a well-disciplined person!
    He does not breathe heavily when in bed.
20 Healthy sleep depends on moderate eating;
    he rises early, and feels fit.
The distress of sleeplessness and of nausea
    and colic are with the glutton.
21 If you are overstuffed with food,
    get up to vomit, and you will have relief.
22 Listen to me, my child, and do not disregard me,
    and in the end you will appreciate my words.
In everything you do be moderate,[e]
    and no sickness will overtake you.
23 People bless someone who is liberal with food,
    and their testimony to his generosity is trustworthy.
24 The city complains of someone who is stingy with food,
    and their testimony to his stinginess is accurate.

Temperance in Drinking Wine

25 Do not try to prove your strength by wine-drinking,
    for wine has destroyed many.
26 As the furnace tests the work of the smith,[f]
    so wine tests hearts when the insolent quarrel.
27 Wine is very life to human beings
    if taken in moderation.
What is life to one who is without wine?
    It has been created to make people happy.
28 Wine drunk at the proper time and in moderation
    is rejoicing of heart and gladness of soul.
29 Wine drunk to excess leads to bitterness of spirit,
    to quarrels and stumbling.
30 Drunkenness increases the anger of a fool to his own hurt,
    reducing his strength and adding wounds.
31 Do not reprove your neighbour at a banquet of wine,
    and do not despise him in his merrymaking;
speak no word of reproach to him,
    and do not distress him by making demands of him.

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Footnotes

  1. Sirach 31:12 Heb Syr: Gk at a great table
  2. Sirach 31:14 Gk him
  3. Sirach 31:16 Heb: Gk like a human being
  4. Sirach 31:18 Gk reach out your hand
  5. Sirach 31:22 Heb Syr: Gk industrious
  6. Sirach 31:26 Heb: Gk tests the hardening of steel by dipping

Table Etiquette

12 [a]Are you seated at the table of the great?[b]
    Do not be greedy at it,
    and do not say, “How much food there is here!”(A)
13 Remember that a greedy eye is a bad thing.
    What has been created more greedy than the eye?
    Therefore it covers the face with tears.(B)
14 Do not reach out your hand for everything you see,
    and do not crowd your neighbor[c] at the dish.(C)
15 Judge your neighbor’s feelings by your own,
    and in every matter be thoughtful.(D)
16 Eat what is set before you like a well brought-up person,[d]
    and do not chew greedily, or you will be despised.(E)
17 Be the first to stop, as befits good manners,
    and do not be insatiable, or you will give offense.
18 If you are seated among many persons,
    do not help yourself[e] before they do.(F)

19 How ample a little is for the well-disciplined!
    They do not breathe heavily when in bed.
20 Healthy sleep depends on moderate eating;
    they rise early and feel fit.
The distress of sleeplessness and of nausea
    and colic are with the glutton.(G)
21 If you are overstuffed with food,
    get up to vomit, and you will have relief.
22 Listen to me, my child, and do not disregard me,
    and in the end you will appreciate my words.
In everything you do be moderate,[f]
    and no sickness will overtake you.
23 People bless those who are liberal with food,
    and the testimony to their generosity is trustworthy.(H)
24 The city complains of those who are stingy with food,
    and the testimony to their stinginess is accurate.(I)

Temperance in Drinking Wine

25 Do not try to prove your strength by wine-drinking,
    for wine has destroyed many.(J)
26 As the furnace tests the work of the smith,[g]
    so wine tests hearts when the insolent quarrel.(K)
27 Wine is very life to humans
    if taken in moderation.
What is life to one who is without wine?
    It has been created to make people happy.(L)
28 Wine drunk at the proper time and in moderation
    is rejoicing of heart and gladness of soul.(M)
29 Wine drunk to excess leads to bitterness of spirit,
    to quarrels and stumbling.(N)
30 Drunkenness increases the anger of fools to their own hurt,
    reducing their strength and adding wounds.(O)
31 Do not reprove your neighbors at a banquet of wine,
    and do not despise them in their merrymaking;
speak no word of reproach to them,
    and do not distress them by making demands of them.(P)

Read full chapter

Footnotes

  1. 31.12 Some ancient authorities add the title Concerning Food
  2. 31.12 Heb Syr: Gk at a great table
  3. 31.14 Gk him
  4. 31.16 Heb: Gk like a human being
  5. 31.18 Gk reach out your hand
  6. 31.22 Heb Syr: Gk industrious
  7. 31.26 Heb: Gk tests the hardening of steel by dipping

Table Etiquette

12 Are you seated at the table of the great?[a]
    Do not be greedy at it,
    and do not say, ‘How much food there is here!’
13 Remember that a greedy eye is a bad thing.
    What has been created more greedy than the eye?
    Therefore it sheds tears for any reason.
14 Do not reach out your hand for everything you see,
    and do not crowd your neighbour[b] at the dish.
15 Judge your neighbour’s feelings by your own,
    and in every matter be thoughtful.
16 Eat what is set before you like a well-bred person,[c]
    and do not chew greedily, or you will give offence.
17 Be the first to stop, as befits good manners,
    and do not be insatiable, or you will give offence.
18 If you are seated among many others,
    do not help yourself[d] before they do.

19 How ample a little is for a well-disciplined person!
    He does not breathe heavily when in bed.
20 Healthy sleep depends on moderate eating;
    he rises early, and feels fit.
The distress of sleeplessness and of nausea
    and colic are with the glutton.
21 If you are overstuffed with food,
    get up to vomit, and you will have relief.
22 Listen to me, my child, and do not disregard me,
    and in the end you will appreciate my words.
In everything you do be moderate,[e]
    and no sickness will overtake you.
23 People bless someone who is liberal with food,
    and their testimony to his generosity is trustworthy.
24 The city complains of someone who is stingy with food,
    and their testimony to his stinginess is accurate.

Temperance in Drinking Wine

25 Do not try to prove your strength by wine-drinking,
    for wine has destroyed many.
26 As the furnace tests the work of the smith,[f]
    so wine tests hearts when the insolent quarrel.
27 Wine is very life to human beings
    if taken in moderation.
What is life to one who is without wine?
    It has been created to make people happy.
28 Wine drunk at the proper time and in moderation
    is rejoicing of heart and gladness of soul.
29 Wine drunk to excess leads to bitterness of spirit,
    to quarrels and stumbling.
30 Drunkenness increases the anger of a fool to his own hurt,
    reducing his strength and adding wounds.
31 Do not reprove your neighbour at a banquet of wine,
    and do not despise him in his merrymaking;
speak no word of reproach to him,
    and do not distress him by making demands of him.

Read full chapter

Footnotes

  1. Sirach 31:12 Heb Syr: Gk at a great table
  2. Sirach 31:14 Gk him
  3. Sirach 31:16 Heb: Gk like a human being
  4. Sirach 31:18 Gk reach out your hand
  5. Sirach 31:22 Heb Syr: Gk industrious
  6. Sirach 31:26 Heb: Gk tests the hardening of steel by dipping