Sirach 31:12-18
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Table Etiquette
12 [a]Are you seated at the table of the great?[b]
Do not be greedy at it,
and do not say, “How much food there is here!”(A)
13 Remember that a greedy eye is a bad thing.
What has been created more greedy than the eye?
Therefore it covers the face with tears.(B)
14 Do not reach out your hand for everything you see,
and do not crowd your neighbor[c] at the dish.(C)
15 Judge your neighbor’s feelings by your own,
and in every matter be thoughtful.(D)
16 Eat what is set before you like a well brought-up person,[d]
and do not chew greedily, or you will be despised.(E)
17 Be the first to stop, as befits good manners,
and do not be insatiable, or you will give offense.
18 If you are seated among many persons,
do not help yourself[e] before they do.(F)
Sirach 31:25-31
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Temperance in Drinking Wine
25 Do not try to prove your strength by wine-drinking,
for wine has destroyed many.(A)
26 As the furnace tests the work of the smith,[a]
so wine tests hearts when the insolent quarrel.(B)
27 Wine is very life to humans
if taken in moderation.
What is life to one who is without wine?
It has been created to make people happy.(C)
28 Wine drunk at the proper time and in moderation
is rejoicing of heart and gladness of soul.(D)
29 Wine drunk to excess leads to bitterness of spirit,
to quarrels and stumbling.(E)
30 Drunkenness increases the anger of fools to their own hurt,
reducing their strength and adding wounds.(F)
31 Do not reprove your neighbors at a banquet of wine,
and do not despise them in their merrymaking;
speak no word of reproach to them,
and do not distress them by making demands of them.(G)
Footnotes
- 31.26 Heb: Gk tests the hardening of steel by dipping
Sirach 32:1-2
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Etiquette at a Banquet
32 If they make you master of the feast, do not exalt yourself;
be among them as one of their number.
Take care of them first and then sit down;(A)
2 when you have fulfilled all your duties, take your place,
so that you may be merry along with them
and receive a wreath for your excellent leadership.
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