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because the lips of an immoral woman drip with honey,
and her words are[a] as smooth as olive oil,
but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood[b]
and as sharp as a double-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death.
Her steps lead to hell.[c]
She gives no thought to the path of life.[d]
Her ways wander, but she doesn’t realize it.
Now, you sons, listen to me.
Do not turn away from the words of my mouth.
Keep your way far from her.
Do not go near the doorway of her house.
If you do, you will give your wealth to others
and your years to a cruel person.
10 If you do, your work will satisfy strangers,
and the results of your labor will end up in another man’s house.
11 You will groan when your end comes,
when your body and flesh are consumed.
12 Then you will say, “Oh, how I hated discipline,
and my heart despised warnings!
13 I did not listen to my teachers’ voices,
and I did not open my ears to hear my instructors.
14 I soon[e] reached total ruin
in the midst of the assembly of the community.”

Encouragement to Faithfulness in Marriage

15 Drink water from your own cistern.
Drink running water from your own well.
16 Why should the water from your springs flow out into the street,
your streams of water into the public squares?
17 They should be yours, yours alone.
They are not for strangers to share with you.
18 Let your fountain be blessed.
Obtain your joy from the wife you married in your youth,
19     who is a loving doe and a graceful deer.
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times.
Always be intoxicated with her love.
20 Why should you be led astray, my son, by an immoral woman?
Why embrace a woman who is not your wife?
21 For the ways of a man are in front of the eyes of the Lord,
and he weighs all of his paths.
22 The evil deeds of the wicked man will capture him,
and he will be bound by the ropes of his sin.
23 He will die for lack of discipline,
and he will go astray because of his great stupidity.

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Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 5:3 Literally her palate is
  2. Proverbs 5:4 Wormwood is a toxic, bitter-tasting drink (absinthe).
  3. Proverbs 5:5 Or the grave. The Hebrew word is sheol.
  4. Proverbs 5:6 Or she does not make the paths of life level
  5. Proverbs 5:14 Or almost

Ninth Address to a Son:
Avoid Sexual Immorality

20 My son, keep your father’s commands,
and do not forsake your mother’s teachings.
21 Fasten them permanently to your heart,
and tie them around your neck.
22 When you walk around, they will lead you.
When you lie down, they will stand guard over you.
When you wake up, they will converse with you,
23 because a command is a lamp, teaching is a light,
and the warnings given by discipline are a road to life.
24 They guard you from an evil woman,
from the smooth tongue of a woman who is not your wife.
25 Do not desire her beauty in your heart.
Do not let her captivate you with her eyes.
26 A prostitute costs you a loaf of bread,
but a married woman stalks your precious life.
27 Can a man place fire on his lap
    without burning his clothes?
28 Can a man walk on hot coals
    without scorching his feet?
29 So it is with the man who goes to his neighbor’s wife.
No one who touches her will be forgiven.
30 No one despises a thief when he steals
    to satisfy his hunger when he is starving,
31 but when he is caught, he will have to repay seven times as much.
He will have to give up all the wealth of his house.
32 Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks sense.
He who does it destroys himself.
33 He will find disease and dishonor,
and his disgrace will never be wiped out,
34 because jealousy ignites a husband’s anger,
and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.
35 He will not accept any amount as a payment.
He will not relent, even if you increase your offer.

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Say to Wisdom, “You are my sister,”
and call Understanding your relative.[a]
She will keep you safe from an immoral woman,
from an unfaithful woman and her seductive words.

Wisdom’s Warning

At a window of my house, I looked out through the lattice.
I was watching the gullible[b] people.
Among the young men I noticed a youth without sense.
He was crossing the street near her corner,
strolling along the road to her house,
in the twilight, in the evening of the day,
when the darkness of the night was coming.[c]
10 Suddenly a woman meets him.
She is dressed like a prostitute with a scheming heart!
11 She is loud and rebellious.
Her feet will not stay home.
12 One moment she is in the street.
The next moment she is in the public square.
She is on the prowl near every corner.
13 She grabs him and kisses him.
With a brazen face she says,
14 “I have food from fellowship offerings.
Today I fulfilled my vows.
15 That is why I came out to meet you.
I came eagerly to seek you,
and now I have found you!
16 I have covered my couch with a bedspread,
with colored cloth made of Egyptian yarn.
17 I have perfumed my bed
    with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let’s drink our fill of love[d] until morning.
Let’s enjoy making love.
19 Look, my husband isn’t home.
He has gone on a long trip.
20 He took a bag of silver with him.
He will not come home till the next full moon.”
21 She deceives him with enticing words.
With smooth lips she seduces him.
22 He follows right after her,
like a steer going to slaughter,
like a deer prancing into a noose,[e]
23     until an arrow pierces its liver,
like a bird darting into a trap.
He does not realize this will cost him his life.
24 Now, you sons, listen to me.
Pay attention to the words from my mouth.
25 Do not let your heart turn in her direction.
Do not wander on her pathways,
26 because she has brought down many victims.
Those she has killed are countless.
27 Her house is on the road to the grave.[f]
It goes down to the chambers of death.

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Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 7:4 Or close friend
  2. Proverbs 7:7 Or naïve
  3. Proverbs 7:9 Literally in the pupil of the night and darkness
  4. Proverbs 7:18 The Hebrew word refers to physical expressions of love.
  5. Proverbs 7:22 The ancient versions support the translation. The Hebrew text reads like an anklet to the discipline of a fool. Reading the word for fool as the very similar word for deer leads to the translation above. The context seems to require the trapping of an animal.
  6. Proverbs 7:27 Or on the highway to hell. The Hebrew word is sheol.

14 The mouth of an immoral woman is a deep pit.
The man who is under the Lord’s wrath will fall there.

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26 My son, give me your heart,
and let your eyes be pleased with my ways,
27 because a prostitute is a deep pit,
and an immoral woman is a narrow well.
28 She is also like a robber waiting to ambush someone,
and she multiplies unfaithful men among the people.

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20 This is the way of a woman who commits adultery:
She eats and wipes her mouth,
and she says, “I haven’t done anything wrong.”

21 Three things make the earth tremble.
There are four things it cannot endure:
22 a servant when he becomes king,
    an arrogant fool when he is filled with food,
23 a woman who is hated when she is married,
    and a slave girl when she replaces her master’s wife.

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Do not give your strength to women.
Do not give your ways to those who destroy kings.

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