26 He who gives an honest answer
gives a kiss on the lips.

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26 Those who speak honestly
    are like those who kiss on the lips.

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Don’t take a matter to court hastily.(A)
Otherwise, what will you do afterward
if your opponent[a] humiliates you?
Make your case with your opponent[b]
without revealing another’s secret;(B)
10 otherwise, the one who hears will disgrace you,
and you’ll never live it down.[c]

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  1. Proverbs 25:8 Or neighbor
  2. Proverbs 25:9 Or neighbor
  3. Proverbs 25:10 Lit and your evil report will not turn back

don’t be quick to quarrel over;
    what will you do in the future when your neighbor shames you?
Argue it out with your neighbor,
    and don’t give away someone’s secret.
10 Otherwise, the one who hears it will vilify you;
    the slander against you will never stop.

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11 A word spoken at the right time
is like gold apples on a silver tray.[a](A)
12 A wise correction to a receptive ear(B)
is like a gold ring or an ornament of gold.

13 To those who send him, a trustworthy messenger
is like the coolness of snow on a harvest day;
he refreshes the life of his masters.(C)

14 The man who boasts about a gift that does not exist
is like clouds and wind without rain.(D)
15 A ruler can be persuaded through patience,
and a gentle tongue can break a bone.(E)

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  1. Proverbs 25:11 Or like apples of gold in settings of silver

11 Words spoken at the right time
    are like gold apples in a silver setting.
12 Wise correction to an ear that listens
    is like a gold earring or jewelry of fine gold.

13 Like the coolness of snow on a harvest day
    are reliable messengers to those who send them;
    they restore the life of their master.
14 People who brag about a gift never given
    are like clouds and wind that produce no rain.
15 A commander can be persuaded with patience,
    and a tender tongue can break a bone.

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20 Singing songs to a troubled heart
is like taking off clothing on a cold day
or like pouring vinegar on soda.[a](A)

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  1. Proverbs 25:20 Lit natron, or sodium carbonate

20 Singing a song to a troubled heart
    is like taking off a garment on a cold day
    or putting vinegar on a wound.[a]

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  1. Proverbs 25:20 LXX; MT vinegar on natron (a detergent)

Don’t answer a fool according to his foolishness(A)
or you’ll be like him yourself.
Answer a fool according to his foolishness(B)
or he’ll become wise in his own eyes.(C)

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Don’t answer fools according to their folly,
    or you will become like them yourself.
Answer fools according to their folly,
    or they will deem themselves wise.

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17 A person who is passing by and meddles in a quarrel that’s not his
is like one who grabs a dog by the ears.

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17     Like yanking the ears of a dog,
    so is one who passes by and gets involved in another person’s fight.

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18 Like a madman who throws flaming darts and deadly arrows,(A)
19 so is the man who deceives his neighbor
and says, “I was only joking!”

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18 Like a crazy person shooting deadly flaming arrows
19     are those who deceive their neighbor and say, “Hey, I was only joking!”

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23 One who rebukes a person will later find more favor(A)
than one who flatters[a] with his tongue.(B)

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  1. Proverbs 28:23 Lit is smooth

23 Those who correct someone will, in the end, find more favor
    than those with flattering tongues.

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20 Do you see a man who speaks too soon?(A)
There is more hope for a fool than for him.(B)

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20 Do you see people who are quick to speak?
    There is more hope for fools than for them.

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