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23 When you sit down to eat with someone important, keep in mind who he is.[a] If you have a big appetite, restrain yourself. Don't be greedy for the fine food he serves; he may be trying to trick you.

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Be wise enough not to wear yourself out trying to get rich. Your money can be gone in a flash, as if it had grown wings and flown away like an eagle.

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Don't eat at the table of a stingy person or be greedy for the fine food he serves. “Come on and have some more,” he says, but he doesn't mean it. What he thinks is what he really is. You will vomit up what you have eaten, and all your flattery will be wasted.

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Don't try to talk sense to a fool; he can't appreciate it.

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10 Never move an old property line or take over land owned by orphans. 11 The Lord is their powerful defender, and he will argue their case against you.

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12 Pay attention to your teacher and learn all you can.

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13 Don't hesitate to discipline children. A good spanking won't kill them. 14 As a matter of fact, it may save their lives.

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15 My child, if you become wise, I will be very happy. 16 I will be proud when I hear you speaking words of wisdom.

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17 Don't be envious of sinful people; let reverence for the Lord be the concern of your life. 18 If it is, you have a bright future.

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19 Listen, my child, be wise and give serious thought to the way you live. 20 Don't associate with people who drink too much wine or stuff themselves with food. 21 Drunkards and gluttons will be reduced to poverty. If all you do is eat and sleep, you will soon be wearing rags.

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22 Listen to your father; without him you would not exist. When your mother is old, show her your appreciation.

23 Truth, wisdom, learning, and good sense—these are worth paying for, but too valuable for you to sell.

24 A righteous person's parents have good reason to be happy. You can take pride in a wise child.

25 Let your father and mother be proud of you; give your mother that happiness.

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26 Pay close attention, son, and let my life be your example. 27 Prostitutes and immoral women are a deadly trap. 28 They wait for you like robbers and cause many men to be unfaithful.

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29-30 Show me people who drink too much, who have to try out fancy drinks, and I will show you people who are miserable and sorry for themselves, always causing trouble and always complaining. Their eyes are bloodshot, and they have bruises that could have been avoided. 31 Don't let wine tempt you, even though it is rich red, and it sparkles in the cup, and it goes down smoothly. 32 The next morning you will feel as if you had been bitten by a poisonous snake. 33 Weird sights will appear before your eyes, and you will not be able to think or speak clearly. 34 You will feel as if you were out on the ocean, seasick, swinging high up in the rigging of a tossing ship. 35 “I must have been hit,” you will say; “I must have been beaten up, but I don't remember it. Why can't I wake up? I need another drink.”

Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 23:1 keep … is; or notice carefully what is before you.

23 When you sit down to eat with an official,
    observe carefully what[a] is before you,
and put a knife to your throat
    if you have a big appetite.
Do not desire an official’s[b] delicacies,
    for they are deceptive food.(A)
Do not wear yourself out to get rich;
    be wise enough to desist.(B)
When your eyes light upon it, it is gone,
    for suddenly it takes wings to itself,
    flying like an eagle toward heaven.
Do not eat the bread of the stingy;
    do not desire their delicacies,(C)
for like a hair in the throat, so are they.[c]
    “Eat and drink!” they say to you,
    but they do not mean it.(D)
You will vomit up the little you have eaten,
    and you will waste your pleasant words.
Do not speak in the hearing of a fool,
    who will only despise the wisdom of your words.(E)
10 Do not remove an ancient landmark
    or encroach on the fields of orphans,(F)
11 for their vindicator[d] is strong;
    he will plead their cause against you.(G)
12 Apply your mind to instruction
    and your ear to words of knowledge.(H)
13 Do not withhold discipline from your children;
    if you beat them with a rod, they will not die.(I)
14 If you beat them with the rod,
    you will save their lives from Sheol.
15 My child, if your heart is wise,
    my heart also will be glad.
16 My soul will rejoice
    when your lips speak what is right.
17 Do not let your heart envy sinners,
    but always continue in the fear of the Lord.(J)
18 Surely there is a future,
    and your hope will not be cut off.

19 Hear, my child, and be wise,
    and direct your mind in the way.
20 Do not be among winebibbers
    or among gluttonous eaters of meat,(K)
21 for the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty,
    and drowsiness will clothe them with rags.(L)

22 Listen to your father who begot you,
    and do not despise your mother when she is old.(M)
23 Buy truth, and do not sell it;
    buy wisdom, instruction, and understanding.(N)
24 The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice;
    he who fathers a wise son will be glad in him.(O)
25 Let your father and mother be glad;
    let her who bore you rejoice.

26 My child, give me your heart,
    and let your eyes observe[e] my ways.(P)
27 For a prostitute is a deep pit;
    an adulteress[f] is a narrow well.(Q)
28 She lies in wait like a robber
    and increases the number of the faithless.(R)

29 Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
    Who has strife? Who has complaining?
Who has wounds without cause?
    Who has redness of eyes?(S)
30 Those who linger late over wine,
    those who keep trying mixed wines.(T)
31 Do not look at wine when it is red,
    when it sparkles in the cup
    and goes down smoothly.
32 At the last it bites like a serpent
    and stings like an adder.
33 Your eyes will see strange things,
    and your mind utter perverse things.(U)
34 You will be like one who lies down in the midst of the sea,
    like one who lies on the top of a mast.[g]
35 “They struck me,” you will say,[h] “but I was not hurt;
    they beat me, but I did not feel it.
When shall I awake?
    I will seek another drink.”(V)

Footnotes

  1. 23.1 Or who
  2. 23.3 Heb his
  3. 23.7 Meaning of Heb uncertain
  4. 23.11 Or redeemer
  5. 23.26 Or delight in
  6. 23.27 Heb alien woman
  7. 23.34 Meaning of Heb uncertain
  8. 23.35 Gk Syr Vg Tg: Heb lacks you will say

23 When you sit down to dine with a ruler,
    think carefully about who is before you.
If you have a big appetite,
    put a knife to your throat!
Don’t be greedy for his delicacies,
    for they are deceptive food.
Don’t exhaust yourself in pursuit of wealth;
    be smart enough to desist.
If you make your eyes rush at it,
    it’s no longer there!
For wealth will surely grow wings,
    like an eagle flying off to the sky.

Don’t eat the food of a stingy man;
    don’t be greedy for his delicacies.
For he is like someone who keeps accounts —
“Eat! Drink!” he says to you,
    but he doesn’t really mean it.
The little you eat you will vomit up,
    and your compliments will have been wasted.

Don’t speak in the ears of a fool,
    for he will only despise the common sense in your words.

10 Don’t move the ancient boundary stone
    or encroach on the land of the fatherless;
11 for their Redeemer is strong;
    he will take up their fight against you.

12 Apply your mind to discipline
    and your ears to words of knowledge.

13 Don’t withhold discipline from a child —
    if you beat him with a stick, he won’t die!
14 If you beat him with a stick,
    you will save him from Sh’ol.

15 My son, if your heart is wise,
    then my own heart too is glad;
16 my inmost being rejoices
    when your lips say what is right.

17 Don’t envy sinners, but follow the example
    of those who always fear God;
18 for then you will have a future;
    what you hope for will not be cut off.

19 You, my son: listen, be wise,
    and set your mind on the right way.

20 Don’t be one of those who guzzle wine
    or of those who eat meat to excess,
21 for both drunkard and glutton will become poor —
    drowsiness will clothe them with rags.
22 Listen to your father, who gave you life;
    and don’t despise your mother when she gets old.

23 Buy the truth, don’t sell it,
    also wisdom, discipline and discernment.

24 A righteous person’s father will be filled with joy;
    yes, he whose son is wise will rejoice in him.
25 So let your father and mother be glad;
    let her who gave you birth rejoice.

26 My son, give me your heart;
    let your eyes observe my ways.

27 A prostitute is a deep ditch,
    and a forbidden woman like a narrow well.
28 She lies in wait to snatch her prey
    and adds to the number of faithless men.

29 Who has misery? Who has regret?
    Who fights and complains all the time?
Who gets bruised for no good reason?
    Who has bloodshot eyes?
30 Those who spend their time over wine,
    those always trying out mixed drinks.
31 Don’t gaze at the red wine
    as it gives its color to the cup.
It may glide down smoothly now;
32     but in the end, it bites like a serpent —
    yes, it strikes like a poisonous snake.
33 Your eyes will see peculiar things,
    your mind will utter nonsense.
34 You will feel as if lying on the waves of the sea
    or sprawled on top of the mast —
35 “They hit me, but I didn’t feel it!
    They beat me up, and I didn’t even know it!
When will I wake up? . . .
    I’ll go get another drink.”

Restrain Yourself

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23 1-3 When you go out to dinner with an influential person,
    mind your manners:
Don’t gobble your food,
    don’t talk with your mouth full.
And don’t stuff yourself;
    bridle your appetite.

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4-5 Don’t wear yourself out trying to get rich;
    restrain yourself!
Riches disappear in the blink of an eye;
    wealth sprouts wings
    and flies off into the wild blue yonder.

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6-8 Don’t accept a meal from a tightwad;
    don’t expect anything special.
He’ll be as stingy with you as he is with himself;
    he’ll say, “Eat! Drink!” but won’t mean a word of it.
His miserly serving will turn your stomach
    when you realize the meal’s a sham.

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Don’t bother talking sense to fools;
    they’ll only poke fun at your words.

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10-11 Don’t stealthily move back the boundary lines
    or cheat orphans out of their property,
For they have a powerful Advocate
    who will go to bat for them.

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12 Give yourselves to disciplined instruction;
    open your ears to tested knowledge.

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13-14 Don’t be afraid to correct your young ones;
    a spanking won’t kill them.
A good spanking, in fact, might save them
    from something worse than death.

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15-16 Dear child, if you become wise,
    I’ll be one happy parent.
My heart will dance and sing
    to the tuneful truth you’ll speak.

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17-18 Don’t for a minute envy careless rebels;
    soak yourself in the Fear-of-God
That’s where your future lies.
    Then you won’t be left with an armload of nothing.

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19-21 Oh listen, dear child—become wise;
    point your life in the right direction.
Don’t drink too much wine and get drunk;
    don’t eat too much food and get fat.
Drunks and gluttons will end up on skid row,
    in a stupor and dressed in rags.

Buy Wisdom, Education, Insight

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22-25 Listen with respect to the father who raised you,
    and when your mother grows old, don’t neglect her.
Buy truth—don’t sell it for love or money;
    buy wisdom, buy education, buy insight.
Parents rejoice when their children turn out well;
    wise children become proud parents.
So make your father happy!
    Make your mother proud!

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26 Dear child, I want your full attention;
    please do what I show you.

27-28 A prostitute is a bottomless pit;
    a loose woman can get you in deep trouble fast.
She’ll take you for all you’ve got;
    she’s worse than a pack of thieves.

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29-35 Who are the people who are always crying the blues?
    Who do you know who reeks of self-pity?
Who keeps getting beaten up for no reason at all?
    Whose eyes are bleary and bloodshot?
It’s those who spend the night with a bottle,
    for whom drinking is serious business.
Don’t judge wine by its label,
    or its bouquet, or its full-bodied flavor.
Judge it rather by the hangover it leaves you with—
    the splitting headache, the queasy stomach.
Do you really prefer seeing double,
    with your speech all slurred,
Reeling and seasick,
    drunk as a sailor?
“They hit me,” you’ll say, “but it didn’t hurt;
    they beat on me, but I didn’t feel a thing.
When I’m sober enough to manage it,
    bring me another drink!”