15 A gentle answer(A) turns away wrath,(B)
    but a harsh word stirs up anger.

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How to Live Wisely

15 A gentle response diverts anger,
but a harsh statement incites fury.

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18 A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict,(A)
    but the one who is patient calms a quarrel.(B)

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18 The quickly angered man stirs up contention,
    but anyone who controls his temper calms a dispute.

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32 Better a patient person than a warrior,
    one with self-control than one who takes a city.

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32 Whoever controls his temper is better than a warrior,
    and anyone who has control of his spirit is better
        than someone who captures a city.

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17 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet
    than a house full of feasting, with strife.(A)

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More Words of Wisdom

17 Dry crumbs in peace[a] are better
than a full meal[b] with strife.

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Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 17:1 Lit. quiet
  2. Proverbs 17:1 Lit. house full of meat

14 Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam;
    so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.(A)

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14 Starting a quarrel is like spilling water—
    so drop the dispute before it escalates.

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19 Whoever loves a quarrel loves sin;
    whoever builds a high gate invites destruction.

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19 The person who loves transgression loves strife;
    the person who builds a high gate invites destruction.

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27 The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint,(A)
    and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.(B)

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27 Whoever controls what he says is knowledgeable;
    anyone who has a calm spirit is a man of understanding.

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18 Casting the lot settles disputes(A)
    and keeps strong opponents apart.

19 A brother wronged(B) is more unyielding than a fortified city;
    disputes are like the barred gates of a citadel.

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18 Casting dice settles a dispute,
    deciding between strong contenders.

19 An offended brother is more unyielding than a fortified city,
    and his disputes are like the bars of a fortress.

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11 A person’s wisdom yields patience;(A)
    it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.

12 A king’s rage is like the roar of a lion,(B)
    but his favor is like dew(C) on the grass.(D)

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11 A person’s discretion makes him slow to anger,
    and it is to his credit that he ignores an offence.

12 The king’s anger is like the roaring of a lion,
    but his goodwill is like dew on the grass.

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19 A hot-tempered person must pay the penalty;
    rescue them, and you will have to do it again.

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19 The person who has great anger must pay the consequences,
    because if you rescue him, you will have to do it again.

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It is to one’s honor to avoid strife,
    but every fool(A) is quick to quarrel.(B)

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Avoiding strife brings a man honor,
    but every fool is quarrelsome.

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22 Do not say, “I’ll pay you back for this wrong!”(A)
    Wait for the Lord, and he will avenge you.(B)

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22 Don’t say “I’ll avenge that wrong!”
    Wait on the Lord and he will deliver you.

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