15 A gentle answer turns away anger,(A)
but a harsh word stirs up wrath.(B)

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How to Live Wisely

15 A gentle response diverts anger,
but a harsh statement incites fury.

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18 A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict,(A)
but one slow to anger(B) calms strife.

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18 The quickly angered man stirs up contention,
    but anyone who controls his temper calms a dispute.

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32 Patience is better than power,
and controlling one’s emotions,[a] than capturing a city.(A)

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Footnotes

  1. 16:32 Lit and ruling over one’s spirit

32 Whoever controls his temper is better than a warrior,
    and anyone who has control of his spirit is better
        than someone who captures a city.

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17 Better a dry crust with peace
than a house full of feasting with strife.(A)

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More Words of Wisdom

17 Dry crumbs in peace[a] are better
than a full meal[b] with strife.

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Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 17:1 Lit. quiet
  2. Proverbs 17:1 Lit. house full of meat

14 To start a conflict is to release a flood;
stop the dispute before it breaks out.(A)

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14 Starting a quarrel is like spilling water—
    so drop the dispute before it escalates.

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19 One who loves to offend loves strife;(A)
one who builds a high threshold invites injury.

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19 The person who loves transgression loves strife;
    the person who builds a high gate invites destruction.

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27 The one who has knowledge restrains his words,(A)
and one who keeps a cool head[a]
is a person of understanding.

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Footnotes

  1. 17:27 Lit spirit

27 Whoever controls what he says is knowledgeable;
    anyone who has a calm spirit is a man of understanding.

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18 Casting the lot(A) ends quarrels
and separates powerful opponents.

19 An offended brother is harder to reach[a]
than a fortified city,
and quarrels are like the bars of a fortress.

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Footnotes

  1. 18:19 LXX, Syr, Tg, Vg read is stronger

18 Casting dice settles a dispute,
    deciding between strong contenders.

19 An offended brother is more unyielding than a fortified city,
    and his disputes are like the bars of a fortress.

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11 A person’s insight gives him patience,(A)
and his virtue is to overlook an offense.(B)

12 A king’s rage is like the roaring of a lion,(C)
but his favor is like dew on the grass.(D)

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11 A person’s discretion makes him slow to anger,
    and it is to his credit that he ignores an offence.

12 The king’s anger is like the roaring of a lion,
    but his goodwill is like dew on the grass.

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19 A person with intense anger bears the penalty;
if you rescue him, you’ll have to do it again.(A)

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19 The person who has great anger must pay the consequences,
    because if you rescue him, you will have to do it again.

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Honor belongs to the person who ends a dispute,(A)
but any fool can get himself into a quarrel.(B)

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Avoiding strife brings a man honor,
    but every fool is quarrelsome.

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22 Don’t say, “I will avenge this evil!” (A)
Wait on the Lord,(B) and he will rescue you.(C)

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22 Don’t say “I’ll avenge that wrong!”
    Wait on the Lord and he will deliver you.

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