Avoid Seduction

My son, pay attention to my wisdom;
listen closely[a] to my understanding(A)
so that you may maintain discretion
and your lips safeguard knowledge.(B)
Though the lips of the forbidden woman drip honey
and her words are[b] smoother than oil,
in the end she’s as bitter as wormwood(C)
and as sharp as a double-edged sword.(D)
Her feet go down to death;
her steps head straight for Sheol.(E)
She doesn’t consider the path of life;
she doesn’t know that her ways are unstable.

So now, my sons, listen to me,
and don’t turn away from the words of my mouth.(F)
Keep your way far from her.
Don’t go near the door of her house.(G)
Otherwise, you will give up your vitality to others
and your years to someone cruel;
10 strangers will drain your resources,
and your earnings will end up in a foreigner’s house.
11 At the end of your life, you will lament
when your physical body has been consumed,
12 and you will say, “How I hated discipline,
and how my heart despised correction.(H)
13 I didn’t obey my teachers
or listen closely[c] to my mentors.
14 I am on the verge of complete ruin
before the entire community.”

Enjoy Marriage

15 Drink water from your own cistern,
water flowing from your own well.(I)
16 Should your springs flow in the streets,
streams of water in the public squares?(J)
17 They should be for you alone
and not for you to share with strangers.
18 Let your fountain be blessed,
and take pleasure in the wife of your youth.(K)
19 A loving doe, a graceful fawn—
let her breasts always satisfy you;(L)
be lost in her love forever.
20 Why, my son, would you be infatuated
with a forbidden woman
or embrace the breast of a stranger?(M)
21 For a man’s ways are before the Lord’s eyes,(N)
and He considers all his paths.(O)
22 A wicked man’s iniquities entrap him;(P)
he is entangled in the ropes of his own sin.(Q)
23 He will die because there is no discipline,(R)
and be lost because of his great stupidity.

Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 5:1 Lit wisdom; stretch out your ear
  2. Proverbs 5:3 Lit her palate is
  3. Proverbs 5:13 Lit or turn my ear

My child, be attentive to my wisdom,
    and to my understanding incline your ear;
in order to keep prudence,
    and knowledge will guard your lips.
For the lips of the strange woman will drip honey,
    and smoother than oil is her mouth.[a]
But her end is bitter as the wormwood,
    sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death;
    her steps take hold of Sheol.[b]
She does not observe[c] the path of life;
    her ways wander, and she does not know it.

Do Not Commit Adultery Against Wisdom

Now, O children, listen to me;
    do not depart from the sayings of my mouth.
Keep your paths far from her,
    and do not go near to the door of her house,
lest you give your honor to the others,
    and your years to the merciless,
10 lest strangers take their fill of your strength,
    and your labors go to the house of a foreigner,
11 and you groan at your end,
    when your flesh and body are consumed,
12 and say “How I hated discipline,
    and I despised reproof!”
13 and “I did not listen to the voice of my teachers,
    and I did not incline my ear to my instructors!
14 I was almost at utter[d] ruin[e]
    in the midst of the assembly and congregation.”
15 Drink water from your own cistern
    and flowing waters from inside your own well.
16 Shall your springs be scattered outward?
    In the streets, shall there be streams of water?
17 May they be yours alone,
    and not for strangers who are with you.
18 May your fountain be blessed,
    and rejoice in the wife[f] of your youth.
19 She is a deer of love and a doe of grace;
    may her breasts satisfy you always;[g]
    by her love may you be intoxicated continually.
20 Why should you be intoxicated, my child, by a strange woman,
    and embrace the bosom of a foreigner?
21 For before the eyes of Yahweh are human ways,[h]
    and all his paths he examines.
22 His iniquities shall ensnare him, the evildoer,
    and in the vanity of his sin he shall be caught.
23 He shall die for lack of[i] discipline,
    and in the greatness of his folly he shall be lost.

Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 5:3 Or “palate”
  2. Proverbs 5:5 A term for the place where the dead reside, i.e., the Underworld
  3. Proverbs 5:6 Or “examine, weigh”
  4. Proverbs 5:14 Or “all, every, whole”
  5. Proverbs 5:14 Or “evil”
  6. Proverbs 5:18 Or “woman”
  7. Proverbs 5:19 Literally “at all time”
  8. Proverbs 5:21 Literally “the ways of man/humankind”
  9. Proverbs 5:23 Literally “with there is no”