Proverbs 25:9-11

Amplified Bible

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Argue your case with your neighbor himself [before you go to court];
And do not reveal another’s secret,^(A)
10 
Or he who hears it will shame you
And the rumor about you [and your action in court] will have no end.

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Like apples of gold in settings of silver
Is a word spoken at the right time.^(B)