Proverbs 17:1-3

Amplified Bible

17 Better is a dry morsel [of food served] with quietness and peace
Than a house full of feasting [served] with strife and contention.
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A wise servant will rule over the [unworthy] son who acts shamefully and brings disgrace [to the family]
And [the worthy servant] will share in the inheritance among the brothers.
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The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold,
But the Lord tests hearts.^(A)