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Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor;
    only fools insist on quarreling.

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It is to one’s honor to avoid strife,
    but every fool(A) is quick to quarrel.(B)

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14 Starting a quarrel is like opening a floodgate,
    so stop before a dispute breaks out.

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14 Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam;
    so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.(A)

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32 Better to be patient than powerful;
    better to have self-control than to conquer a city.

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32 Better a patient person than a warrior,
    one with self-control than one who takes a city.

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32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.

Living in the Light

Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children.

32 Be kind and compassionate to one another,(A) forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.(B) Follow God’s example,(C) therefore, as dearly loved children(D)

29 People with understanding control their anger;
    a hot temper shows great foolishness.

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29 Whoever is patient has great understanding,(A)
    but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.(B)

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Drawing Close to God

What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil desires at war within you?

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Submit Yourselves to God

What causes fights and quarrels(A) among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle(B) within you?

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11 Sensible people control their temper;
    they earn respect by overlooking wrongs.

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11 A person’s wisdom yields patience;(A)
    it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.

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Fools’ words get them into constant quarrels;
    they are asking for a beating.

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The lips of fools bring them strife,
    and their mouths invite a beating.(A)

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So we praise God for the glorious grace he has poured out on us who belong to his dear Son.[a] He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins. He has showered his kindness on us, along with all wisdom and understanding.

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Footnotes

  1. 1:6 Greek to us in the beloved.

to the praise of his glorious grace,(A) which he has freely given us in the One he loves.(B) In him we have redemption(C) through his blood,(D) the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches(E) of God’s grace that he lavished on us. With all wisdom and understanding,

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14 But if you are bitterly jealous and there is selfish ambition in your heart, don’t cover up the truth with boasting and lying.

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14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition(A) in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth.(B)

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    don’t be in a hurry to go to court.
For what will you do in the end
    if your neighbor deals you a shameful defeat?

When arguing with your neighbor,
    don’t betray another person’s secret.
10 Others may accuse you of gossip,
    and you will never regain your good reputation.

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    do not bring[a] hastily to court,
for what will you do in the end
    if your neighbor puts you to shame?(A)

If you take your neighbor to court,
    do not betray another’s confidence,
10 or the one who hears it may shame you
    and the charge against you will stand.

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Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 25:8 Or nobles / on whom you had set your eyes. / Do not go

24 Mockers are proud and haughty;
    they act with boundless arrogance.

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24 The proud and arrogant person(A)—“Mocker” is his name—
    behaves with insolent fury.

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17 Short-tempered people do foolish things,
    and schemers are hated.

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17 A quick-tempered person(A) does foolish things,(B)
    and the one who devises evil schemes is hated.(C)

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