³³ However, each one of you also must love his wife^(A) as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

² when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. ³ Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.^{(A) 4} Rather, it should be that of your inner self,^(B) the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.^{(C) 5} For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God^(D) used to adorn themselves.^(E) They submitted themselves to their own husbands, ⁶ like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord.^(F) You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

⁷ Husbands,^(G) in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

²⁵ Husbands, love your wives,^(A) just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her^(B)

²² Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands^(A) as you do to the Lord.^(B)

¹⁹ Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.