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Chapter 6

    Do not be a foe instead of a friend.
A bad name, disgrace, and dishonor you will inherit.
    Thus the wicked, the double-tongued![a]

Unruly Passions

Do not fall into the grip of your passion,(A)
    lest like fire it consume your strength.
It will eat your leaves and destroy your fruits,
    and you will be left like a dry tree.
For fierce passion destroys its owner
    and makes him the sport of his enemies.

True Friendship[b]

Pleasant speech multiplies friends,
    and gracious lips, friendly greetings.
Let those who are friendly to you be many,
    but one in a thousand your confidant.
When you gain friends, gain them through testing,(B)
    and do not be quick to trust them.
For there are friends when it suits them,
    but they will not be around in time of trouble.
Another is a friend who turns into an enemy,
    and tells of the quarrel to your disgrace.
10 Others are friends, table companions,
    but they cannot be found in time of affliction.
11 When things go well, they are your other self,
    and lord it over your servants.
12 If disaster comes upon you, they turn against you
    and hide themselves.
13 Stay away from your enemies,
    and be on guard with your friends.
14 Faithful friends are a sturdy shelter;
    whoever finds one finds a treasure.
15 Faithful friends are beyond price,
    no amount can balance their worth.
16 Faithful friends are life-saving medicine;
    those who fear God will find them.
17 Those who fear the Lord enjoy stable friendship,
    for as they are, so will their neighbors be.

Blessings of Wisdom[c]

18 My child, from your youth choose discipline;
    and when you have gray hair you will find wisdom.
19 As though plowing and sowing, draw close to her;
    then wait for her bountiful crops.
For in cultivating her you will work but little,
    and soon you will eat her fruit.

20 She is rough ground to the fool!
    The stupid cannot abide her.
21 She will be like a burdensome stone to them,
    and they will not delay in casting her aside.
22 For discipline[d] is like her name,
    she is not accessible to many.

23 Listen, my child, and take my advice;
    do not refuse my counsel.
24 Put your feet into her fetters,
    and your neck under her yoke.
25 Bend your shoulders and carry her
    and do not be irked at her bonds.

26 With all your soul draw close to her;
    and with all your strength keep her ways.
27 Inquire and search, seek and find;
    when you get hold of her, do not let her go.
28 Thus at last you will find rest in her,
    and she will become your joy.

29 Her fetters will be a place of strength;
    her snare, a robe of spun gold.
30 Her yoke will be a gold ornament;(C)
    her bonds, a purple cord.
31 You will wear her as a robe of glory,
    and bear her as a splendid crown.

32 If you wish, my son, you can be wise;
    if you apply yourself, you can be shrewd.
33 If you are willing to listen, you can learn;
    if you pay attention, you can be instructed.

34 Stand in the company of the elders;
    stay close to whoever is wise.
35 Be eager to hear every discourse;
    let no insightful saying escape you.(D)
36 If you see the intelligent, seek them out;
    let your feet wear away their doorsteps!

37 Reflect on the law of the Most High,
    and let his commandments be your constant study.
Then he will enlighten your mind,
    and make you wise as you desire.(E)

Footnotes

  1. 6:1 Thus…double-tongued!: people will say this against those disgraced by lying and double-talk.
  2. 6:5–17 One of several poems Ben Sira wrote on friendship; see also 9:10–16; 12:8–18; 13:1–23; 19:13–17; 22:19–26; 27:16–21. True friends are discerned not by prosperity (v. 11), but through the trials of adversity: distress, quarrels (v. 9), sorrow (v. 10) and misfortune (v. 12). Such friends are rare, a gift from God (vv. 14–17).
  3. 6:18–37 The various figures in each of the eight stanzas urge the search for wisdom through patience (vv. 18–19), persistence (vv. 20–22), docility and perseverance (vv. 23–28). Wisdom bestows rich rewards (vv. 29–31) on those who apply themselves and learn from the wise (vv. 32–36). Although one must strive for wisdom, it is God who grants it (v. 37). Cf. 4:11–19.
  4. 6:22 Discipline: musar (in the sense of wisdom) is a perfect homonym for musar, “removed, withdrawn”; thus the path of discipline is not accessible to many.

for a bad name incurs shame and reproach:
    so fares the double-tongued sinner.

Do not exalt yourself through your soul’s counsel,
    lest your soul be torn in pieces like a bull.[a]
You will devour your leaves and destroy your fruit,
    and will be left like a withered tree.
An evil soul will destroy him who has it,
    and make him the laughingstock of his enemies.

Friendship, False and True

A pleasant voice multiplies friends,
    and a gracious tongue multiplies courtesies.
Let those that are at peace with you be many,
    but let your advisers be one in a thousand.
When you gain a friend, gain him through testing,
    and do not trust him hastily.
For there is a friend who is such at his own convenience,
    but will not stand by you in your day of trouble.
And there is a friend who changes into an enemy,
    and will disclose a quarrel to your disgrace.
10 And there is a friend who is a table companion,
    but will not stand by you in your day of trouble.
11 In your prosperity he will make himself your equal,
    and be bold with your servants;
12 but if you are brought low he will turn against you,
    and will hide himself from your presence.
13 Keep yourself far from your enemies,
    and be on guard toward your friends.

14 A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter:
    he that has found one has found a treasure.
15 There is nothing so precious as a faithful friend,
    and no scales can measure his excellence.
16 A faithful friend is an elixir of life;
    and those who fear the Lord will find him.
17 Whoever fears the Lord directs his friendship aright,
    for as he is, so is his neighbor also.

Blessings of Wisdom

18 My son, from your youth up choose instruction,
    and until you are old you will keep finding wisdom.
19 Come to her like one who plows and sows,
    and wait for her good harvest.
For in her service you will toil a little while,
    and soon you will eat of her produce.
20 She seems very harsh to the uninstructed;
    a weakling will not remain with her.
21 She will weigh him down like a heavy testing stone,
    and he will not be slow to cast her off.
22 For wisdom is like her name,
    and is not manifest to many.

23 Listen, my son, and accept my judgment;
    do not reject my counsel.
24 Put your feet into her fetters,
    and your neck into her collar.
25 Put your shoulder under her and carry her,
    and do not fret under her bonds.
26 Come to her with all your soul,
    and keep her ways with all your might.
27 Search out and seek, and she will become known to you;
    and when you get hold of her, do not let her go.
28 For at last you will find the rest she gives,
    and she will be changed into joy for you.
29 Then her fetters will become for you a strong protection,
    and her collar a glorious robe.
30 Her yoke[b] is a golden ornament,
    and her bonds are a cord of blue.
31 You will wear her like a glorious robe,
    and put her on like a crown of gladness.

32 If you are willing, my son, you will be taught,
    and if you apply yourself you will become clever.
33 If you love to listen you will gain knowledge,
    and if you incline your ear you will become wise.
34 Stand in the assembly of the elders.
    Who is wise? Cleave to him.
35 Be ready to listen to every[c] narrative,
    and do not let wise proverbs escape you.
36 If you see an intelligent man, visit him early;
    let your foot wear out his doorstep.
37 Reflect on the statutes of the Lord,
    and meditate at all times on his commandments.
It is he who will give insight to[d] your mind,
    and your desire for wisdom will be granted.

Footnotes

  1. Sirach 6:2 The meaning of the Greek of this verse is obscure
  2. Sirach 6:30 Heb: Gk Upon her
  3. Sirach 6:35 Heb: Gk adds divine
  4. Sirach 6:37 Heb: Gk will confirm

and do not be an enemy when you should be a friend. A bad reputation brings you the disgrace that lying sinners deserve. Do not let your passions carry you away; this can tear your soul to pieces like a bull.[a] You will be left like a dead tree without any leaves or fruit. Evil desire will destroy you and make you a joke to your enemies.

Friendship

If you are polite and courteous, you will enjoy the friendship of many people. Exchange greetings with many, but take advice from only one person out of a thousand. When you make friends, don't be too quick to trust them; make sure that they have proved themselves. Some people will be your friends only when it is convenient for them, but they won't stand by you in trouble. Others will fall out with you over some argument, and then embarrass you by letting everyone know about it. 10-11 Others will sit at your table as long as things are going well; they will stick to you like your shadow and give orders to your servants, but they will not stand by you in trouble. 12 If your situation takes a turn for the worse, they will turn against you, and you won't be able to find them anywhere.

13 Stay away from your enemies and be on guard against your friends. 14 A loyal friend is like a safe shelter; find one, and you have found a treasure. 15 Nothing else is as valuable; there is no way of putting a price on it. 16 A loyal friend is like a medicine that keeps you in good health. Only those who fear the Lord can find such a friend. 17 A person who fears the Lord can make real friendships, because he will treat his friends as he does himself.[b]

Learn from Wisdom

18 My child, learn to value Wisdom while you are young, and you will still be able to find her when you grow old. 19 (A)Work as hard to find Wisdom as a farmer works to plow and plant his fields; then you can expect a good harvest. You will have to work at it for a while, but you will soon be enjoying what you have earned. 20 Undisciplined people find Wisdom's demands too hard and don't have enough determination to meet them. 21 Her requirements are a burden heavier than they are willing to bear, and they quickly lay them aside.

22 Discipline means just that—discipline,[c] and not many people are able to discipline themselves.

23 My child, listen to me and take my advice. 24 Put Wisdom's chains around your feet and her yoke around your neck. 25 Carry her on your shoulder and don't be resentful of her bonds. 26 Follow Wisdom, and keep to her ways with all your heart. 27 Go looking for her, and she will reveal herself to you. Take hold of her and don't let go. 28 Then you will discover the peace of mind she offers, and she will become your joy. 29-30 The signs of slavery you wear will become signs of royal majesty. Her chains will be your protection, and you will wear her yoke like a magnificent robe. 31 You will wear Wisdom like a splendid crown.

32 My child, you can learn if you want to. You can be clever if you are determined to be. 33 If you are willing to listen, you will learn and become wise. 34 Go where the old people are; find someone who is wise, and stay with him. 35 Be ready to listen when religious people speak, and don't miss anything that shows insight. 36 If you find someone with understanding, get up early to call on him; wear out his doorstep with your visits.

37 (B)Devote all your time to studying the Lord's commands and thinking about them. He will give you the insight and wisdom you are looking for.

Footnotes

  1. Sirach 6:2 Verse 2 in both Greek and Hebrew is unclear.
  2. Sirach 6:17 because...himself; or because his friends will also fear the Lord.
  3. Sirach 6:22 Hebrew Discipline...discipline; Greek Wisdom...wisdom.
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