1 Timothy 3:2-5

New American Standard Bible

^2 [a](A)An overseer, then, must be above reproach, ^(B)the husband of one wife, ^[b](C)temperate, self-controlled, respectable, ^(D)hospitable, ^(E)skillful in teaching, ^3 (F)not overindulging in wine, not ^[c]a bully, but gentle, not contentious, ^(G)free from the love of money. ⁴ He must be one who ^(H)manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity ⁵ (but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of ^(I)the church of God?),