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婚姻的問題

關於你們信上所提的事:“男人不親近女人倒好。” 但為了避免淫亂的事,男人應當各有自己的妻子,女人也應當各有自己的丈夫。 丈夫對妻子應該盡他的本分,妻子對丈夫也應當這樣。 妻子對自己的身體沒有主權,權在丈夫;照樣,丈夫對自己的身體也沒有主權,權在妻子。 夫妻不可彼此虧負,除非為了要專心禱告,雙方才可以同意暫時分房。以後仍要同房,免得撒但趁著你們情不自禁的時候誘惑你們。 我說這話是容許你們,並不是命令。 我願人人都像我一樣;只是各人有各人從 神得來的恩賜,有人是這樣,有人是那樣。

我現在要對未婚的人和寡婦說,他們若保持像我這樣就好了; 但如果不能自制,就應當結婚,因為結婚總比慾火焚身好。 10 我要吩咐已婚的人(其實不是我,而是主吩咐的),妻子不可離開丈夫。 11 如果離開了,就不可再嫁,不然,就要跟丈夫復合。丈夫也不可離棄妻子。 12 我要對其餘的人說(是我說的,不是主說的),倘若某弟兄有不信的妻子,而她也情願和他住在一起,他就不要離棄她。 13 如果妻子有不信的丈夫,而他也情願和她住在一起,她也不要離棄丈夫。 14 因為不信的丈夫因著妻子成為聖潔,不信的妻子也因著那個弟兄成為聖潔了。不然,你們的兒女就是不潔淨的,但現在他們都是聖潔的了。 15 如果那不信的要離去,就由他離去吧;在這種情形之下,信主的弟兄或姊妹都不必勉強。 神呼召你們,是要你們和睦。 16 你這作妻子的,你怎麼知道能否救你的丈夫呢?你這作丈夫的,你怎麼知道能否救你的妻子呢?

保持蒙召時的身分

17 不過,主怎樣分給各人, 神怎樣呼召各人,各人就要照著去行事為人。我也這樣吩咐各教會。 18 有人受了割禮而蒙召的嗎?他就不要遮掩割禮的記號。有人未受割禮而蒙召的嗎?他就不要受割禮。 19 割禮算不得甚麼,沒有割禮也算不得甚麼,要緊的是遵守 神的命令。 20 各人蒙召的時候怎樣,他就應當保持原來的情況。 21 你蒙召的時候是作奴僕的嗎?不要為此煩惱。但如果你能夠得到自由,就要把握這機會。 22 因為作奴僕的蒙了主的呼召,就是屬於主的自由人了;照樣,自由的人蒙了呼召,他就是基督的奴僕了。 23 你們是用重價買來的,不要作人的奴僕。 24 弟兄們,你們各人蒙召的時候怎樣,就應當在 神面前保持這原來的情況。

未婚、守獨身、守寡的問題

25 關於未婚的,我沒有主的命令,但我既然蒙了主的憐憫,成為可信靠的人,就把我的意見提出來。 26 為了目前的困難,我認為人最好能保持現狀。 27 你已經有了妻子嗎?就不要想擺脫。你還沒有妻子嗎?就不要去找妻子。 28 如果你娶妻子,這不是犯罪;如果處女出嫁,也不是犯罪。不過,這樣的人要受肉體上的苦難,我卻不願你們受這苦難。 29 弟兄們,我是說時候不多了。從今以後,有妻子的要像沒有妻子的, 30 哀哭的要像不哀哭的,快樂的要像不快樂的,買了東西的要像一無所得的, 31 享用世上百物的要像沒有享用的一樣,因為這世上的情況都要過去。 32 我願你們無所掛慮。沒有娶妻子的人,掛念的是主的事,想怎樣去得主喜悅; 33 但娶了妻子的人是為世上的事掛慮,想怎樣去討妻子的歡心, 34 這樣他就分心了。沒有結婚的婦女和守獨身的女子,掛念的是主的事,好讓身體和心靈都成為聖潔;但結了婚的婦女是為世上的事掛慮,想怎樣去討丈夫的歡心。 35 我說這話,是為了你們自己的益處;我不是要限制你們,而是要你們作合宜的事,一心一意地對主忠誠。

36 如果有人認為是虧待了自己的女朋友,她也過了結婚的年齡,而他覺得應當結婚,他就可以照著自己的意思去作,這不是犯罪;他們應該結婚。 37 但如果他心裡堅決,沒有甚麼不得已的原因,又可以控制自己的意志,決心讓女朋友持守獨身;這樣作也是好的。 38 所以,那跟自己的女朋友結婚的,作得好,那不結婚的,作得更好。(或譯:“36 如果有人認為待自己的女兒不合適,她也過了結婚的年齡,而且應當這樣行,他就可以照著自己的意思去作,讓她們結婚,這不是犯罪。37 但如果他心裡堅定,沒有甚麼不得已的原因,又有權作主,決心留下自己的女兒,這樣作也是好的。38 所以,那讓自己女兒出嫁的,作得好,那不讓女兒出嫁的,作得更好。”)

39 丈夫活著的時候,妻子是受約束的;丈夫若死了,她就可以自由地嫁給她願意嫁的人,只是要嫁給主裡的人。 40 然而照我的意見,倘若她能守節,就更有福了。我想我這話也是 神的靈感動的。

婚姻的问题

关于你们信上所提的事:“男人不亲近女人倒好。” 但为了避免淫乱的事,男人应当各有自己的妻子,女人也应当各有自己的丈夫。 丈夫对妻子应该尽他的本分,妻子对丈夫也应当这样。 妻子对自己的身体没有主权,权在丈夫;照样,丈夫对自己的身体也没有主权,权在妻子。 夫妻不可彼此亏负,除非为了要专心祷告,双方才可以同意暂时分房。以后仍要同房,免得撒但趁着你们情不自禁的时候诱惑你们。 我说这话是容许你们,并不是命令。 我愿人人都像我一样;只是各人有各人从 神得来的恩赐,有人是这样,有人是那样。

我现在要对未婚的人和寡妇说,他们若保持像我这样就好了; 但如果不能自制,就应当结婚,因为结婚总比欲火焚身好。 10 我要吩咐已婚的人(其实不是我,而是主吩咐的),妻子不可离开丈夫。 11 如果离开了,就不可再嫁,不然,就要跟丈夫复合。丈夫也不可离弃妻子。 12 我要对其余的人说(是我说的,不是主说的),倘若某弟兄有不信的妻子,而她也情愿和他住在一起,他就不要离弃她。 13 如果妻子有不信的丈夫,而他也情愿和她住在一起,她也不要离弃丈夫。 14 因为不信的丈夫因着妻子成为圣洁,不信的妻子也因着那个弟兄成为圣洁了。不然,你们的儿女就是不洁净的,但现在他们都是圣洁的了。 15 如果那不信的要离去,就由他离去吧;在这种情形之下,信主的弟兄或姊妹都不必勉强。 神呼召你们,是要你们和睦。 16 你这作妻子的,你怎么知道能否救你的丈夫呢?你这作丈夫的,你怎么知道能否救你的妻子呢?

保持蒙召时的身分

17 不过,主怎样分给各人, 神怎样呼召各人,各人就要照着去行事为人。我也这样吩咐各教会。 18 有人受了割礼而蒙召的吗?他就不要遮掩割礼的记号。有人未受割礼而蒙召的吗?他就不要受割礼。 19 割礼算不得甚么,没有割礼也算不得甚么,要紧的是遵守 神的命令。 20 各人蒙召的时候怎样,他就应当保持原来的情况。 21 你蒙召的时候是作奴仆的吗?不要为此烦恼。但如果你能够得到自由,就要把握这机会。 22 因为作奴仆的蒙了主的呼召,就是属于主的自由人了;照样,自由的人蒙了呼召,他就是基督的奴仆了。 23 你们是用重价买来的,不要作人的奴仆。 24 弟兄们,你们各人蒙召的时候怎样,就应当在 神面前保持这原来的情况。

未婚、守独身、守寡的问题

25 关于未婚的,我没有主的命令,但我既然蒙了主的怜悯,成为可信靠的人,就把我的意见提出来。 26 为了目前的困难,我认为人最好能保持现状。 27 你已经有了妻子吗?就不要想摆脱。你还没有妻子吗?就不要去找妻子。 28 如果你娶妻子,这不是犯罪;如果处女出嫁,也不是犯罪。不过,这样的人要受肉体上的苦难,我却不愿你们受这苦难。 29 弟兄们,我是说时候不多了。从今以后,有妻子的要像没有妻子的, 30 哀哭的要像不哀哭的,快乐的要像不快乐的,买了东西的要像一无所得的, 31 享用世上百物的要像没有享用的一样,因为这世上的情况都要过去。 32 我愿你们无所挂虑。没有娶妻子的人,挂念的是主的事,想怎样去得主喜悦; 33 但娶了妻子的人是为世上的事挂虑,想怎样去讨妻子的欢心, 34 这样他就分心了。没有结婚的妇女和守独身的女子,挂念的是主的事,好让身体和心灵都成为圣洁;但结了婚的妇女是为世上的事挂虑,想怎样去讨丈夫的欢心。 35 我说这话,是为了你们自己的益处;我不是要限制你们,而是要你们作合宜的事,一心一意地对主忠诚。

36 如果有人认为是亏待了自己的女朋友,她也过了结婚的年龄,而他觉得应当结婚,他就可以照着自己的意思去作,这不是犯罪;他们应该结婚。 37 但如果他心里坚决,没有甚么不得已的原因,又可以控制自己的意志,决心让女朋友持守独身;这样作也是好的。 38 所以,那跟自己的女朋友结婚的,作得好,那不结婚的,作得更好。(或译:“36 如果有人认为待自己的女儿不合适,她也过了结婚的年龄,而且应当这样行,他就可以照着自己的意思去作,让她们结婚,这不是犯罪。37 但如果他心里坚定,没有甚么不得已的原因,又有权作主,决心留下自己的女儿,这样作也是好的。38 所以,那让自己女儿出嫁的,作得好,那不让女儿出嫁的,作得更好。”)

39 丈夫活着的时候,妻子是受约束的;丈夫若死了,她就可以自由地嫁给她愿意嫁的人,只是要嫁给主里的人。 40 然而照我的意见,倘若她能守节,就更有福了。我想我这话也是 神的灵感动的。

Celibacy and Marriage

Now with regard to the issues you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”[a] But because of immoralities, each man should have relations with[b] his own wife and each woman with[c] her own husband. A husband should fulfill his marital responsibility[d] to his wife, and likewise a wife to her husband. It is not the wife who has the rights to her own body, but the husband. In the same way, it is not the husband who has the rights to his own body, but the wife. Do not deprive each other, except by mutual agreement for a specified time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.[e] Then resume your relationship,[f] so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that everyone was as I am. But each has his own gift from God, one this way, another that.

To the unmarried and widows I say that it is best for them to remain as I am. But if they do not have self-control, let them get married. For it is better to marry than to burn with sexual desire.[g]

10 To the married I give this command—not I, but the Lord[h]—a wife should not divorce a husband 11 (but if she does, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband), and a husband should not divorce his wife.

12 To the rest I say—I, not the Lord[i]—if a brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is happy to live with him, he should not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is happy to live with her, she should not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified because of the wife, and the unbelieving wife because of her husband.[j] Otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever wants a divorce, let it take place. In these circumstances the brother or sister is not bound.[k] God has called you in peace. 16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will bring your husband to salvation?[l] Or how do you know, husband, whether you will bring your wife to salvation?[m]

The Circumstances of Your Calling

17 Nevertheless,[n] as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each person, so must he live. I give this sort of direction in all the churches. 18 Was anyone called after he had been circumcised? He should not try to undo his circumcision.[o] Was anyone called who is uncircumcised? He should not get circumcised. 19 Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Instead, keeping God’s commandments is what counts. 20 Let each one remain in that situation in life[p] in which he was called. 21 Were you called as a slave?[q] Do not worry about it. But if indeed you are able to be free, make the most of the opportunity. 22 For the one who was called in the Lord as a slave is the Lord’s freedman. In the same way, the one who was called as a free person is Christ’s slave. 23 You were bought with a price. Do not become slaves of men. 24 In whatever situation someone was called, brothers and sisters,[r] let him remain in it with God.

Remaining Unmarried

25 With regard to the question about people who have never married,[s] I have no command from the Lord, but I give my opinion as one shown mercy by the Lord to be trustworthy. 26 Because of the impending crisis I think it best for you to remain as you are. 27 The one bound to a wife should not seek divorce. The one released from a wife should not seek marriage.[t] 28 But if you marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face difficult circumstances,[u] and I am trying to spare you such problems.[v] 29 And I say this, brothers and sisters:[w] The time is short. So then those who have wives should be as those who have none, 30 those with tears like those not weeping, those who rejoice like those not rejoicing, those who buy like those without possessions, 31 those who use the world as though they were not using it to the full. For the present shape of this world is passing away.

32 And I want you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the things of the world, how to please his wife, 34 and he is divided. An unmarried woman[x] or a virgin[y] is concerned about the things of the Lord, to be holy both in body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the things of the world, how to please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your benefit, not to place a limitation on you, but so that without distraction you may give notable and constant service to the Lord.

36 If anyone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his virgin,[z] if she is past the bloom of youth[aa] and it seems necessary, he should do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry. 37 But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep his own virgin, does well. 38 So then, the one who marries[ab] his own virgin does well, but the one who does not, does better.[ac]

39 A wife is bound as long as her husband is living. But if her husband dies,[ad] she is free to marry anyone she wishes (only someone in the Lord). 40 But in my opinion, she will be happier if she remains as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God!

Footnotes

  1. 1 Corinthians 7:1 tn Grk “It is good for a man not to touch a woman,” a euphemism for sexual relations. This idiom occurs ten times in Greek literature, and all of the references except one appear to refer to sexual relations (cf., e.g., Josephus, Ant. 1.8.1 [1.163]; Gen 20:6 [LXX]; Prov 6:29 [LXX]). For discussion see G. D. Fee, First Corinthians (NICNT), 275. Many recent interpreters believe that here again (as in 6:12-13) Paul cites a slogan the Corinthians apparently used to justify their actions. If this is so, Paul agrees with the slogan in part, but corrects it in the following verses to show how the Corinthians misused the idea to justify abstinence within marriage (cf. 8:1, 4; 10:23). See also G. D. Fee, “1 Corinthians 7:1 in the NIV,” JETS 23 (1980): 307-14.
  2. 1 Corinthians 7:2 tn Grk “each man should have his own wife.” “Have a wife” in this context means “have marital relations with” (see the following verse). The verb ἐχέτω (echetō, an imperatival form of ἔχω, [echō, “have”]) occurs twice in this verse, but has not been repeated in the translation for stylistic reasons. The idiom “have a wife” occurs 8 times in the LXX (Exod 2:1; Deut 28:30; 2 Chr 11:21; 1 Esd 9:12, 18; Tob 3:8; Isa 13:16; 54:1) with the meaning “have sexual relations with,” “be married,” or “be in continual sexual relations with,” and 10 times elsewhere in the NT with the same range of meaning (Matt 14:4; 22:28; Mark 6:18; 12:23; Luke 20:33, 28; John 4:18 [twice]; 1 Cor 5:1; 7:29). For discussion see G. D. Fee, First Corinthians (NICNT), 278; and G. D. Fee, “1 Corinthians 7:1 in the NIV,” JETS 23 (1980): 310-11.
  3. 1 Corinthians 7:2 tn Grk “should have.” For explanation of the translation, see the note on “have relations with” earlier in this verse.
  4. 1 Corinthians 7:3 tn Grk “fulfill the obligation” or “pay the debt,” referring to the fulfillment of sexual needs within marriage.
  5. 1 Corinthians 7:5 tc Most later witnesses (א2 M sy) add “fasting and” (τῇ νηστείᾳ καί, tē nēsteia kai) before “prayer.” But such an addition is motivated by ascetic concerns; further, its lack in P11vid,46 א* A B C D F G P Ψ 33 1739 1881 2464 al latt co argues decisively against its authenticity.
  6. 1 Corinthians 7:5 tn Grk “and be together again.”
  7. 1 Corinthians 7:9 tn Grk “than to burn,” a figure of speech referring to unfulfilled sexual passion.
  8. 1 Corinthians 7:10 sn Not I, but the Lord. Here and in v. 12 Paul distinguishes between his own apostolic instruction and Jesus’ teaching during his earthly ministry. In vv. 10-11, Paul reports the Lord’s own teaching about divorce (cf. Mark 10:5-12).
  9. 1 Corinthians 7:12 sn I, not the Lord. Here and in v. 10 Paul distinguishes between his own apostolic instruction and Jesus’ teaching during his earthly ministry. In vv. 12-16, Paul deals with a situation about which the Lord gave no instruction in his earthly ministry.
  10. 1 Corinthians 7:14 tc Grk “the brother.” Later witnesses (א2 D2 M) have ἀνδρί (andri, “husband”) here, apparently in conscious emulation of the earlier mention of ἀνήρ (anēr) in the verse. However, the earliest and best witnesses (P46 א* A B C D* F G P Ψ 33 1739 al co) are decisively in favor of ἀδελφῷ (adelphō, “brother”), a word that because of the close association with “wife” here may have seemed inappropriate to many scribes. It is also for reasons of English style that “her husband” is used in the translation.
  11. 1 Corinthians 7:15 sn Interpreters differ over the implication of the statement the brother or sister is not bound. One view is that the believer is “not bound to continue the marriage,” i.e., not so slavishly tied to the instruction about not divorcing (cf. vv. 10-11) that he or she refuses to face reality when the unbelieving spouse is unwilling to continue the relationship. In this view divorce is allowable under these circumstances, but not remarriage (v. 11 still applies: remain unmarried or be reconciled). The other view is that the believer is “not bound in regard to marriage,” i.e., free to remain single or to remarry. The argument for this view is the conceptual parallel with vv. 39-40, where a wife is said to be “bound” (a different word in Greek, but the same concept) as long as her husband lives. But if the husband dies, she is “free” to marry as she wishes, only in the Lord. If the parallel holds, then not bound in v. 15 also means “free to marry another.”
  12. 1 Corinthians 7:16 tn Grk “will save your husband?” The meaning is obviously that the wife would be the human agent in leading her husband to salvation.
  13. 1 Corinthians 7:16 tn Grk “will save your wife?” The meaning is obviously that the husband would be the human agent in leading his wife to salvation.
  14. 1 Corinthians 7:17 tn Or “only”; Grk “if not.”
  15. 1 Corinthians 7:18 tn Grk “Let him not pull over the foreskin,” that is, attempt to reverse the appearance of circumcision by a surgical procedure. This was sometimes done by Hellenistic Jews to hide the embarrassment of circumcision (1 Macc 1:15; Josephus, Ant. 12.5.1 [12.241]). Cf. BDAG 380 s.v. ἐπισπάω 3.
  16. 1 Corinthians 7:20 tn Grk “in the calling.” “Calling” in Paul is God’s work of drawing people to faith in Christ. As in 1:26, calling here stands by metonymy for a person’s circumstances when he becomes a Christian.
  17. 1 Corinthians 7:21 tn Traditionally, “servant” (KJV), though almost all modern translations render the word as “slave” here.
  18. 1 Corinthians 7:24 tn Grk “brothers.” See note on the phrase “brothers and sisters” in 1:10.
  19. 1 Corinthians 7:25 tn Grk “virgins.” There are three main views as to which group of people is referred to by the word παρθένος (parthenos) here, and the stance taken here directly impacts one’s understanding of vv. 36-38. (1) The term could refer to virgin women who were not married. The central issue would then be whether or not their fathers should give them in marriage to eligible men. (This is the view which has been widely held throughout the history of the Church.) (2) A minority understand the term to refer to men and women who are married but who have chosen to live together without sexual relations. This position might have been possible in the Corinthian church, but there is no solid evidence to support it. (3) The view adopted by many modern commentators (see, e.g., Fee, Conzelmann, Barrett) is that the term refers to young, engaged women who were under the influence of various groups within the Corinthian church not to go through with their marriages. The central issue would then be whether the young men and women should continue with their plans and finalize their marriages. For further discussion, see G. D. Fee, First Corinthians (NICNT), 325-28.
  20. 1 Corinthians 7:27 tn Grk “should not seek a wife.”
  21. 1 Corinthians 7:28 tn Grk “these will have tribulation in the flesh.”
  22. 1 Corinthians 7:28 tn Grk “I am trying to spare you.” Direct objects were frequently omitted in Greek when clear from the context. “Such problems” has been supplied here to make the sense of the statement clear.
  23. 1 Corinthians 7:29 tn Grk “brothers.” See note on the phrase “brothers and sisters” in 1:10.
  24. 1 Corinthians 7:34 sn In context the unmarried woman would probably refer specifically to a widow, who was no longer married, as opposed to the virgin, who had never been married.
  25. 1 Corinthians 7:34 tc There are three viable variant readings at this point in the text. (1) The reading ἡ γυνὴ ἡ ἄγαμος καὶ ἡ παρθένος (hē gunē hē agamos kai hē parthenos, “the unmarried woman and the virgin”) is represented by ancient and important mss, as well as some significant versions (P15 B 104 365 1505 vg co). (2) The reading ἡ γυνὴ ἡ ἄγαμος καὶ ἡ παρθένος ἡ ἄγαμος (“the unmarried woman and the unmarried virgin”) is also found in ancient and important mss (P46 א A 33 1739 1881). (3) The reading ἡ γυνὴ καὶ ἡ παρθένος ἡ ἄγαμος (“the woman and the unmarried virgin”) is found in Western mss (D F G) and the majority of Byzantine cursives. Based upon external evidence, the first and second readings are the strongest; the readings both reach deep into the second century with strong testimony from mss of the Alexandrian group of witnesses. Internal evidence seems equally balanced: Scribes may have wanted to add ἡ ἄγαμος to παρθένος for stylistic reasons, but they might also have wanted to remove it because it sounded redundant. Because Paul’s meaning is not quite clear, a decision on the proper textual reading is difficult. On the whole scribes tended to add to the text, not take from it. Thus the first reading should be favored as earlier, but this decision should be regarded as less than certain.tn Grk “The unmarried woman and the virgin.” The identity of the “virgin” here is a matter of interpretation (see note on “people who have never married” in v. 25 for discussion), which has in fact contributed to textual variation at this point in the text (see the text critical note above). As far as the translation is concerned, one must determine if one group of women or two are in view. It is possible that Paul means to refer to only one class of women here, namely unmarried virgins, but the use of the adjective ἡ ἄγαμος (hē agamos, “unmarried”) with “woman” and not “virgin” precludes that interpretation; in addition, the use of the article with both “woman” and “virgin” implies that two distinct groups are in view. If two groups are in view, English would more naturally use the conjunction “or” to indicate the distinction. Thus the translation “An unmarried woman or a virgin” has been used to make clear that two groups are in view.
  26. 1 Corinthians 7:36 tn Grk “virgin,” either a fiancée, a daughter, or the ward of a guardian. For discussion see the note at the end of v. 38.
  27. 1 Corinthians 7:36 tn Or referring to an engaged man: “if he is past the critical point,” “if his passions are too strong.” The word literally means “to be past the high point.”
  28. 1 Corinthians 7:38 tn Or “who gives his own virgin in marriage.”
  29. 1 Corinthians 7:38 sn 1 Cor 7:36-38. There are two common approaches to understanding the situation addressed in these verses. One view involves a father or male guardian deciding whether to give his daughter or female ward in marriage (cf. NASB, NIV margin). The evidence for this view is: (1) the phrase in v. 37 (Grk) “to keep his own virgin” fits this view well (“keep his own virgin [in his household]” rather than give her in marriage), but it does not fit the second view (there is little warrant for adding “her” in the way the second view translates it: “to keep her as a virgin”). (2) The verb used twice in v. 38 (γαμίζω, gamizō) normally means “to give in marriage” not “to get married.” The latter is usually expressed by γαμέω (gameō), as in v. 36b. (3) The father deciding what is best regarding his daughter’s marriage reflects the more likely cultural situation in ancient Corinth, though it does not fit modern Western customs. While Paul gives his advice in such a situation, he does not command that marriages be arranged in this way universally. If this view is taken, the translation will read as follows: “7:36 If anyone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his unmarried daughter, if she is past the bloom of youth and it seems necessary, he should do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry. 7:37 But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep his daughter unmarried, does well. 7:38 So then the one who gives his daughter in marriage does well, but the one who does not give her does better.” The other view is taken by NRSV, NIV text, NJB, REB: a single man deciding whether to marry the woman to whom he is engaged. The evidence for this view is: (1) it seems odd to use the word “virgin” (vv. 36, 37, 38) if “daughter” or “ward” is intended. (2) The other view requires some difficult shifting of subjects in v. 36, whereas this view manages a more consistent subject for the various verbs used. (3) The phrases in these verses are used consistently elsewhere in this chapter to describe considerations appropriate to the engaged couple themselves (cf. vv. 9, 28, 39). It seems odd not to change the phrasing in speaking about a father or guardian. If this second view is taken, the translation will read as follows: “7:36 If anyone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his fiancée, if his passions are too strong and it seems necessary, he should do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry. 7:37 But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep her as his fiancée, does well. 7:38 So then, the one who marries his fiancée does well, but the one who does not marry her does better.”
  30. 1 Corinthians 7:39 tn The verb κοιμάω (koimaō) literally means “sleep,” but it is often used in the Bible as a euphemism for the death of a believer.

Concerning Married Life

Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”(A) But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife,(B) and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time,(C) so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan(D) will not tempt you(E) because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command.(F) I wish that all of you were as I am.(G) But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.(H)

Now to the unmarried[a] and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.(I) But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry,(J) for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband.(K) 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband.(L) And a husband must not divorce his wife.

12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord):(M) If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.(N)

15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.(O) 16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save(P) your husband?(Q) Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

Concerning Change of Status

17 Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them.(R) This is the rule I lay down in all the churches.(S) 18 Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised.(T) 19 Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing.(U) Keeping God’s commands is what counts. 20 Each person should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.(V)

21 Were you a slave when you were called? Don’t let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. 22 For the one who was a slave when called to faith in the Lord is the Lord’s freed person;(W) similarly, the one who was free when called is Christ’s slave.(X) 23 You were bought at a price;(Y) do not become slaves of human beings. 24 Brothers and sisters, each person, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.(Z)

Concerning the Unmarried

25 Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord,(AA) but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy(AB) is trustworthy. 26 Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is.(AC) 27 Are you pledged to a woman? Do not seek to be released. Are you free from such a commitment? Do not look for a wife.(AD) 28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned;(AE) and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.

29 What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short.(AF) From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; 30 those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; 31 those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away.(AG)

32 I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs(AH)—how he can please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34 and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit.(AI) But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided(AJ) devotion to the Lord.

36 If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if his passions are too strong[b] and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning.(AK) They should get married. 37 But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind not to marry the virgin—this man also does the right thing. 38 So then, he who marries the virgin does right,(AL) but he who does not marry her does better.[c]

39 A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives.(AM) But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.(AN) 40 In my judgment,(AO) she is happier if she stays as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God.

Footnotes

  1. 1 Corinthians 7:8 Or widowers
  2. 1 Corinthians 7:36 Or if she is getting beyond the usual age for marriage
  3. 1 Corinthians 7:38 Or 36 If anyone thinks he is not treating his daughter properly, and if she is getting along in years (or if her passions are too strong), and he feels she ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. He should let her get married. 37 But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind to keep the virgin unmarried—this man also does the right thing. 38 So then, he who gives his virgin in marriage does right, but he who does not give her in marriage does better.

Problemas matrimoniales

En cuanto a los temas de que ustedes me escribieron, lo mejor para hombres y mujeres sería no tener relaciones sexuales, pero por causa de la inmoralidad sexual, cada hombre debe tener su propia esposa y cada mujer su propio esposo. El marido debe cumplir el deber conyugal con su esposa, lo mismo que la mujer con su esposo. La esposa ya no tiene poder sobre su propio cuerpo, sino su esposo; y tampoco el esposo tiene poder sobre su propio cuerpo, sino su esposa. No se nieguen el uno al otro, a no ser por algún tiempo de mutuo consentimiento, para dedicarse a la oración. Pero vuelvan luego a juntarse, no sea que Satanás los tiente por no poder dominarse. Aunque esto lo digo más como concesión que como mandamiento. En realidad, quisiera que todos los hombres fueran como yo; pero Dios le ha dado a cada uno su propio don, a algunos de alguna manera y a otros, de otra.

A los solteros y a las viudas les digo que sería bueno que se quedaran como yo; pero si no pueden dominarse, que se casen; pues es mejor casarse que arder de pasión.

10 Pero a los que están unidos en matrimonio les doy este mandato (que en realidad no es mío sino del Señor): Que la esposa no se separe del esposo; 11 pero en caso de separarse, que no se vuelva a casar, o que se reconcilie con su esposo. De la misma manera, que el esposo no abandone a su mujer.(A)

12 A los demás, les digo yo (y no el Señor): Si la esposa de algún hermano no es creyente, pero ella consiente en vivir con él, éste no debe abandonarla. 13 Y si el esposo de alguna hermana no es creyente, pero él consiente en vivir con ella, tampoco ésta debe abandonarlo. 14 Porque el esposo no creyente es santificado en su esposa, y la esposa no creyente es santificada en su esposo. Si así no fuera, los hijos de ustedes serían impuros, mientras que ahora son santos. 15 Pero si el no creyente quiere separarse, que lo haga; en ese caso, el hermano o la hermana no están obligados a mantener esa relación, pues Dios nos llamó a vivir en paz. 16 Porque ¿cómo sabes tú, mujer, si acaso salvarás a tu esposo? ¿O cómo sabes tú, hombre, si acaso salvarás a tu esposa?

17 De todas maneras, cada uno debe comportarse de acuerdo a la condición que el Señor le asignó y a la cual lo llamó. Esto es lo que mando en todas las iglesias. 18 ¿Fue alguno llamado cuando ya estaba circuncidado? Que se quede circuncidado. ¿Fue alguno llamado sin haber sido circuncidado? Que no se circuncide. 19 Lo que importa es obedecer los mandamientos de Dios, y no el estar o no circuncidado. 20 Cada uno debe permanecer en la condición en que estaba cuando fue llamado. 21 ¿Fuiste llamado cuando aún eras esclavo? No te preocupes. Aunque, si tienes la oportunidad de liberarte, debes aprovecharla. 22 Porque el que era esclavo cuando el Señor lo llamó, es libre en el Señor. Del mismo modo, el que era libre cuando el Señor lo llamó, es esclavo de Cristo. 23 Ustedes han sido comprados por un precio; por lo tanto, no se hagan esclavos de los hombres. 24 Hermanos, cada uno de ustedes debe permanecer ante Dios en la condición en que estaba cuando él lo llamó.

25 En cuanto a los solteros y las solteras, no tengo un mandamiento del Señor; simplemente doy mi opinión como alguien que, por la misericordia del Señor, es digno de confianza. 26 Soy del parecer de que, ante la situación apremiante, es mejor que cada uno se quede como está. 27 ¿Estás casado? No trates de separarte. ¿Eres soltero? No busques casarte. 28 Aunque, si te casas, no pecas; y si alguna joven soltera se casa, tampoco peca. Sin embargo, los que se casan tendrán que enfrentar sufrimientos, y yo quisiera evitárselos. 29 Pero quiero decirles, hermanos, que el tiempo se acorta; por lo tanto, el que tiene esposa debe vivir como si no la tuviera; 30 el que llora, como si no llorara; el que se alegra, como si no se alegrara; el que compra, como si no tuviera nada; 31 y el que disfruta de este mundo, como si no lo disfrutara; porque el mundo que conocemos está por desaparecer.

32 Yo quisiera verlos libres de preocupaciones. El soltero se preocupa de servir al Señor, y de cómo agradarlo. 33 Pero el casado se preocupa de las cosas del mundo, y de cómo agradar a su esposa. 34 También hay diferencia entre la mujer casada y la joven soltera. La joven soltera se preocupa de servir al Señor y de ser santa, tanto en cuerpo como en espíritu. Pero la mujer casada se preocupa de las cosas del mundo, y de cómo agradar a su esposo. 35 Esto lo digo para el provecho de ustedes; no para ponerles trabas sino para que vivan en honestidad y decencia, y para que se acerquen al Señor sin ningún impedimento.

36 Pero si alguno piensa que es impropio que su hija continúe siendo soltera después de cierta edad, que haga lo que quiera. Con eso no pecan. Que se case. 37 El que está plenamente convencido, y no se siente obligado y es dueño de su propia voluntad, y decide que su hija no se case, hace bien. 38 De manera que quien permite que su hija se case, hace bien; y quien prefiere que no se case, hace mejor.

39 De acuerdo con la ley, la mujer casada está ligada a su esposo mientras éste vive; pero si su esposo muere, queda en libertad de casarse con quien quiera, con tal de que sea en el Señor. 40 Pero, en mi opinión, ella sería más dichosa si se quedara como está; y creo que yo también tengo el Espíritu de Dios.