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25 These proverbs of Solomon[a] were discovered and copied by the aides of King Hezekiah of Judah:

2-3 It is God’s privilege to conceal things, and the king’s privilege to discover and invent. You cannot understand the height of heaven, the size of the earth, or all that goes on in the king’s mind!

4-5 When you remove dross from silver, you have sterling ready for the silversmith. When you remove corrupt men from the king’s court, his reign will be just and fair.

6-7 Don’t demand an audience with the king as though you were some powerful prince. It is better to wait for an invitation rather than to be sent back to the end of the line, publicly disgraced!

8-10 Don’t be hotheaded and rush to court! You may start something you can’t finish and go down before your neighbor in shameful defeat. So discuss the matter with him privately. Don’t tell anyone else, lest he accuse you of slander and you can’t withdraw what you said.

11 Timely advice is as lovely as gold apples in a silver basket.

12 It is a badge of honor to accept valid criticism.

13 A faithful employee is as refreshing as a cool day[b] in the hot summertime.

14 One who doesn’t give the gift he promised is like a cloud blowing over a desert without dropping any rain.

15 Be patient and you will finally win, for a soft tongue can break hard bones.

16 Do you like honey? Don’t eat too much of it, or it will make you sick!

17 Don’t visit your neighbor too often, or you will outwear your welcome!

18 Telling lies about someone is as harmful as hitting him with an ax, or wounding him with a sword, or shooting him with a sharp arrow.

19 Putting confidence in an unreliable man is like chewing with a sore tooth, or trying to run on a broken foot.

20 Being happy-go-lucky around a person whose heart is heavy is as bad as stealing his jacket in cold weather or rubbing salt in his wounds.[c]

21-22 If your enemy is hungry, give him food! If he is thirsty, give him something to drink! This will make him feel ashamed of himself, and God will reward you.

23 As surely as a wind from the north brings cold,[d] just as surely a retort causes anger!

24 It is better to live in a corner of an attic than in a beautiful home with a cranky, quarrelsome woman.

25 Good news from far away is like cold water to the thirsty.

26 If a godly man compromises with the wicked, it is like polluting a fountain or muddying a spring.

27 Just as it is harmful to eat too much honey, so also it is bad for men to think about all the honors they deserve!

28 A man without self-control is as defenseless as a city with broken-down walls.

Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 25:1 These proverbs of Solomon, see 1 Kings 4:32. King Hezekiah. Hezekiah lived 200 years after Solomon.
  2. Proverbs 25:13 a cool day, literally, “snow.”
  3. Proverbs 25:20 rubbing salt in his wounds, literally, “like vinegar upon soda.”
  4. Proverbs 25:23 cold, literally, “rain.”

Further Wise Sayings of Solomon

The Right Word at the Right Time

25 There are also these proverbs of Solomon,
    collected by scribes of Hezekiah, king of Judah.

God delights in concealing things;
    scientists delight in discovering things.

Like the horizons for breadth and the ocean for depth,
    the understanding of a good leader is broad and deep.

4-5 Remove impurities from the silver
    and the silversmith can craft a fine chalice;
Remove the wicked from leadership
    and authority will be credible and God-honoring.

6-7 Don’t work yourself into the spotlight;
    don’t push your way into the place of prominence.
It’s better to be promoted to a place of honor
    than face humiliation by being demoted.

Don’t jump to conclusions—there may be
    a perfectly good explanation for what you just saw.

9-10 In the heat of an argument,
    don’t betray confidences;
Word is sure to get around,
    and no one will trust you.

11-12 The right word at the right time
    is like a custom-made piece of jewelry,
And a wise friend’s timely reprimand
    is like a gold ring slipped on your finger.

13 Reliable friends who do what they say
    are like cool drinks in sweltering heat—refreshing!

14 Like billowing clouds that bring no rain
    is the person who talks big but never produces.

15 Patient persistence pierces through indifference;
    gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses.

A Person Without Self-Control

16-17 When you’re given a box of candy, don’t gulp it all down;
    eat too much chocolate and you’ll make yourself sick;
And when you find a friend, don’t outwear your welcome;
    show up at all hours and he’ll soon get fed up.

18 Anyone who tells lies against the neighbors
    in court or on the street is a loose cannon.

19 Trusting a double-crosser when you’re in trouble
    is like biting down on an abscessed tooth.

20 Singing light songs to the heavyhearted
    is like pouring salt in their wounds.

21-22 If you see your enemy hungry, go buy him lunch;
    if he’s thirsty, bring him a drink.
Your generosity will surprise him with goodness,
    and God will look after you.

23 A north wind brings stormy weather,
    and a gossipy tongue stormy looks.

24 Better to live alone in a tumbledown shack
    than share a mansion with a nagging spouse.

25 Like a cool drink of water when you’re worn out and weary
    is a letter from a long-lost friend.

26 A good person who gives in to a bad person
    is a muddied spring, a polluted well.

27 It’s not smart to stuff yourself with sweets,
    nor is glory piled on glory good for you.

28 A person without self-control
    is like a house with its doors and windows knocked out.