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论到你们信上所提的事,我说男不近女倒好。 但要免淫乱的事,男子当各有自己的妻子,女子也当各有自己的丈夫。 丈夫当用合宜之分待妻子,妻子待丈夫也要如此。 妻子没有权柄主张自己的身子,乃在丈夫;丈夫也没有权柄主张自己的身子,乃在妻子。 夫妻不可彼此亏负,除非两相情愿,暂时分房,为要专心祷告方可;以后仍要同房,免得撒旦趁着你们情不自禁,引诱你们。 我说这话原是准你们的,不是命你们的。 我愿意众人像我一样,只是各人领受神的恩赐一个是这样,一个是那样。

论嫁娶的事

我对着没有嫁娶的和寡妇说,若他们常像我就好。 倘若自己禁止不住,就可以嫁娶。与其欲火攻心,倒不如嫁娶为妙。 10 至于那已经嫁娶的,我吩咐他们——其实不是我吩咐,乃是主吩咐说:“妻子不可离开丈夫, 11 若是离开了,不可再嫁,或是仍同丈夫和好。丈夫也不可离弃妻子。” 12 我对其余的人说(不是主说):倘若某弟兄有不信的妻子,妻子也情愿和他同住,他就不要离弃妻子; 13 妻子有不信的丈夫,丈夫也情愿和她同住,她就不要离弃丈夫。 14 因为不信的丈夫就因着妻子成了圣洁,并且不信的妻子就因着丈夫[a]成了圣洁;不然,你们的儿女就不洁净,但如今他们是圣洁的了。 15 倘若那不信的人要离去,就由他离去吧!无论是弟兄,是姐妹,遇着这样的事都不必拘束,神召我们原是要我们和睦。 16 你这做妻子的,怎么知道不能救你的丈夫呢?你这做丈夫的,怎么知道不能救你的妻子呢? 17 只要照主所分给各人的和神所召各人的而行。我吩咐各教会都是这样。 18 有人已受割礼蒙召呢,就不要废割礼;有人未受割礼蒙召呢,就不要受割礼。 19 受割礼算不得什么,不受割礼也算不得什么,只要守神的诫命就是了。

当各守身份

20 各人蒙召的时候是什么身份,仍要守住这身份。 21 你是做奴仆蒙召的吗?不要因此忧虑。若能以自由,就求自由更好。 22 因为做奴仆蒙召于主的,就是主所释放的人;做自由之人蒙召的,就是基督的奴仆。 23 你们是重价买来的,不要做人的奴仆。 24 弟兄们,你们各人蒙召的时候是什么身份,仍要在神面前守住这身份。

论守童身

25 论到童身的人,我没有主的命令,但我既蒙主怜恤能做忠心的人,就把自己的意见告诉你们。 26 因现今的艰难,据我看来,人不如守素安常才好。 27 你有妻子缠着呢,就不要求脱离;你没有妻子缠着呢,就不要求妻子。 28 你若娶妻,并不是犯罪;处女若出嫁,也不是犯罪。然而这等人肉身必受苦难,我却愿意你们免这苦难。 29 弟兄们,我对你们说,时候减少了。从此以后,那有妻子的,要像没有妻子; 30 哀哭的,要像不哀哭;快乐的,要像不快乐;置买的,要像无有所得; 31 用世物的,要像不用世物;因为这世界的样子将要过去了。 32 我愿你们无所挂虑。没有娶妻的,是为主的事挂虑,想怎样叫主喜悦。 33 娶了妻的,是为世上的事挂虑,想怎样叫妻子喜悦。 34 妇人和处女也有分别。没有出嫁的,是为主的事挂虑,要身体、灵魂都圣洁;已经出嫁的,是为世上的事挂虑,想怎样叫丈夫喜悦。 35 我说这话是为你们的益处,不是要牢笼你们,乃是要叫你们行合宜的事,得以殷勤服侍主,没有分心的事。 36 若有人以为自己待他的女儿不合宜,女儿也过了年岁,事又当行,他就可随意办理,不算有罪,叫二人成亲就是了。 37 倘若人心里坚定,没有不得已的事,并且由得自己做主,心里又决定了留下女儿不出嫁,如此行也好。 38 这样看来,叫自己的女儿出嫁是好,不叫她出嫁更是好。 39 丈夫活着的时候,妻子是被约束的。丈夫若死了,妻子就可以自由,随意再嫁,只是要嫁这在主里面的人。 40 然而按我的意见,若常守节更有福气。我也想自己是被神的灵感动了。

Footnotes

  1. 哥林多前书 7:14 “丈夫”原文作“弟兄”。

论婚姻

关于你们信上所写的事,我认为男人不亲近女人是好的。 不过,为了避免发生淫乱的事,男婚女嫁也合情合理。

夫妻双方都应当履行自己的义务,过正常的夫妻生活。 妻子无权支配自己的身体,丈夫才有权;丈夫也无权支配自己的身体,妻子才有权。 夫妻不可亏负彼此的需要,除非双方同意,才可以暂时分房,以便专心祈祷。以后,二人仍要恢复正常的夫妻生活,免得撒旦趁你们情不自禁的时候引诱你们。 我这番话是准许你们结婚,并不是命令你们结婚。 虽然我希望人人都像我一样独身,但每个人从上帝所领受的恩赐不同,有的是这样,有的是那样。

至于那些未婚的和寡居的,他们若能像我一样就好了。 但如果他们不能自制,就应该结婚,因为与其欲火攻心还不如结婚为好。 10 我也吩咐那些已婚的人,其实不是我吩咐,而是主吩咐:妻子不可离开丈夫, 11 若是离开了,妻子不可再嫁别人,只能与丈夫复合。丈夫也不可离弃妻子。

12 至于其他的人,主没有吩咐什么,但我要说,如果某弟兄的妻子不信主,但乐意和他同住,他就不应离弃妻子。 13 同样,如果某姊妹的丈夫不信主,但乐意和她同住,她就不应离弃丈夫。 14 因为不信的丈夫因妻子而得以圣洁了。同样,不信的妻子也因丈夫而得以圣洁了。否则你们的孩子就是不洁净的,但如今他们是圣洁的。 15 倘若不信的一方坚持要离开的话,就让他离开好了。无论是弟兄或姊妹遇到这样的事情都不必勉强。上帝呼召我们,原是要我们和睦相处。 16 你这做妻子的,怎么知道不能救你的丈夫呢?你这做丈夫的,怎么知道不能救你的妻子呢?

17 各人应当依照上帝的呼召和安排生活,这是我对各教会的吩咐。 18 如果蒙召时已经受了割礼,不必消除割礼;如果蒙召时没有受割礼,也不必去受割礼。 19 受不受割礼都算不得什么,最要紧的是遵行上帝的诫命。 20 各人应当保持自己蒙召时的身份。 21 如果你蒙召时是奴隶,不必因此而烦恼。不过如果你可以获得自由,也不要放过机会。 22 因为,如果你蒙召信主时是奴隶,现在则是主的自由人;如果你蒙召时是自由人,现在则是基督的奴仆。 23 你们是主用重价买来的,不要做人的奴隶。 24 弟兄姊妹,你们要在上帝面前保持自己蒙召时的身份。

25 关于独身的问题,主并没有给我任何命令,但我既然深受主恩,成为祂忠心的仆人,就向你们提供一些意见。

26 鉴于目前时势艰难,我认为各人最好是安于现状。 27 已经有妻子的,就不要设法摆脱她;还没有妻子的,就不要想着结婚。 28 男婚女嫁并不是犯罪,只是有家室的人总免不了许多人生的苦恼,我是盼望你们能够免去这些苦恼。

29 弟兄们,我告诉你们,时日不多了,从今以后,那些有妻子的,要像没有妻子的; 30 哭泣的,要像不哭泣的;欢喜的,要像不欢喜的;置业的,要像一无所有的。 31 享用世界之物的,不要沉溺其中,因为现今的世界很快就要过去了。

32 我希望你们无牵无挂。未婚的男子可以专心于主的事,想着怎样讨主的喜悦。 33 但已婚的男子挂虑世上的事,想着如何取悦妻子, 34 难免分心。没有丈夫的妇女和处女可以专心于主的事,叫身体和心灵都圣洁;已婚的妇女挂虑世上的事,想着如何取悦丈夫。 35 我这样说是为了你们的好处,不是要束缚你们,是要鼓励你们做合宜的事,好叫你们殷勤、专心事奉主。

36 若有人觉得对待自己的未婚妻有不合宜之处,女方的年纪也够大,自己又情欲难禁,就成全他的心愿,让他们结婚吧!这并不算犯罪。 37 如果这人心里确信自己没有结婚的需要,又能自己作主,打定主意不结婚,这样做也好。 38 所以,与未婚妻完婚是对的,但不结婚则更好。

39 丈夫还活着的时候,妻子必须忠于丈夫。如果丈夫去世了,她就自由了,可以再婚,只是要嫁给信主的弟兄。 40 然而,照我的意见,她若能不再婚就更有福了。我想自己也是受了上帝的灵感动才说这番话的。

Celibacy and Marriage

Now with regard to the issues you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”[a] But because of immoralities, each man should have relations with[b] his own wife and each woman with[c] her own husband. A husband should fulfill his marital responsibility[d] to his wife, and likewise a wife to her husband. It is not the wife who has the rights to her own body, but the husband. In the same way, it is not the husband who has the rights to his own body, but the wife. Do not deprive each other, except by mutual agreement for a specified time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.[e] Then resume your relationship,[f] so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that everyone was as I am. But each has his own gift from God, one this way, another that.

To the unmarried and widows I say that it is best for them to remain as I am. But if they do not have self-control, let them get married. For it is better to marry than to burn with sexual desire.[g]

10 To the married I give this command—not I, but the Lord[h]—a wife should not divorce a husband 11 (but if she does, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband), and a husband should not divorce his wife.

12 To the rest I say—I, not the Lord[i]—if a brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is happy to live with him, he should not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is happy to live with her, she should not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified because of the wife, and the unbelieving wife because of her husband.[j] Otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever wants a divorce, let it take place. In these circumstances the brother or sister is not bound.[k] God has called you in peace. 16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will bring your husband to salvation?[l] Or how do you know, husband, whether you will bring your wife to salvation?[m]

The Circumstances of Your Calling

17 Nevertheless,[n] as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each person, so must he live. I give this sort of direction in all the churches. 18 Was anyone called after he had been circumcised? He should not try to undo his circumcision.[o] Was anyone called who is uncircumcised? He should not get circumcised. 19 Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Instead, keeping God’s commandments is what counts. 20 Let each one remain in that situation in life[p] in which he was called. 21 Were you called as a slave?[q] Do not worry about it. But if indeed you are able to be free, make the most of the opportunity. 22 For the one who was called in the Lord as a slave is the Lord’s freedman. In the same way, the one who was called as a free person is Christ’s slave. 23 You were bought with a price. Do not become slaves of men. 24 In whatever situation someone was called, brothers and sisters,[r] let him remain in it with God.

Remaining Unmarried

25 With regard to the question about people who have never married,[s] I have no command from the Lord, but I give my opinion as one shown mercy by the Lord to be trustworthy. 26 Because of the impending crisis I think it best for you to remain as you are. 27 The one bound to a wife should not seek divorce. The one released from a wife should not seek marriage.[t] 28 But if you marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face difficult circumstances,[u] and I am trying to spare you such problems.[v] 29 And I say this, brothers and sisters:[w] The time is short. So then those who have wives should be as those who have none, 30 those with tears like those not weeping, those who rejoice like those not rejoicing, those who buy like those without possessions, 31 those who use the world as though they were not using it to the full. For the present shape of this world is passing away.

32 And I want you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the things of the world, how to please his wife, 34 and he is divided. An unmarried woman[x] or a virgin[y] is concerned about the things of the Lord, to be holy both in body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the things of the world, how to please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your benefit, not to place a limitation on you, but so that without distraction you may give notable and constant service to the Lord.

36 If anyone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his virgin,[z] if she is past the bloom of youth[aa] and it seems necessary, he should do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry. 37 But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep his own virgin, does well. 38 So then, the one who marries[ab] his own virgin does well, but the one who does not, does better.[ac]

39 A wife is bound as long as her husband is living. But if her husband dies,[ad] she is free to marry anyone she wishes (only someone in the Lord). 40 But in my opinion, she will be happier if she remains as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God!

Footnotes

  1. 1 Corinthians 7:1 tn Grk “It is good for a man not to touch a woman,” a euphemism for sexual relations. This idiom occurs ten times in Greek literature, and all of the references except one appear to refer to sexual relations (cf., e.g., Josephus, Ant. 1.8.1 [1.163]; Gen 20:6 [LXX]; Prov 6:29 [LXX]). For discussion see G. D. Fee, First Corinthians (NICNT), 275. Many recent interpreters believe that here again (as in 6:12-13) Paul cites a slogan the Corinthians apparently used to justify their actions. If this is so, Paul agrees with the slogan in part, but corrects it in the following verses to show how the Corinthians misused the idea to justify abstinence within marriage (cf. 8:1, 4; 10:23). See also G. D. Fee, “1 Corinthians 7:1 in the NIV,” JETS 23 (1980): 307-14.
  2. 1 Corinthians 7:2 tn Grk “each man should have his own wife.” “Have a wife” in this context means “have marital relations with” (see the following verse). The verb ἐχέτω (echetō, an imperatival form of ἔχω, [echō, “have”]) occurs twice in this verse, but has not been repeated in the translation for stylistic reasons. The idiom “have a wife” occurs 8 times in the LXX (Exod 2:1; Deut 28:30; 2 Chr 11:21; 1 Esd 9:12, 18; Tob 3:8; Isa 13:16; 54:1) with the meaning “have sexual relations with,” “be married,” or “be in continual sexual relations with,” and 10 times elsewhere in the NT with the same range of meaning (Matt 14:4; 22:28; Mark 6:18; 12:23; Luke 20:33, 28; John 4:18 [twice]; 1 Cor 5:1; 7:29). For discussion see G. D. Fee, First Corinthians (NICNT), 278; and G. D. Fee, “1 Corinthians 7:1 in the NIV,” JETS 23 (1980): 310-11.
  3. 1 Corinthians 7:2 tn Grk “should have.” For explanation of the translation, see the note on “have relations with” earlier in this verse.
  4. 1 Corinthians 7:3 tn Grk “fulfill the obligation” or “pay the debt,” referring to the fulfillment of sexual needs within marriage.
  5. 1 Corinthians 7:5 tc Most later witnesses (א2 M sy) add “fasting and” (τῇ νηστείᾳ καί, tē nēsteia kai) before “prayer.” But such an addition is motivated by ascetic concerns; further, its lack in P11vid,46 א* A B C D F G P Ψ 33 1739 1881 2464 al latt co argues decisively against its authenticity.
  6. 1 Corinthians 7:5 tn Grk “and be together again.”
  7. 1 Corinthians 7:9 tn Grk “than to burn,” a figure of speech referring to unfulfilled sexual passion.
  8. 1 Corinthians 7:10 sn Not I, but the Lord. Here and in v. 12 Paul distinguishes between his own apostolic instruction and Jesus’ teaching during his earthly ministry. In vv. 10-11, Paul reports the Lord’s own teaching about divorce (cf. Mark 10:5-12).
  9. 1 Corinthians 7:12 sn I, not the Lord. Here and in v. 10 Paul distinguishes between his own apostolic instruction and Jesus’ teaching during his earthly ministry. In vv. 12-16, Paul deals with a situation about which the Lord gave no instruction in his earthly ministry.
  10. 1 Corinthians 7:14 tc Grk “the brother.” Later witnesses (א2 D2 M) have ἀνδρί (andri, “husband”) here, apparently in conscious emulation of the earlier mention of ἀνήρ (anēr) in the verse. However, the earliest and best witnesses (P46 א* A B C D* F G P Ψ 33 1739 al co) are decisively in favor of ἀδελφῷ (adelphō, “brother”), a word that because of the close association with “wife” here may have seemed inappropriate to many scribes. It is also for reasons of English style that “her husband” is used in the translation.
  11. 1 Corinthians 7:15 sn Interpreters differ over the implication of the statement the brother or sister is not bound. One view is that the believer is “not bound to continue the marriage,” i.e., not so slavishly tied to the instruction about not divorcing (cf. vv. 10-11) that he or she refuses to face reality when the unbelieving spouse is unwilling to continue the relationship. In this view divorce is allowable under these circumstances, but not remarriage (v. 11 still applies: remain unmarried or be reconciled). The other view is that the believer is “not bound in regard to marriage,” i.e., free to remain single or to remarry. The argument for this view is the conceptual parallel with vv. 39-40, where a wife is said to be “bound” (a different word in Greek, but the same concept) as long as her husband lives. But if the husband dies, she is “free” to marry as she wishes, only in the Lord. If the parallel holds, then not bound in v. 15 also means “free to marry another.”
  12. 1 Corinthians 7:16 tn Grk “will save your husband?” The meaning is obviously that the wife would be the human agent in leading her husband to salvation.
  13. 1 Corinthians 7:16 tn Grk “will save your wife?” The meaning is obviously that the husband would be the human agent in leading his wife to salvation.
  14. 1 Corinthians 7:17 tn Or “only”; Grk “if not.”
  15. 1 Corinthians 7:18 tn Grk “Let him not pull over the foreskin,” that is, attempt to reverse the appearance of circumcision by a surgical procedure. This was sometimes done by Hellenistic Jews to hide the embarrassment of circumcision (1 Macc 1:15; Josephus, Ant. 12.5.1 [12.241]). Cf. BDAG 380 s.v. ἐπισπάω 3.
  16. 1 Corinthians 7:20 tn Grk “in the calling.” “Calling” in Paul is God’s work of drawing people to faith in Christ. As in 1:26, calling here stands by metonymy for a person’s circumstances when he becomes a Christian.
  17. 1 Corinthians 7:21 tn Traditionally, “servant” (KJV), though almost all modern translations render the word as “slave” here.
  18. 1 Corinthians 7:24 tn Grk “brothers.” See note on the phrase “brothers and sisters” in 1:10.
  19. 1 Corinthians 7:25 tn Grk “virgins.” There are three main views as to which group of people is referred to by the word παρθένος (parthenos) here, and the stance taken here directly impacts one’s understanding of vv. 36-38. (1) The term could refer to virgin women who were not married. The central issue would then be whether or not their fathers should give them in marriage to eligible men. (This is the view which has been widely held throughout the history of the Church.) (2) A minority understand the term to refer to men and women who are married but who have chosen to live together without sexual relations. This position might have been possible in the Corinthian church, but there is no solid evidence to support it. (3) The view adopted by many modern commentators (see, e.g., Fee, Conzelmann, Barrett) is that the term refers to young, engaged women who were under the influence of various groups within the Corinthian church not to go through with their marriages. The central issue would then be whether the young men and women should continue with their plans and finalize their marriages. For further discussion, see G. D. Fee, First Corinthians (NICNT), 325-28.
  20. 1 Corinthians 7:27 tn Grk “should not seek a wife.”
  21. 1 Corinthians 7:28 tn Grk “these will have tribulation in the flesh.”
  22. 1 Corinthians 7:28 tn Grk “I am trying to spare you.” Direct objects were frequently omitted in Greek when clear from the context. “Such problems” has been supplied here to make the sense of the statement clear.
  23. 1 Corinthians 7:29 tn Grk “brothers.” See note on the phrase “brothers and sisters” in 1:10.
  24. 1 Corinthians 7:34 sn In context the unmarried woman would probably refer specifically to a widow, who was no longer married, as opposed to the virgin, who had never been married.
  25. 1 Corinthians 7:34 tc There are three viable variant readings at this point in the text. (1) The reading ἡ γυνὴ ἡ ἄγαμος καὶ ἡ παρθένος (hē gunē hē agamos kai hē parthenos, “the unmarried woman and the virgin”) is represented by ancient and important mss, as well as some significant versions (P15 B 104 365 1505 vg co). (2) The reading ἡ γυνὴ ἡ ἄγαμος καὶ ἡ παρθένος ἡ ἄγαμος (“the unmarried woman and the unmarried virgin”) is also found in ancient and important mss (P46 א A 33 1739 1881). (3) The reading ἡ γυνὴ καὶ ἡ παρθένος ἡ ἄγαμος (“the woman and the unmarried virgin”) is found in Western mss (D F G) and the majority of Byzantine cursives. Based upon external evidence, the first and second readings are the strongest; the readings both reach deep into the second century with strong testimony from mss of the Alexandrian group of witnesses. Internal evidence seems equally balanced: Scribes may have wanted to add ἡ ἄγαμος to παρθένος for stylistic reasons, but they might also have wanted to remove it because it sounded redundant. Because Paul’s meaning is not quite clear, a decision on the proper textual reading is difficult. On the whole scribes tended to add to the text, not take from it. Thus the first reading should be favored as earlier, but this decision should be regarded as less than certain.tn Grk “The unmarried woman and the virgin.” The identity of the “virgin” here is a matter of interpretation (see note on “people who have never married” in v. 25 for discussion), which has in fact contributed to textual variation at this point in the text (see the text critical note above). As far as the translation is concerned, one must determine if one group of women or two are in view. It is possible that Paul means to refer to only one class of women here, namely unmarried virgins, but the use of the adjective ἡ ἄγαμος (hē agamos, “unmarried”) with “woman” and not “virgin” precludes that interpretation; in addition, the use of the article with both “woman” and “virgin” implies that two distinct groups are in view. If two groups are in view, English would more naturally use the conjunction “or” to indicate the distinction. Thus the translation “An unmarried woman or a virgin” has been used to make clear that two groups are in view.
  26. 1 Corinthians 7:36 tn Grk “virgin,” either a fiancée, a daughter, or the ward of a guardian. For discussion see the note at the end of v. 38.
  27. 1 Corinthians 7:36 tn Or referring to an engaged man: “if he is past the critical point,” “if his passions are too strong.” The word literally means “to be past the high point.”
  28. 1 Corinthians 7:38 tn Or “who gives his own virgin in marriage.”
  29. 1 Corinthians 7:38 sn 1 Cor 7:36-38. There are two common approaches to understanding the situation addressed in these verses. One view involves a father or male guardian deciding whether to give his daughter or female ward in marriage (cf. NASB, NIV margin). The evidence for this view is: (1) the phrase in v. 37 (Grk) “to keep his own virgin” fits this view well (“keep his own virgin [in his household]” rather than give her in marriage), but it does not fit the second view (there is little warrant for adding “her” in the way the second view translates it: “to keep her as a virgin”). (2) The verb used twice in v. 38 (γαμίζω, gamizō) normally means “to give in marriage” not “to get married.” The latter is usually expressed by γαμέω (gameō), as in v. 36b. (3) The father deciding what is best regarding his daughter’s marriage reflects the more likely cultural situation in ancient Corinth, though it does not fit modern Western customs. While Paul gives his advice in such a situation, he does not command that marriages be arranged in this way universally. If this view is taken, the translation will read as follows: “7:36 If anyone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his unmarried daughter, if she is past the bloom of youth and it seems necessary, he should do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry. 7:37 But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep his daughter unmarried, does well. 7:38 So then the one who gives his daughter in marriage does well, but the one who does not give her does better.” The other view is taken by NRSV, NIV text, NJB, REB: a single man deciding whether to marry the woman to whom he is engaged. The evidence for this view is: (1) it seems odd to use the word “virgin” (vv. 36, 37, 38) if “daughter” or “ward” is intended. (2) The other view requires some difficult shifting of subjects in v. 36, whereas this view manages a more consistent subject for the various verbs used. (3) The phrases in these verses are used consistently elsewhere in this chapter to describe considerations appropriate to the engaged couple themselves (cf. vv. 9, 28, 39). It seems odd not to change the phrasing in speaking about a father or guardian. If this second view is taken, the translation will read as follows: “7:36 If anyone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his fiancée, if his passions are too strong and it seems necessary, he should do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry. 7:37 But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep her as his fiancée, does well. 7:38 So then, the one who marries his fiancée does well, but the one who does not marry her does better.”
  30. 1 Corinthians 7:39 tn The verb κοιμάω (koimaō) literally means “sleep,” but it is often used in the Bible as a euphemism for the death of a believer.