Finding a new home is rarely just about changing your address. Whether you’re relocating to a different city or entering a fresh season of your spiritual journey, leaving your old community behind is one of the hardest transitions you can face.
You aren’t just looking for weekend worship — you want a place where you can be discipled, build relationships, serve others, and find both comfort and challenge as you grow your faith.
This article will help you find and choose a Christian community where you can truly thrive.
Whatever your stage of life — from college students and young families to empty-nesters and retirees — and regardless of your faith background — lifelong churchgoer or curious first-time seeker — I want you to help you find a healthy, thriving, faithful home to call your own.
1. Start Looking for a Church Home Before You Need One
If you are relocating, don’t wait until moving day to look for a church. As soon as your destination is locked in — ideally before you even buy or rent a place— start scoping out the local options.
Just as you would research local school districts, recreational opportunities, and commute times, you should build a mental map of the local church landscape.
A great way to begin is by asking your Realtor, browsing denominational directories (more on that later), or simply scouting the area on Google Maps.
That said …
2. Go Beyond ‘Churches Near Me’
Once you land, the easiest approach is a simple online search for “churches near me.” That’s definitely a good place to start — but not a good place to end, for two reasons.
First, while convenience and proximity matter, they should not be the number one reason for picking a church. There are much more important criteria to consider, which we’ll address in a moment. Starting with a list of all the churches in a certain radius from your new home isn’t a bad idea. Just don’t pick the closest or most prominent one without doing some deeper research.
Second, for the purposes of searching, there are other keywords worth trying to both expand and narrow down your options. Try searching for phrases like:
- “Bible study near me”
- “Christian community near me”
- “Christian parent group near me”
- “[denomination] church near [city/neighborhood]”
- “college ministry near me” or “[college] Christian ministry”
- “young adult Bible study near me”
- “[women’s/men’s] Bible study near me”
These sorts of terms can help you find churches that better fit your profile. But again, don’t always count on search results to give you the best option.
3. Focus on Your Top Criteria
This should be the real meat of your search. These are the critical, make-it-or-break-it questions about the kind of church you want to belong to.
I recommend making an ordered list of the following priorities. You probably won’t be able to check off every box perfectly, but you should know going in what your home runs and dealbreakers are.
Denomination and Church Tradition
For many believers, this will be your primary filter. If you already belong to a denomination, are happily committed to it, and/or feel that it best represents Christ’s body in the world, simply narrow your search to the local church(es) in that denomination.
In some cases (such as Catholic, Baptist, or Pentecostal) you’ll likely still have several options, and you can move through your other priorities to pick the best one. But you will have ruled out tons of churches that would not be a good fit.
If you don’t already have a denomination (or are unhappy in your current one), this might be a good time to experiment. Or you can simply check out non-denominational Christian churches.
Either way, do your research.
General Theological Agreement
If you don’t belong to a denomination, this should probably take the top place on your list. You need to find a church that generally agrees with you on the most important elements of faith — such as the primacy of Scripture and how it’s interpreted, the divinity and personhood of Jesus Christ, sacramental theology, social teachings, and so on.
Most churches have a “statement of faith” on their website; that’s the first place you should look. Read it carefully. Does it align overall with your core convictions?
The key word here is “overall.” Do not expect to find a church that agrees with you on every single point of doctrine. The goal is to find a church that you trust enough on the big issues to disciple you effectively and encourage you to worship with integrity and joy.
Worship Style and Liturgy
Following theological alignment, you’ll want to find a church with a worship style that brings you closest to the Spirit. You may want to consider questions like:
- Music style: Rock band? Hymn sing? Traditional organ? Gospel? This often defines the “feel” of the church. What kind of music speaks to your soul?
- Liturgy: Closely tied to music is the liturgical style, from “high church” or formal (Orthodox, Catholic, Anglican, Lutheran) to “low church” or informal (Baptist, Pentecostal, non-denominational). Do you want a carefully constructed, consistent order of service, or something more spontaneous and free?
- Scripture: Is the Bible read during service? (If not, that’s probably a red flag.) What version(s) do they use?
- Prayer: Are prayers spontaneous or recited? Is the congregation invited to participate, or does the pastor lead exclusively?
- Communion: How often is communion served? What format and style — wafers and wine, or bread and juice? Intinction or individual cups?
- Baptism: Does the church do infant or adult baptisms? Full immersion or sprinkling?
- Creeds: Are creeds like the Apostles’ Creed or Nicene Creed read in worship, or does the church favor more personal confessions of faith?
You may not have an opinion on all of these topics. That’s OK. Just make sure to note the ones that matter to you.
Size and Structure
This section will come down to simple preference. Do you want the cozy community of a small church or the vibrant thrill of a megachurch? Neither choice is objectively better — but one will almost certainly be better for you.
- Small churches might offer grounding, familiarity, close connections, intergenerational relationships, easier opportunities to serve, and a place where you feel known and seen. For some, they are comforting; for others, stifling.
- Large churches might offer more programs, specialized ministries, greater diversity, wider community, and the excitement of large-scale communal worship. For some, they are energizing; for others, overwhelming.
Consider also the building’s size and structure. Is it important to you to worship in a cathedral? Or are you more comfortable in a traditional, steepled church? Or something more casual and unassuming, like a modern church-plant?
Remember, church size is not a spiritual scorecard. The question is whether the church helps people like you worship, serve, and grow.
Preaching and Pastoral Leadership
Often, choosing a church also means choosing a pastor, or pastors. Though closely connected to theology and liturgy, there are two other major factors: leadership and preaching.
Leadership
Pay attention to how much influence the pastor has over the church. A strong, charismatic leader can provide numerous benefits, but beware of churches that follow their pastor more closely than they follow Jesus (see 1 Corinthians 1:11-13).
Additionally, find out about the leadership structure:
- Are there multiple pastors or only one? How do they divide leadership duties?
- What sort of qualifications are required? Formal ordination, approval from a board of elders, or simply answering an internal call? Who maintains accountability?
- What is the church’s stance on women in ministry?
Preaching
Today, it’s much easier to learn about pastors’ preaching styles than in the past. Most churches livestream their worship services and often post sermons online. You may want to watch a few before attending.
- What is the pastor (or pastors’) preaching style like? Are sermons extemporaneous or read from a manuscript? How long is a typical sermon?
- Does the pastor preach clearly and faithfully from Scripture?
- How topical does the preaching get? Does the pastor address political issues in a way that honors Christ and models fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23)?
- Above all, does the preaching help you better understand the Bible and follow Christ?
4. Consider Your Stage of Life
Once you have a good idea about the kind of church you want and you start exploring options, take note of the composition of the congregation. Are there people like you in the pews?
Once again, this isn’t about finding a church where everyone is like you — that would be contrary to the Gospel! But you probably won’t be happy if you’re the only 20-something in a sea of retirees, or vice versa.
Families
For families, the most important question comes down to: How friendly is the church to children? There are ways this can play out:
- Are there other kids in your kids’ age range?
- Is there a church school or youth ministry program?
- Do they hold an intergenerational worship service?
- What sort of family activities, resources, and support are there?
Look beyond the offerings for your kids’ current ages, too (they grow fast!). Will there be strong discipling opportunities for them as they age up?
Young Adults and College Students
If you’re a college student in a new town or a young adult wanting to explore faith on your own, you may want to start by checking in with on-campus ministries — though as you do, keep the rest of this guide in mind.
It’s important to find local peers to explore your faith with — not just podcasts and social media. But think beyond campus life, too:
- Can the church connect you with older believers for mentorship or guidance?
- Are there small groups or Bible studies to keep you focused in your faith?
- Will there be opportunities to get involved and serve the local community?
Finding a new church can be intimidating, especially if it’s your first time doing so. It’s OK to be nervous — but don’t let that hold you back. Most Christian communities will be delighted to welcome you and answer any questions you have.
Older Adults
Finding the right church can be even harder for older adults moving to new communities — especially if you’re mourning the loss of your old one. You’ll likely want to find something that feels familiar, but don’t be afraid to take a few risks, too.
Ultimately it’s not about finding a one-to-one substitute for your old church home, but building a new community as the person you are today. Therefore, other factors might overshadow worship for you:
- How engaged is the pastor with the congregation? Can you receive pastoral visitations and care when needed?
- Is the service (and other parts of the building) accessible?
- Are there opportunities to mentor younger believers or engage in intergenerational small groups?
- Does the congregational culture welcome older members as active participants in church life?
5. Visit More Than One Church More Than Once Before Deciding
It’s helpful to research and think about your ideal church ahead of time — but that doesn’t mean you should make your final choice ahead of time. It’s best to have a short list of local churches that you are interested in. Then, get your foot in the door!
For each church, attend two or three services — either in a row, or staggered between your top picks. Afterwards, take some notes (either mentally or literally) about your experience:
- How did it make you feel? Uncomfortable? Inspired? Disengaged? Renewed?
- What did you like about it? What gave you pause?
- Was the congregation welcoming and friendly? Were they too welcoming, maybe a little desperate?
- Did anything surprise you?
If you like it enough to go back, it’s a good idea to ask about meeting with a pastor, ministry leader, membership coordinator, or other official who can answer any lingering questions.
Don’t Neglect Bible Study and Small Groups
While you’re exploring your shortlist, don’t underestimate the value of checking out a Bible study or small group, too.
Sunday worship is central, of course, but these smaller gatherings often help you get to know people a little better — and get a sense of whether your own perspective will be welcomed. They are also especially helpful after moving or when looking to build community, thanks to that opportunity for deeper connection.
6. Give Yourself Time, But Don’t Drift
Finally, let yourself move through the feelings that the search for your new church home might bring, especially in the midst of a major transition.
A pastor friend of mine likes to make a distinction between “church hunting” and “church grieving.” If you’re hungry for a new Christian community, great! Don’t rush into it, but there’s no reason to hold back, either.
But if you’re grieving the loss of your old church — whether you had to leave it behind, or because of “church hurt” that pushed you away — don’t be surprised if even a good Sunday service makes you want to spend the rest of the day crying.
It’s OK to take your time — but don’t let it turn into months of disconnection. Especially in a new location, that level of isolation can be devastating. Try to keep yourself engaged every Sunday if possible — even if it’s a different church each time. Whatever it stirs up for you, spend some time that afternoon or evening bringing it to God in prayer.
Eventually, you will find a place where you feel the Spirit undeniably calling you back.
Questions to Ask When Choosing a New Church
Here is a quick checklist that distills many of the above questions into an easily referenced guide while you are searching for your new church home.
- Is the church close enough for you to participate consistently?
- (Optional: Does the church belong to the same denomination as you?)
- Does the church’s theology align with core Christian beliefs and your convictions?
- Does the worship style help you participate honestly and reverently?
- Does the size and structure of the building and congregation invite your participation in worship and church life?
- Do the pastors and leaders seem trustworthy, humble, and accountable?
- Is Scripture central in worship, preaching, teaching, and discipleship?
- Are there opportunities for your life stage: families, students, singles, older adults?
- Is the congregation welcoming without feeling artificial?
- Is there a clear path to joining a small group, Bible study, or ministry?
- Are there ways to serve, not just attend?
- Could you imagine growing here over time?
Remember — no church will be perfect. The goal is not to find a flawless congregation, but a faithful one.
Conclusion: Finding a Church Home Is Part of Settling In
A new church home will not make a new city feel familiar overnight. But over time, worship, Scripture, prayer, service, and Christian friendship can help a new place become home.
So, Who Crushes the Dragon-Snake?: Weird Stuff in the Bible, Part 3
In my last article, I introduced a character that appears in the biblical narrative whom I described as the “Dragon-snake”. You may want to review it and get some of the background as to why I described him as such.
As you may have guessed, the Dragon-snake is in fact the crafty one — Satan, himself. And while he certainly steals the storyline from Adam, Eve, and potentially God in the first portion of Genesis 3 (vv. 1-13), he doesn’t get the last word — God does. In Genesis 3:15b, He states: “… he will crush your head …”. The “he” in 3:15b is none other than the One whom the Apostle John calls in John 1:1-5 (NIV), “The Word”:
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”
Thankfully, Jesus is that Word, and John lets his readers know that He was there in the beginning, with God, for He was, is, and ever will be God Himself. There He is, the incarnation of the God of all the omnis, come to earth — all of His omni-power incarnated and physically present on the planet. That means that He is eternal and that no one, or no thing, can be before or after Him, or ever get the last word pertaining to Him. The Bible is His story, He is the Thesis of the entire narrative, and the reader must never forget that.
However, There Is the Dragon-Snake Problem
We can’t forget that in Genesis 3, although God has spoken, the Dragon-snake seems to have won the day — temporarily at least. The Maker of Days, the Ancient One Himself, cannot ever be outdone, for the Bible is His story and will be written and played out only as He decides. One cannot forget that in Genesis 3:15, He set things in order for the rest of the story by stating His thesis directly to the Dragon-snake’s face, while Adam and Eve are hiding shamefully in the bushes.
All of the great stories have a thesis, which simply put, is a central claim or argument that an author puts forward in an essay, paper, or story, then attempts to prove it throughout the body of his work. I believe that, in the greatest of all stories, the Bible, God has done this emphatically:
So the Lord God said to the serpent, “Because you have done this,
“Cursed are you above all livestock
and all wild animals!
You will crawl on your belly
and you will eat dust
all the days of your life.
And I will put enmity
between you and the woman,
and between your offspring (seed) and hers;
he will crush your head,
and you will strike his heel.”
— Genesis 3:14–15 (NIV, my emphases)
There it is! The Dragon-snake will be cursed to crawl on his belly, not walking or flying anymore. There would also be “enmity,” or a murderous battle between the Dragon-snake and the woman. His head, now slithering in the dust, would be repeatedly crushed and ultimately obliterated by the Seed of the Woman. Yes, there would be an epic and bloody battle for thousands of years, but the Dragon-snake had been cursed and put on notice. He would not steal the storyline anymore, for the Author Himself had another plan and had prophesied a Heavenly end to the temporarily hellish story.
So, note that we will now be calling him the Serpent, not the Dragon-Snake, since dragons can fly, walk, and talk, and this one cannot do those things anymore. He has been cursed to be a lowly serpent. His fate would be to remain a slithering, dust-eating snake. Thus, we speak of and remember him merely as the Serpent.
The Rest of the Serpent-Crushing Story
The rest of the Bible is the playing out of this epic, serpent-crushing tale. It’s a tale that will consistently remind the Serpent and the reader that there is One who will ultimately come and eternally crush the dust eater. The Serpent-Crusher would be Jesus — the Thesis. He is the Seed of the Woman spoken of in Genesis 3, as well as the Light who outshines the darkness in John 1:1.
Yes, the Serpent, who is darkness incarnate, would attempt to drown out the Light throughout the annals of time, but he would never get the last word, for God had spoken and the slitherer was cursed to be crushed time and time again. Jesus, the Thesis, shows up to crush him in every book of the Bible, in every way imaginable, sometimes obvious and sometimes hidden, yet always reminding the readers of yesterday, today, and tomorrow that God has an ever-living plan to see His Thesis be proven over and over, again and again, for all eternity.
Serpent Crushing Highlights in the Old Testament
Scripture is filled with the stories of men and women who exercised their faith in the Serpent Crusher and would crush the Serpent in their own unique times and places, pointing to an ultimate, eternal crushing and life in a “country” where the faithful would live in a Serpent-free environment, wherein Jesus would make “…all things new” (Rev. 21:5). The Thesis would be fully realized and emphatically proven. The writer of Hebrews speaks of the faithful ones:
“All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance, admitting that they were foreigners and strangers on earth. People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own. If they had been thinking of the country they had left, they would have had opportunity to return. Instead, they were longing for a better country—a heavenly one. Therefore, God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them.” (Hebrews 11:13-16 NIV)
Some of the Serpent Crushers of the Old Testament were people like Abraham, who was called to go to a place he had never heard of and, by faith, enter into a covenant relationship with a God he did not yet know (see Genesis 12-25). He would perpetuate the Serpent Crushing seed of the woman to his seed — Isaac, Jacob, and their seed.
There was Joseph, kidnapped by his brothers and sold into slavery. Yet, by faith, he trusted God to crush the Serpent (see Genesis 37-50) and ultimately save his family and his nation. He would, by faith, perpetuate the Serpent Crusher’s seed to his seed.
Perhaps one of the most famous Serpent Crushers was King David. He would engage in an epic battle with Goliath, a serpent-like giant (see 1 Samuel 16-17), and not only crush his huge “hairy crown” (see Psalm 68:21) but cut it off, lift it up, and display it for all the world to see and give God glory. This was so profound an occurrence that Jesus would eventually be called “Son of David” (see Matt. 1:1, 21:9).
There is not enough space in this article to mention where in the other books of the Bible (all of them in my opinion), Jesus, the Thesis, makes appearances. For a larger list of those appearances, you may want to check out my book, Jesus is the Thesis.
Does the Serpent Get Crushed in the New Testament Too?
Absolutely, the Serpent gets crushed in the New Testament, too. In fact, Jesus, the Serpent Crusher Himself is the connecting force between the Old and New. As we have already seen, John reminds us that He, the Word, was there in the beginning at creation (John 1:1), then prophesied by the mouth of God to be the One who would crush the serpent and his seed (Gen. 3:14-15). I have given a few Old Testament examples of Him working through various serpent-crushing heroes of faith. Then, as Paul puts it, “When the set time had fully come,” Jesus came to the planet to initiate a final assault on the Serpent and his minions:
“But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, that we might receive adoption to sonship.” (Galatians 4:4-5 NIV)
Jesus’s birth in Bethlehem brought about the crushing reality that, in Him, and through Him, there would be both temporal and eternal hope for all who would have faith in Him. Through Jesus, they would have hope in the Serpent Crusher and could become Serpent Crushers themselves. The Serpent would not get the last word; Jesus would.
In my next article, I will outline what serpent-crushing looked like in the New Testament and then what it might look like today and for all eternity. In fact, Paul gives us an encouraging sneak peek when he says to us, “The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet. The grace of our Lord Jesus be with you” (Romans 16:20 NIV).
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