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Words of Life, with Brian Bird | Bible Connection Podcast

What does it look like to be a Jesus follower in Hollywood? TV and film producer and screenwriter Brian Bird sits down with The Bible Connection Podcast to discuss his faith journey and the importance of telling Christ-centered stories to the entire world. He talks about the power of story and the impact we can have for God’s Kingdom through telling His story.

Brian Bird

What does it look like to be a Jesus follower in Hollywood? TV and film producer and screenwriter Brian Bird sits down with The Bible Connection Podcast to discuss his faith journey and the importance of telling Christ-centered stories to the entire world.

Brian talks about how he grew up with a passion for media story that was centered on his faith. He shares his experience getting started in the television industry and explains how his work is a way of understanding people on a deeper level. His storytelling is all based on truth about people and the way the world works.

Since Brian recognizes that all storytelling comes from the Creation, he explains how he sees his work as missional. Because of the way media and content has dominated the conversations of the world and spread everywhere, he recognized that the opportunity for faith-affirming stories is out there and that God can use stories to teach people more about Him. The new media landscape gives Christians the opportunity to take the greatest story ever told into the global conversation and make sure everyone has a chance to hear it.

As Christians, we have the unique ability to bring the hope and trust we have in Christ to a global audience. Brian talks about how he feels the call to tell uplifting stories within an industry that can feel cynical. He talks about different crises of faith that made him feel as if his work was disconnected from spreading the gospel. He shares some of the advice and perspective that helped him focus on the missional aspect of storytelling.

Excerpts from This Podcast

8:35 — “I still attack it like I’m a journalist. I love that because while some of it, yes, is pure fiction, some of it is based on experience. Or my sense of the world. Or my experience with other people and learning how they work and how they tick. So, in a way, all story has truth. Even fiction is coming from a place of truth. It comes from human experience.”

11:56 — “If God can use something that small, or if the world is going to take something that small and it can spread all over the world, then the reverse of that has to be true. The opportunity for life and faith affirming story and content is out there.”

18:34 — “I went through a bit of an existential crisis in college, in secular journalism school, where I was being confronted with the marketplace of ideas. I was saying, “How can I make this fit with who I was raised to be and who I’ve grown up to be?” I talked to a professor who I did not know was a person of faith, was a believer in Jesus. I said, “I’m trying to put the pieces together, I’m trying to make this all fit.” He said to me something very powerful. He said, “In the marketplace of ideas, truth is always going to rise to the top, so don’t be afraid of the marketplace.””

24:21 — “It was permission. Permission to be dangerous with the faith. Permission to be dangerous with the truth. To be bold. To tell people what they need, not just tell them what they want, but to tell them and give them what they need.”

32:02 — “And then it occurred to me, how did God leave His revelation to us? In a big, fat novel. A big, fat narrative. His story. This narrative running through space and time, across the cosmos, across all of time. And we’re all characters in that novel.”

33:35 — “Story is in our bones, it’s in our DNA. Our starvation for story. God spoke and story happened. He communicated His truth to us in story. All throughout history, the myths of mankind all have the same story.”

38:11 — “Story is food. God’s story is food. It’s the cure for everything in the universe. This giant love story from Heaven to Earth is the only thing that fixes anything.”

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
— John 1:1 (NKJV)

For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, says the Lord: I will put My laws in their mind and write them on their hearts; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.
— Hebrews 8:10 (NKJV)

looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
— Hebrews 12:2 (NKJV)

Moreover He said to me, “Son of man, eat what you find; eat this scroll, and go, speak to the house of Israel.”
— Ezekiel 3:1 (NKJV)

Soul Rest, with Curtis Zackery | Bible Connection Podcast

Curtis Zackery joins us on this episode of The Bible Connection Podcast to talk about his new book, Soul Rest. This book was born out of Curtis’ own history with finding identity in his work and his ministry and seeks to show how often we push to do more of God’s Work without stopping to see if God is with us in the work. In the Bible, God gives us the example of resting from work and finding refreshment in the work only God can do – a practice that Curtis stresses the importance of today. Although true rest only comes from Christ, Curtis gives us some helpful advice to point us back to resting in Jesus.

Curtis Zackery

Curtis Zackery joins the Bible Connection Podcast to talk about his new book, Soul Rest, and how it was born out of his own life and his own search for identity within the “hustle mentality.” He talks about how our worth and value become interwoven with what we do for God instead of living from God. We tell ourselves that we are only valuable if we are building, creating, and pushing for God without stopping to see if God is with us in our work. A convergence of a few different things brought Curtis to awareness of things needing to change in his own life and his own search for value. He talks about those different things and what God laid on his heart during those times.

In the midst of ministry work, Curtis learned more about depending on God in all things, including the loss of two pregnancies. He recognized a difference between the world’s idea of rest and the concept of resting in Christ. He searched the Scriptures to understand more about God’s idea of rest and what it actually means to be connected with God in rest. In the Bible, God stresses the importance of Sabbath rest and finding refreshment in the work only God can do. We are still called to the act of acknowledging that work that only God can do.

Curtis gives us some examples and some practices that we can place in our lives to make sure that we intentionally rest in Christ. Finding deep contentment in Christ is the message of the Bible and Curtis gives advice on how to live that out. Although true soul rest can only come through Jesus Christ, Curtis gives us some practices that may be able to help us that aren’t just checking a box, but help us to meet the Lord of the Sabbath in our rest.

Excerpts from This Podcast

3:54 — “Our lives are to be spent living for the Kingdom of God here on Earth. It’s for His glory. Everything that we do is for the purpose of elevating the name of Jesus.”

7:21 — “What I was recognizing, sadly, is there was a dependence on me to lead through things, there was a dependence on the relationship, but I wasn’t fully depending on God to sustain and fuel me.”

10:58 — “I know that my desire is to be connected to God and to live from a place of connection with Him. So I have to just search the Scriptures and see what it tells me about this idea of rest.”

13:05 — “You need to stop and you need to acknowledge the work that can only be done by the Hand of God. On six days you will work and you will do your thing, you’ll produce, you’ll make, you’ll build. On the seventh day, what keeps the day holy, is you stopping, acknowledging the work that can only be done by the Hand of God and finding refreshment in that.”

16:01 — “This idea of God’s desire for humanity to find deep soul contentment in Him is the message of the Bible.”

20:14 — “When we start to get into the minutia of is this enough, am I doing it the right way, we begin to steal from the opportunity to find that place of communion and connection with God.”

23:25 — “Yes, there is work, yes there is the glorification of the Kingdom of God and the way of Jesus, but it is sustained by the work that has been done on the cross.”

30:40 — “I can’t stress enough the importance of community. Our faith is communal by design. And I think that’s one of the biggest areas where we go askew because we do think it’s up to us to journey alone and to try to figure out the best way that we can to adapt and adopt these things.”

And on the seventh day God ended His work which He had done, and He rested on the seventh day from all His work which He had done.
— Genesis 2:2

It is a sign between Me and the children of Israel forever; for in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, and on the seventh day He rested and was refreshed.
— Exodus 31:17

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
— Matthew 11:28-29

For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.
— Ephesians 2:8-10

I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith. For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function.
— Romans 12:1-4

Jesus Over Everything, with Lisa Whittle | Bible Connection Podcast

With 8 bestselling books and a new Bible study, Lisa Whittle has dedicated her life to chasing after Jesus. She joined the Bible Connection Podcast to talk about lessons she learned and wrote about in her book, Jesus Over Everything: Uncomplicating the Daily Struggle to Put Jesus First (Thomas Nelson, 2020). She talks about the importance of service and how serving as God wants us to changes us. She also talks about the importance of pursuing holiness and trusting in God to empower us in all that he asks us to do.

Lisa Whittle

In this episode of the Bible Connection Podcast, Lisa Whittle talks about her realization, gleaned from her study of the Bible, that Jesus is to be placed over everything in her life and how hard it is to realize that goal. Even though it can feel like a heady to-do list, Lisa explains how placing Jesus over everything is actually a way to uncomplicate your life and operate the way the Bible says you should.

She talks about lies that we often believe about service. That we often get off track by thinking whatever has the biggest spotlight is doing the best. We look at service the way man judges it instead of how God does it. Often, we think of service incorrectly. Lisa talks about how to have a proper perspective on service and how that can change your heart. Then, she talks about how service can often be painful and something she must pray for and work for.

Lisa talks about the importance of choosing holiness over freedom and how that relinquishment leads to an abundant life that God has promised. Pursuing legalism isn’t Biblical, but choosing holiness isn’t legalism, as Lisa explains in the episode. She explains how so often we are enslaved by our own free choices and choosing holiness is so much less complicated.

People constantly chase substitute saviors and things to distract us that ultimately don’t bring us true joy and happiness. At the end of the day, we’re back to complicated lives and stress. Lisa shows us that following Christ and putting Jesus over everything is truly a way to bring joy and an uncomplicated life. Lisa encourages us that God will empower us to do what He asks us to do. It will be difficult, but it is possible.

Excerpts from This Podcast

2:02 — “Things for me die hard. My self, the death to my own desires and wants, and just doing what I want to do.”

2:33 — “I know the Bible’s true, I believe the Bible, I believe the Creator of this system of order set things up and the way He set it up is that He would be in first place and everything else would fall from the priority order.”

3:53 — “God is so amazing that not only would He create us, but then He would care for us by saying no the reason why I want you to put Me over everything is because I want your life to work well so that you can not only have a thriving life – not perfect, not problem-free according to John 16:33 – but less complicated than it’s become.”

8:28 — “The point is: where’s your heart? What are you doing? And what are you doing it for? It’s a private matter between you and the Lord that you have to work out.”

10:33 — “When we serve, it innately changes who we are as people.”

12:26 — “Service has changed me, going against the grain of who I am, of myself, of my flesh. It’s changed me more than almost anything else.”

16:28 — “We have a lot of believers who are enslaved by our own choices and it is not the free, thriving life that God has created us to have. Instead, the choice for holiness, which really is emulating the entire character of Christ, who He is, and all of that, it produces the kind of freedom that allows us to truly thrive in this life.”

20:15 — “For me, I don’t like people bossing me around. I’m very independent. I don’t necessarily love rules. So this speaks to my own rebellious heart. But I don’t feel in any way hindered by following Jesus and by being under the protection of holiness. I feel more free than I ever have in my entire life.”

23:10 — “Do you want your life to be ultimately uncomplicated in the day-to-day? Do you want to keep running to the substitute saviors who won’t help you in the end? Or do you want a better solution than that?”

25:50 — “God knows. He knows in ways that we don’t know. He is working things on our behalf that we cannot possibly see or know.”

These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.
— John 16:33

And He is before all things, and in Him all things consist. And He is the head of the body, the church, who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in all things He may have the preeminence.
— Colossians 1:17-18

I cried out to You, O Lord:
I said, “You are my refuge,
My portion in the land of the living.
— Psalm 142:5

What the Bible Says About Your Identity in Christ

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What names are you answering to? It’s easy to forget who we are in the midst of life’s struggles. But, as believers, we can trust what the Bible tells us about our identity in Christ, and how we should live in light of those truths. Today’s post from bestselling author Hosanna Wong will explore some of those key identity Scriptures, offering insight and encouragement by unpacking nine names God calls us.

God knew that throughout our lives we’d be told lies about who we are and who we are not. Our Creator’s words show us who we were created to be, and who we have always been. Remember, no one has the power to define you but the One who created you. And the names God calls you may be very different from the other names you’ve been told.

I want to unpack nine names from the Word of God, names He has given to those who follow Him. Write them down, study them, highlight and circle everything that stands out to you. To be clear, God gives you a lot of names in the Bible. I encourage you to read it fully and uncover every name God has given you and see yourself through His lens. These nine are a great place to begin.

1. Friend of God

For the one who feels abandoned or alone . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “I don’t call you servants any longer. . . . I call you friends.” John 15:15 (VOICE) You are not abandoned or alone.

FRIEND OF GOD. That’s your name.

2. Chosen

For the one who feels like an afterthought, a mistake, or second place . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “To you who belong to God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ . . . We know, dear brothers and sisters, that God loves you and has chosen you to be his own people.” 1 Thessalonians 1:1, 4 (NLT) There is no requirement to be chosen by God other than belonging to God.

Eugene Peterson puts that same verse this way: “It is clear to us, friends, that God not only loves you very much but also has put his hand on you for something special.” 1 Thessalonians 1:2-5 (MSG) This means that not only is your position important, but God has intentionally placed you precisely where you are. You are no afterthought.

CHOSEN. That’s your name.

3. God’s Masterpiece

For the one who feels unworthy, or less-than . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “We are his workmanship,” (Ephesians 2:10, KJV) “We are God’s masterpiece,” (Ephesians 2:10, NLT) and “We are the product of His hand, heaven’s poetry etched on lives, created in the Anointed, Jesus, to accomplish the good works God arranged long ago.” (Ephesians 2:10, VOICE) You are not unworthy.

GOD’S MASTERPIECE. That’s your name.

4. God’s Temple

For the one who feels ashamed of your body because of what you’ve done with it, or what has been done to it . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who comes from God and dwells inside of you.” 1 Corinthians 6:19 (VOICE)  You are not defined by what you did or what was done to you.

GOD’S TEMPLE. That’s your name.

5. God’s Messenger

For the one who feels ill-equipped to show the love of God in your everyday life, who thinks your story is not good enough to help people, or your life could never make an impact . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. And you will be my witnesses, telling people about me everywhere—in Jerusalem, throughout Judea, in Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” Acts 1:8 (NLT)

The apostle Paul said, “Your life story confirms the life story of the Anointed One.” 1 Corinthians 1:6 (VOICE) You are not unqualified to share the hope of Jesus.

GOD’S MESSENGER. That’s your name.

6. Child of God

For the one who feels like you grew up too fast, your childhood was stolen, and you never got the chance to fully experience what being a child is like . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “Whoever did want him, who believed he was who he claimed and would do what he said, He made to be their true selves, their child-of-God selves.” (John 1:12, MSG) We “are all children of God through faith in Christ Jesus.” (Galatians 3:26, NLT)  You are not defined by what was taken from you.

CHILD OF GOD. That’s your name.

7. Greatly Loved

For the one who feels unlovable, too broken, and like there are things in your past that could never be redeemed . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “While we were wasting our lives in sin, God revealed His powerful love to us in a tangible display—the Anointed One died for us,” (Romans 5:8, VOICE) and “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:13, ESV) You are not unlovable.

GREATLY LOVED. That’s your name.

8. Free, Indeed

For the one who feels like you’ll never be set free from the shame of who you were, what you’ve done, or how you used to live . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36, NLT) “And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God.

The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, he will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you.” (Romans 8:10-11, NLT) You are not chained to your past.

FREE, INDEED. That’s your name.

9. Brand New

When you feel like you are stuck with your old names, your old mentalities, and the opinions of people who only knew you by your past . . . you are more than you’ve been told.

The truth: “Anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!” (2 Corinthians 5:17, NLT) You are not stuck in your past.

BRAND NEW. That’s your name.


You Are More Than You’ve Been Told

Adapted from You Are More Than You’ve Been Told by Hosanna Wong.

You Are More Than You've Been Told

In You Are More Than You’ve Been Told, spoken word artist and bestselling author Hosanna Wong unveils a fresh approach to spiritual disciplines as the practical ways we can stay connected to God and to our true selves. She will help you:

  • identify the lies that have held you back and uncover important truths about who you are and have always been,
  • discover tangible tools to help you heal from deep wounds and see God in the most tender places of your story, and
  • unlock four key rhythms that will help you be free of burdens you were never meant to carry.

It turns out—You will know who you really are when you spend real time with the One who knows you the best. Let this practical roadmap show you how.

You Are More Than You’ve Been Told is published by HarperCollins Christian Publishing, Inc., the parent company of Bible Gateway.

What Is the Presence of God?

What is the presence of God? Christians often talk about “seeking God’s presence” or praying for God “to be present with us in this place.” But what exactly does that mean?

Psalm 16:11 says, “You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence.” It’s in God’s presence that we find the fullness of joy. And, as Nehemiah 8:10 tells us, “The joy of the Lord is [our] strength.” It’s in God’s presence where we receive correction, direction, comfort, and assurance. God’s presence brings clarity to our confusion, hope in place of despair.

God’s presence is everything to us. He shows up in surprising ways in our stories. And even in seasons of silence, we can learn from Him.

God’s Presence Is Dynamic

God is not subject to our formulas. He won’t fit in our boundaries or boxes. He’s not limited by our small thinking. Isaiah 55:8–9 says God’s ways are higher and His thoughts are deeper and His love is far greater than our minds can fathom. His Spirit moves like the wind, and we’re wise to catch sail when He breathes fresh life into us.

There’s nothing like God’s presence. Maybe that’s why we sometimes chase the sensational but miss the supernatural. We want to experience again what we experienced then. But in the process, might we rush right by the nuanced, miraculous ways God is showing up in our stories?

Christians sometimes say it’s unbiblical to ask for more of God’s presence because He’s omnipresent. Yet what about the psalms that cry out for more of God? And what about the verses that speak of God’s movement? When God intervenes in the affairs of men, everything changes. He sometimes draws near. Other times He distances Himself. Why? And what about His movement in your life? He occasionally lifts you up. Other times He tucks you in. Sometimes He establishes you. Other times He hides you.

God’s presence isn’t a static, unmoving entity stuck in inertia. His presence is a force. It’s powerful, moving, flowing, and breathing life into all creation. The God who put the stars in place is, right now, writing a story with your life that will take your breath away.

God’s Presence Is Power

When God made Himself known in the Old Testament, even the most righteous souls were at once terrified. Though these men and women faithfully obeyed God and sought hard after Him, they were undone when they actually encountered Him.

In the New Testament, it’s quite the same. Peter, James, and John saw Jesus transformed before their eyes. Matthew 17:2 tells us that when Jesus was on the mountain, His “face shone like the sun, and his clothes became as white as the light.” When God’s voice thundered from heaven, the men fell facedown and were terrified.

Later, in John 18, we see that when the Roman soldiers came to arrest Jesus and He asked who they were looking for, they said, “Jesus the Nazarene.” Jesus stepped forward and said, “I am he.” And the sheer power that flowed from those words knocked a large contingent of soldiers off their feet. Jesus proved that they weren’t taking His life; He was freely giving it.

God’s presence is power. He has no rival. Psalm 73:26 says God is the strength of our hearts and our portion forever. So why doesn’t everyone long for more of His presence?

God’s Presence Is Healing

When Jesus ministered healing and wholeness to the broken and hurting, some of the townspeople begged Him to stay, while others begged Him to leave. Why such different responses? I’ve noticed in Scripture that whenever God revealed His majesty and power, people had to make a choice: to move toward God or away from Him.

The fact that our star-breathing God looks upon this pebble of a planet and takes great care to know about every detail of our lives is invitation enough to seek Him in ways you and I never have before. As we pursue the heart of God, through the Word of God, we more clearly understand the presence of God.


Adapted from Closer Than Your Next Breath: Where is God When You Need Him Most? by Susie Larson.

God is omnipresent—meaning He’s here, there, everywhere all at the same time—so no matter what you’re going through today or worried about facing tomorrow, He is closer than you can imagine, and His presence changes everything.

The God of creation cares deeply about every detail of our personal lives. He’s in charge of every galaxy and has named every star. He also knows about the hurts in our hearts and the hairs on our heads. He’s near and far. His glory fills the universe, and yet He’s up close and involved.

Closer Than Your Next Breath

Though we believe in our minds that God is all-powerful, all-knowing, and all-present, sometimes we don’t feel his closeness. How can we walk boldly in our faith, expecting Him to draw near to us as we draw near to Him, as promised in the book of James? In Closer Than Your Next Breath, bestselling author, speaker, and radio host Susie Larson helps readers experience God’s trustworthiness and love—even when they feel far from Him. In this book, readers will explore these questions and more:

  • How do I know if I’m hearing the voice of God?
  • Is feeling good the same as feeling God?
  • Is there anything I can do when God seems silent?
  • How should God’s presence impact me?

There’s nothing like God’s presence in our lives, but sometimes we chase the sensational and miss the supernatural. Worship services, retreats or conferences, and mountaintop experiences are great, but too often we rush right by the nuanced, miraculous ways God shows up in our story every day. When we pursue the heart of God through the Word of God, that’s when we experience the presence of God—and it makes all the difference in our lives.

Closer Than Your Next Breath is published by HarperCollins Christian Publishing, Inc., the parent company of Bible Gateway.

Friendship Will Make or Break Your Life

I often think about the beginning of the world.

You may think that’s a bit strange, but I think you should try it. It goes like this:

One day God is being quintessential God, making things from nothing, and he’s doing it with his covenant friends — the Son and the Holy Spirit.

To imagine it right, you have got to see that they all think this whole creation thing is a spectacularly grand idea. It won’t be without hiccups, they know, but they are providentially confident it will turn out to be a smashing success.

Good, Good, Good

Picture it all for a moment: What it looks like for light to separate from darkness for the first time. The crash of an unfathomably large number of cubic gallons of water sloshing against the seabed.

I wonder whether God the Son gets down on his knees and traces the shorelines carefully, the way a child concentrates on a drawing, while God the Father watches happily from behind the galaxy. Or whether both just laugh as the Holy Spirit splashes cosmic buckets of salt water on the earth to see where it falls, the way visual artist Makoto Fujimura seems to combine accident and purpose while flicking paint over a canvas to see the direction it runs.

I could go on, and I encourage you to do the same.

Think about what it sounds like to hear “Good!” ring out the first time over Himalayan mountain ranges. I imagine it sounds something like a dad’s hearty laugh as he watches his kids play happily together in the back yard on a summer evening when, just for a moment, the world seems as it should be.

Think about a peacock strutting for the first time or a lioness exploring her tail the way cats do. All for the first time and hearing the benediction thunder like a divine drum over all things, the Trinity — likely in three-part harmony — shouting, “Good! Good! Good!”

So there you have it. The beginning of the world.

Not Good

Now I’m a corporate lawyer. Much more nerdy, not less, than the ninety-eight-pound, clarinet-playing freshman that I was. I write and negotiate contracts for a living.

So imagining the beginning of the world as a wild, Trinitarian bash is a bit of a stretch for me too. But it helps remind us of a key point: the beginning chapters of Genesis are a kind of poetry in Hebrew.

Genesis may be true poetry, but it’s still poetry. And in poetry, the writer picks every single word on purpose.

Note that God says “Good!” seven times in the beginning of Genesis. It’s the rhythmic refrain of the chapter.

But that refrain gets halted with something like a record scratch as the music stops when we get to verse 18 of chapter 2: “The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone.’”

Not good!?

This, in the poetry, stands out like an inkblot on a white page. Everything halts like a paragraph left off midsentence. If the Bible is God’s Word, you have to believe he does that on purpose. Why?

To stop you in your tracks and make you listen.

So hear it again because it could be the most important thing that God has ever said to you: “It is not good that you are alone.”

Created for Friendship

In 2016 and 2017, sociologists started noticing Americans were dying younger and had been for a year or two.

I’m sure it didn’t happen quite like this, but I like to imagine a lead sociologist in a lab coat. He’s walking around a brightly lit lab, ready to pack it in and head home for dinner, but he has to do his daily check on the Average American Life Expectancy Meter. So he walks over, clipboard in hand, takes a look, and frowns.

He steps back, removes his glasses, and squints at the meter. It’s pointing in the wrong direction.

He mutters something and gets his assistant, and they frown at it together. They finally agree that it is indeed true, the Average American Life Expectancy Meter is pointing backward. And it is not broken.

Sociologists didn’t know it at the time, but something else was broken: the American soul. This marked the beginning of a multiyear decline. It was the first time since the 1960s that we’ve seen such a drop. And in the 1960s the reason was clear: there was a flu epidemic. Just enough to bring the average life span down for two years. But in 2017, there was nothing like that in sight.

Our sociologists in lab coats here may be fictional, but this data is not. Researchers found that the life expectancy was falling not because of a pandemic or cancer or anything else you might expect.

The real reasons were grim and much more preventable stuff: young suicides, drug overdoses, alcoholism, and other preventable diseases of self-inflicted unhealth. In other words, “deaths of despair,” a phrase that has now entered the American vocabulary.

Why? Because friendship will make or break your life.

The Loneliness Epidemic

Around that time, studies showing that chronic loneliness is more dangerous to your health than smoking fifteen cigarettes a day began to get significant attention. Experts called it an epidemic of loneliness, because it’s not the body that’s killing us, it’s the lonely soul that’s killing the body.

This epidemic of loneliness is not past tense.

The COVID-19 related deaths have only made it drastically worse. Statistics continue to be released that show a steady increase in our loneliness and a steady decline in our ability to stay alive.

Data shows that through 2020 and 2021 — between the epidemic of loneliness and the pandemic — Americans experienced the worst drop in life expectancy we have seen in a century.

These statistics point to the enduring truth of God’s words in Genesis: “It is not good for you to be alone.”


A Life of Friendship

Made for People: Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship

Taken from Made for People: Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship by Justin Whitmel Earley.

Loneliness is the most dangerous and least talked-about epidemic — but Made for People offers a cure.

Busyness, fear of vulnerability, and past pain often keep us from the deeper friendships we long for. Discover life-changing habits for friendship that will help you move out of a world of digital loneliness and into a life of being truly known by your friends.

Isolation may be the norm of modern life, but it does not have to be the story of your life. Made for People will inspire you to practice the art and habit of fostering life-giving friendships.

Made for People: Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship is published by Zondervan Books, a division of HarperCollins Christian Publishing, Inc., the parent company of Bible Gateway.

What Does Biblical Freedom Really Mean?

I was taught that God wants us to live freely, but I never understood what that kind of freedom meant or felt like. It seemed like a good idea in theory, but elusive—I had no idea how to grab a hold of it. Granted, there were seasons of my life when I felt free but really wasn’t.

If freedom meant being carefree and uninhibited, that kind of freedom was mine during the years I was addicted to drugs (more on that in my book). I was free to make the decisions I wanted and do whatever made me feel good in the moment, but that freedom never brought me peace. I was free but not fully alive. I was enslaved to my own freedom—which was really counterfeit freedom.

Biblical Freedom

So what does biblical freedom mean? The freedom God offers throughout Scripture is freedom from the enslaving power of sin in our lives. The Enemy uses sin to obstruct our relationship with God, keeping us from experiencing abundant life in God. Biblical freedom allows us to reclaim what the Enemy has robbed from us so we can live the story of who God created us to be.

By contrast, worldly freedom is the ability to do what we want, when we want. When Adam and Eve were in Eden, they were free to choose whether to eat from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. But choosing to eat from it brought consequences—death.

Paul gives us a clear idea of this whole freedom thing and defines what biblical freedom truly means and doesn’t mean. He wrote in 1 Corinthians 6:12, “ ‘I have the right to do anything,’ you say—but not everything is beneficial. ‘I have the right to do anything’—but I will not be mastered by anything.”

What does this mean for you? This means Jesus set you free so you can stand firm in his power to live a life that is free and fully alive, not so you can be bound to the things of this earth. He wants you awakened to a life that can hold both hurt and hope. A life that cries out in grief but can whisper gratitude in the same breath.

This kind of freedom allows you to have faith in Christ but still experience human fears. You can bring them both before the cross, where his grace, love, and mercy can cover you and empower you.

Addressing Counterfeit Freedom

There’s a not-so-fun part of finding freedom, though. If you want to be truly free, you must first recognize the places where you have settled for counterfeit freedom. You must awaken to the reality that parts of your story have been hijacked by an Enemy who wants you to believe that freedom lies in your power to choose, rather than through the transformation of your heart.

Once you recognize where this Enemy has attacked your story, you can begin the work of reclaiming those places so you can experience the life abundant and return to who you were created to be.

The Hope of Redemption

We all come with stories—some good, some bad, and some really hard. Our deepest desire is to be known and loved, but our stories often include times when we were not known for who we really are and definitely were not fully loved. And yet we can’t escape the belief that maybe, just maybe, there’s hope for our stories, that maybe our lives can be redeemed and we can emerge as the free little ones we once were.

Our spirits hold a curiosity around hope. Even if that hope has sunk within us, it’s still there, calling to us, speaking of what was and what could be. This longing comes from the desire to create and dream and play. It’s as if our spirits know life wasn’t supposed to be this way—we weren’t made for pain and despair. We were designed for something greater. Our spirits long for Eden.

Our spirits long for the goodness and intimacy they were created to experience. They long for the wonder of the unknown and the mystery of what could be. Our spirits seem to know something our brains don’t—that we were made for abundant life—but our brains won’t let us engage because of fear of disappointment or failure or rejection. It’s our spirits that keep leading us to the reckless hope of trying again.

All it takes to keep going is a willingness to be honest, to invite God into the story, and to allow some trustworthy people to witness your story in a way that enables your heart to be seen and held. Something dynamic and supernatural begins to happen. Life starts to have color. The puzzle pieces of your broken story come together. You are awakened to a God who sees you in the hard and the holy, and you realize you are loved.

God meets the great longing of your soul within the recesses of the stories you bear—which he wants to redeem.


Free and Fully Alive

Adapted from Free and Fully Alive: Reclaiming the Story of Who You Were Created to Be by Karrie Garcia.

A dynamic, practical guide to embracing your past and discovering a deeper connection to yourself, God, and others so you can reclaim who God created you to be.

Free and Fully Alive: Reclaiming the Story of Who You Were Created to Be

Many of us yearn for a sense of purpose, but we wonder how we can overcome the trauma and mistakes of our past. We keep doing and doing for God, hoping to erase our story so we can find our true calling.

Free and Fully Alive is a powerful reminder that our stories hold the key to our true purpose, and it’s who we are in those stories, not what we do, that is the secret to living the abundant life God promises.

As author Karrie Garcia draws on her own experiences and her expertise as a life coach, she shows us why God’s redemptive purpose for our lives doesn’t begin once we’re free from pain, and as we are vulnerable with God, ourselves, and others, we find that we are already who God created us to be.

A vibrant guide to getting unstuck, Free and Fully Alive equips you to:

  • Ditch the behavior modification strategies and focus on true heart transformation
  • Stop chasing external achievements when what you long for is internal change
  • Silence that inner critic and find the voice of truth through the Word of God
  • Realize that God’s love for you has nothing to do with all you accomplish today
  • Understand that your past does not disqualify you from God’s purpose

Feel fully alive in the story you’re living. You are meant to be here. In fact, that’s the greatest purpose of all.

Free and Fully Alive is published by Zondervan Books, a division of HarperCollins Christian Publishing, Inc., the parent company of Bible Gateway.

What Does Philippians Really Say About Anxiety?

You’ve heard it.

The most commonly cited verse about anxiety is Philippians 4:6: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”

Dr. Dan Allender, professor of counseling psychology at the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology, cautions the use of this verse in addressing anxiety. He says Philippians 4:6 can often be used by those who aren’t experiencing anxiety as a means of “‘clobbering’ those who are anxious.” Dr. Allender warns against “the idea of hearing Philippians 4 and assuming ‘my anxiety goes away.’”

I happen to like Philippians 4:6, but I also don’t like how it is used as a “clobber verse” to make anxious people feel like they’re doing something wrong or, even worse, that there is something wrong about them. As with most clobber verses, in this situation it is being used out of context.

The Theological Framework of Philippians

To understand the verses in Philippians 4, you have to grasp the teachings of the previous chapter, which presents the theological core of the entire letter. Philippians 3 sets the overall context for Paul’s words in 4:6 about anxiety and, in fact, establishes a key framework for how Christians should understand all aspects of their life.

“Now and Not Yet” People

The framework of Philippians 3 is that Christians live as “Now and Not Yet” people. This is sadly undertaught in Christian circles, which is why anxiety is so often misunderstood and why many clobber verses are misused.

What is a “Now and Not Yet” person? This person is summarized by Philippians 3:21, which declares that “our current lowly bodies are being transformed to the body of Christ’s glory.” The Now and Not Yet life is defined by the life goal of becoming like Jesus. This is the amazing promise of the gospel: God is at work to transform every bit of ourselves to conform to Jesus, the one who will give us his “glory.”

Glory is the biblical term describing the amazingly good way of life when we fully reflect God’s intentions for us. Jesus obtained his glory because he fully reflected God’s intentions in his life. Philippians 3:21 promises that as we become like Jesus, we will share in that same “glory.”

However, the same verse assumes that this glorious destiny requires an understanding of spiritual growth that allows for the struggles of our current “lowly bodies.” Note that lowly in Paul’s usage here means “incomplete” (it does not mean “sinful”). He is emphasizing that the full completion of our transformation awaits the future, the Not Yet when Jesus returns (Philippians 3:10).

In the Now, we will still struggle with experiences like complex physical and neurological misfirings. My current “lowly body” will still fall quite short of “glory.” Nevertheless, the Now and Not Yet are organically connected. This is what it means that our current lowly bodies are being transformed to the body of Christ’s glory. Our Not Yet body of glory grows out of our Now body of struggle.

Now and Not Yet Metaphors

Paul isn’t making up this Now and Not Yet dynamic. He gets it straight from Jesus. Jesus often used agricultural metaphors to convey this dynamic of spiritual growth. His favorite metaphor was to point to how a seed of some plant is growing in the present Now and still is on its way to becoming its fully completed self in the future Not Yet (see, for example, Matthew 13:3–8, 19–23; Mark 4:3–9, 14–32; Luke 8:4–8, 11–15; and more).

Because this is such a complex and crucial truth, Paul often adds to Jesus’ agricultural metaphors for the Now and Not Yet. In Philippians 3, for example, Paul draws on the metaphor of a runner in the middle of a race, who is “straining toward what is ahead” (3:13) at the finish line. He switches to the metaphor of dual citizenship to capture the duality of the two time frames—living as citizens of the present earthly reality while awaiting the future arrival of a heavenly citizenship (3:20).

Is Anxiety a Sin?

This overall “Now and Not Yet” framework is critical to understanding why Philippians 4:6 should not be wielded as a clobber verse that defines anxiety as a sin. Anxiety is an intrinsic and unavoidable feature of our Now and Not Yet incompleteness and should not be conflated with moral failure. Incompleteness is not the same as sin. We would be mistaken if we morally blamed an eight-year-old for being small or not knowing calculus . . . or for being racked with worry about their parents coming home.

In Paul’s letters, he is not shy about calling out actions rightly labeled as sin and disobedience. But he’s not using such moral categories in Philippians 3 and 4. For instance, the encouragement right before 4:6 is to “celebrate joyfully in the Lord, all the time” (4:4 NTE). But no one actually stays at this elevated spiritual state “all the time.” We all regularly slip back down into more “lowly” moods.

Continual celebration is an aspirational description of the final transformation of our emotional self. While Christians are invited to taste more and more of those celebratory emotions here and now, I do not fall into sin when I stop celebrating joyfully in the Lord and, for example, lament the awful pitching of the Chicago Cubs. Paul describes periods when he is decidedly not in a celebratory mood but is instead struggling with deep despair (see 2 Corinthians 1:8, for example). He never labels those negative emotional experiences as sin.

Similarly, the encouragement right after Philippians 4:6 is to think only about holy, upright, virtuous things (4:8 NTE). Again, our minds will one day be transformed by the resurrection so we’ll be able to accomplish this constant mental focus. In the meantime, we only sometimes experience periods of such a pure mindset, though we should aspire to have more of it.

Paul Expresses His Own Anxiety

When our minds wander to, say, the latest celebrity gossip news, we have not committed wrong. Paul reveals how his own mind occasionally wanders to some fairly uncharitable (and crass) thoughts about his enemies. Galatians 5:12 includes some trash talking that would make a National Basketball Association player blush. Paul seems to accept these thoughts as part of his life in the Now.

In fact, those who wield Philippians 4:6 as a clobber verse to condemn anxiety as a sin neglect an important detail. Earlier in the letter, Paul describes his own anxiety for the Philippian church. Worry surrounded his decision to send his colleague Epaphroditus back to them. “This has made me all the more eager to send him, so that you’ll see him again and be glad,” he writes, adding, “and my own anxieties will be laid to rest” (Philippians 2:28 NTE).

Having freely admitted his own anxiety—without a trace of self-condemnation—it would be bizarre for Paul to intend his words “do not be anxious” in Philippians 4:6 to be taken as an expectation that Christians would—or should—never feel anxious.

Accept and Aspire

Therefore, in context, “do not be anxious” in Philippians 4:6 is not meant as condemnation; it is encouragement to experience anxiety within the larger “Now and Not Yet” dynamic of spiritual growth where our current lowly bodies are being transformed to the glory of Christ’s body. Even as we aspire to more freedom from anxiety—an aspiration that will be met completely only in the Not Yet—we simultaneously should expect anxiety to always be part of our current life in the Now.

We should no more expect Christians to be free of anxiety than we should expect Christians to be free of colds, mosquito bites, flat tires, sadness, or mental distraction. Paul brings up anxiety in Philippians 4:6 precisely because he expects it to be a persistent problem for his audience.


The Anxiety Opportunity

Adapted from The Anxiety Opportunity: How Worry Is the Doorway to Your Best Self by Curtis Chang.

What if instead of battling anxiety, you saw your worries as a doorway to spiritual transformation? Challenging the assumption that anxiety is the enemy, theologian, popular podcaster, and fellow sufferer of chronic anxiety Curtis Chang gives you a different framework for approaching fears. You will discover profound new ways of relating to Jesus, the Holy Spirit, and those you love.

Curtis Chang knows what it’s like to view anxiety as a sin to overcome. He also knows how trying to get rid of anxiety through sheer faith or willpower usually leads to feelings of shame and frustration. After losing his job as a pastor due to debilitating anxiety, Curtis began the process of healing his heart. Combining years of personal experience, spiritual practice, and biblical study, Curtis discovered an alternative approach—one that sees anxiety as the path to our best selves in Christ.

Heroes of Faith and The Art of Overcoming

How do we trust God’s faithfulness through challenges, loss, grief, and hurt, the way heroes of faith did? Today we’ll explore the lives of biblical heroes listed in the book of Hebrews to reveal how their stories teach us to overcome obstacles, deal with adversity, and trust God in difficult times. 

Dealing With Death Experiences

Allowing faith to coexist with death experiences—everyday setbacks and disappointments, grief, pain, and hurt—is important because sometimes we try to use faith to avoid them when God is asking us to use faith to deal with them.

Instead of walking through death experiences with grace, we think we can believe, hope, trust, claim, quote, and pray our way out of them. When that doesn’t work, we blame ourselves for our lack of faith, or we get mad at God for not holding up his end of the deal, or we pendulum back and forth between the two.

If you think every bad thing that happens is because you didn’t have enough faith, you’re going to spend a lot of time feeling ashamed and condemned. Plus, what we are suffering from or what we have lost is only part of our story. Faith in God allows us to see difficult situations in their wider context: they are just one part of a complex, long, layered, beautiful life.

They Died in Faith

Hebrews 11 lists numerous people from Israel’s history. For each one it says, “By faith so-and-so did such-and-such.” It’s easy to look at that list and think, Wow, those men and women were incredible. They believed, and God did miracles. Their faith was proved by their life.

But look at verse 13: “All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance, admitting that they were foreigners and strangers on earth.”

They didn’t just live in faith; they died in faith, knowing that God is faithful in this age and in the age to come.

Give Yourself Space to Grieve

What if we stopped looking at our death experiences as a sign that we lacked faith, and instead looked at them as simply another way to walk by faith? What if we stopped thinking we somehow failed God and instead remembered we are following God?

That would change our whole perspective on loss, pain, and disappointment. It would change our perspective on ourselves too. We would give ourselves space to grieve and time to heal instead of hiding our pain or beating ourselves up over it.

Heroes of the Bible Overcome By Letting Go

“Letting go” is easier said than done. It takes foresight and maturity to look beyond your present pain and realize something better is coming.

Many heroes of the Bible had to say goodbye to things they cared for deeply. We remember the victory at the end of their stories, but we often forget the emotional choices they made along the way to let go of a past or a dream or a relationship that needed to be laid to rest. Only then could they step into the future God was offering them.

Abraham

Remember in Genesis 22 when God asked Abraham to give up his son? Isaac was his only son, his promised son, his beloved son, the answer to decades of prayer and patience. God’s instruction must have felt like death to Abraham (Hebrews 11:17-19). But he was willing to let go, and God applauded him for his faith and trust. In fact, the Bible calls him the father of all who believe.

Moses

Or how about when Moses tried and failed to deliver Egypt in his own strength, then fled to hide in the wilderness in fear and shame (Exodus 2)? I can only imagine the guilt and insecurity that must have plagued him for decades. Then, one day, God told him to go back.

Moses had more excuses than a teenager being told to clean his room, but God finally talked him into it. Moses had to let two things die: his idea of how Israel would be set free (control) and his feelings of failure (shame). When he let go of those, God used him to deliver Israel from Egypt (Hebrews 11:24-28).

Ruth

Ruth let go of her homeland and her own family (Ruth 1:16-17). Hannah had to leave her son Samuel behind to grow up at the temple (1 Samuel 1:22). Esther had to leave her adoptive uncle to move into the palace of a maniacal, pagan ruler (Esther 2:8). Jesus had to find comfort and healing after his cousin John the Baptist was killed (Matthew 14:13).

Mary

Mary had to say goodbye to her son on the cross (John 19:26-27). I could go on and on, but you get the picture. Overcoming adversity is not just about what we get, but it’s also about what we give up.

Learning to Let Go

These stories from the heroes of our faith should remind us that letting go is just as much a part of faith as holding on. We need to remove the stigma that is often attached to grief. What are we so embarrassed about? What are we so afraid of?

Closing a business, going bankrupt, or having a chronic illness doesn’t mean we are failures. Nor does it mean that we don’t have faith. These circumstances and others like them simply mean we are alive, and we are human, and we are normal, and we are moving forward.

There is a natural movement or trajectory to life, and what works for one season doesn’t necessarily work for the next. Losing, leaving, and laying to rest are necessary stages of growth. Nobody likes to lose, but if we can’t lose, we can’t gain either. We will just stay where we are, and that’s unnatural.

A lot of overcoming is simply moving forward, growing, and adapting as we go. It is leaving the past behind without bitterness or regret, but rather with honor, knowing what we had was important for a season, but that the season has ended. In other words, we learn to let things rest in peace without losing our peace.

Having faith in God doesn’t mean you never lose a job, loved one, or friendship. It means that even when you lose what you thought you couldn’t survive without, you keep living. You keep loving. You keep giving.

Your pain runs deep, but your faith runs deeper. Your circumstances have changed, but God hasn’t.


Adapted from The Art of Overcoming: Letting God Turn Your Endings Into Beginnings by Tim Timberlake.

Life is full of everyday setbacks. In The Art of Overcoming, you will learn how to process these moments and triumphantly move beyond them.

The Art of Overcoming by Tim Timberlake

The Art of Overcoming explores how we deal with loss, grief, and hurt, and challenges readers to keep what looks like endings from discouraging or derailing us. The pain we experience is real—but there’s a difference between acknowledging it and giving into it.

Rather than seeking a fake hope that pretends loss doesn’t exist or doesn’t matter, author and pastor Tim Timberlake encourages us to pursue hope rooted in God and gives this reminder: don’t quit! The process of overcoming is not about understanding everything or living without pain, but about finding healthy ways to process the scary, strange, and sometimes devastating circumstances we face.

No matter what you’ve gone through or are in the middle of right now, better days are ahead. Let God heal your heart in His timing, take time to grieve what needs to be grieved, and then celebrate the new life God lays out before you.

The Art of Overcoming is published by HarperCollins Christian Publishing, Inc., the parent company of Bible Gateway.