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Using Common Sense

Do not challenge a person who has influence; you may fall into his power. Do not quarrel with someone rich; he may bribe people to turn against you. Gold has destroyed many people and corrupted kings. Don't argue with someone who talks too much; you will just be adding fuel to his fire. Don't make fun of someone who has bad manners; he may insult your ancestors. Don't criticize someone if he is already turning away from sin. Remember that we are all guilty. Never think less of someone because he is old; some of us are growing old, too. Don't be happy over the death of anyone; remember that all of us must die.

Do not disregard what the wise have said. Study their proverbs; from them you can learn to be cultured and to serve great people. Pay attention to what old people say, for they learned from those who came before them. You can learn from them, and they can teach you how to have an answer ready when you need one.

10 You should not provide a sinner with more opportunity to sin. You might get hurt yourself; it's as easy as getting burned while adding logs to a fire. 11 You should not get up and walk out on someone who is insolent. He might twist your words and use them against you. 12 You should not lend anything to someone more powerful than you. If you do, you might as well consider it lost. 13 You should not guarantee anyone else's loan to an extent that you cannot afford. You must be prepared to pay any such guarantee. 14 You should not bring a lawsuit against a judge. He will win because of his position. 15 You should not travel with anyone who is reckless. It will cause you nothing but trouble. He will do any foolish thing he pleases, and you will die with him.

16 You should not get into an argument with anyone who has a hot temper or go to some place where the two of you will be alone. Violence means nothing to such a person, and he will attack you when there is no one to help you. 17 You should not ask a stupid person for advice. He will not be able to keep secret what you tell him. 18 You should not do anything in front of a stranger that should be kept secret. There is no way of knowing what will happen if you do. 19 You should not reveal your most private thoughts to anyone. If you do, you may as well throw away any chance of happiness.[a]

Advice about Women

(A)Don't be jealous of the wife you love. You will only be teaching her how to do you harm. Do not surrender your dignity to any woman. Keep away from other men's wives[b] or they will trap you. Don't keep company with female musicians; they will trick you. Don't look too intently at a virgin, or you may find yourself forced to pay a bride price. Don't give yourself to prostitutes, or you may lose everything you own. So don't go looking about in the streets or wandering around in the run-down parts of town. When you see a good-looking woman, look the other way; don't let your mind dwell on the beauty of any woman who is not your wife. Many men have been led astray by a woman's beauty. It kindles passion as if it were fire. Don't sit down to eat with another man's wife or join her for a drink. You may give in to the temptation of her charms and be destroyed by your passion.

Friendships with Others

10 Never abandon old friends; you will never find a new one who can take their place. Friendship is like wine; it gets better as it grows older. 11 Don't be jealous of a sinner's success; you don't know what kind of disaster is in store for him. 12 Don't take pleasure in the things that make ungodly people happy; remember that they will be held guilty as long as they live. 13 If you keep away from someone who has the power to put you to death, you will not have to fear for your life; but if you must go near him, be very careful, or he may kill you. Be conscious that you are walking among hidden traps, that you are an easy target.

14 Get to know the people around you as well as you can, and take advice only from those who are qualified to give it. 15 Engage in conversation with intelligent people, and let the Law of the Most High be the topic of your discussions. 16 Choose righteous people for your dinner companions. Your chief pride should be your fear of the Lord.

Rulers

17 A skilled worker is admired for the things he makes, and a leader's wisdom is proved by his words. 18 Someone who speaks rashly and recklessly is feared and hated by everyone in town.

Footnotes

  1. Sirach 8:19 Hebrew If...happiness; Greek And don't let anyone do you a favor.
  2. Sirach 9:3 Hebrew other men's wives; Greek immoral women.

Prudence and Common Sense

Do not contend with the powerful,
    or you may fall into their hands.
Do not quarrel with the rich,
    in case their resources outweigh yours,
for gold has ruined many
    and has perverted the minds of kings.(A)
Do not argue with the loud of mouth,
    and do not heap wood on their fire.(B)

Do not make fun of one who is uneducated,
    or your ancestors may be insulted.
Do not reproach one who is turning away from sin;
    remember that we all deserve punishment.(C)
Do not disdain one who is old,
    for some of us are also growing old.(D)
Do not rejoice over anyone’s death;
    remember that we must all die.

Do not slight the discourse of the sages,
    but turn to their maxims,
because from them you will learn discipline
    and how to serve the great.(E)
Do not ignore the discourse of the aged,
    for they themselves learned from their parents;[a]
from them you learn how to understand
    and to give an answer when the need arises.(F)

10 Do not kindle the coals of sinners,
    or you may be burned[b] in their flaming fire.(G)
11 Do not let the insolent bring you to your feet,
    or they may lie in ambush against your words.
12 Do not lend to one who is stronger than you,
    but if you do lend anything, count it as a loss.(H)
13 Do not give surety beyond your means,
    but if you give surety be prepared to pay.(I)

14 Do not go to law against a judge,
    for the decision will favor him because of his standing.
15 Do not travel on the road with the reckless,
    or your troubles may become burdensome,
for they will act as they please,
    and through their folly you will perish with them.
16 Do not pick a fight with the quick-tempered,
    and do not journey with them through a deserted region,
because bloodshed means nothing to them,
    and where no help is at hand they will strike you down.(J)
17 Do not consult with fools,
    for they cannot keep a secret.(K)
18 In the presence of strangers do nothing that is to be kept secret,
    for you do not know what they will divulge.[c]
19 Do not reveal your thoughts to anyone,
    or you may drive away your happiness.[d]

Advice concerning Women

Do not be jealous of the wife whom you embrace,
    or you will teach her an evil lesson to your own hurt.(L)
Do not give yourself to a woman
    and let her trample down your strength.(M)
Do not go near a loose woman,[e]
    or you may fall into her snares.(N)
Do not dally with a female singer,
    or you may be caught in her activities.
Do not look intently at a virgin,
    or you may stumble and incur penalties for her.(O)
Do not give yourself to prostitutes,
    or you may lose your inheritance.(P)
Do not look around in the streets of a city
    or wander about in its deserted sections.(Q)
Turn away your eyes from a shapely woman,
    and do not gaze at beauty belonging to another;
many have been seduced by a woman’s beauty,
    and by it passion is kindled like a fire.(R)
Never dine[f] with another man’s wife
    or revel with her at wine,
or your heart may turn aside to her,
    and in blood[g] you may plunge into destruction.(S)

Choice of Friends

10 Do not abandon old friends,
    for new ones cannot equal them.
A new friend is like new wine;
    when it has aged, you will drink it with pleasure.(T)

11 Do not envy the notoriety of sinners,
    for you do not know what their end will be like.(U)
12 Do not delight in what pleases the ungodly;[h]
    remember that they will not be held guiltless until Hades.(V)

13 Keep far from those who have power to kill,
    and you will not be haunted by the fear of death.
But if you approach them, make no misstep,
    or they may rob you of your life.
Know that you are stepping among snares
    and that you are walking on the city battlements.

14 As much as you can, aim to know your neighbors,
    and consult with the wise.(W)
15 Let your conversation be with intelligent people,
    and let all your discussion be about the law of the Most High.(X)
16 Let the righteous be your dinner companions,
    and let your boast be in the fear of the Lord.(Y)

Concerning Rulers

17 A work is praised for the skill of the artisan,
    so a people’s leader is proved wise by his words.
18 The loud of mouth are feared in their city,
    and the one who is reckless in speech is hated.(Z)

Footnotes

  1. 8.9 Or ancestors
  2. 8.10 Heb: Gk do not get burned
  3. 8.18 Or it will bring forth
  4. 8.19 Heb: Gk and let him not return a favor to you
  5. 9.3 Heb strange woman
  6. 9.9 Heb: Gk sit down
  7. 9.9 Heb: Gk by your spirit
  8. 9.12 Gk: Heb the success of the arrogant

Chapter 8

Prudence in Dealing with Others[a]

Do not contend with the mighty,
    lest you fall into their power.
Do not quarrel with the rich,
    lest they pay out the price of your downfall.
For gold has unsettled many,
    and wealth perverts the character of princes.(A)

Do not quarrel with loud-mouths,
    or heap wood upon their fire.[b](B)
Do not associate with the senseless,
    lest your ancestors be insulted.

Do not reproach one who turns away from sin;(C)
    remember, we all are guilty.[c]
Do not insult one who is old,
    for some of us will also grow old.
Do not rejoice when someone dies;
    remember, we are all to be gathered in.

Do not neglect the discourse of the wise,(D)
    but busy yourself with their proverbs;
For in this way you will acquire the training
    to stand in the presence of princes.
Do not reject the tradition of the elders
    which they have heard from their ancestors;
For from it you will learn
    how to answer when the need arises.

10 Do not kindle the coals of sinners,
    lest you be burned in their flaming fire.
11 Do not give ground before scoundrels;
    it will set them in ambush against you.[d]
12 Do not lend to one more powerful than yourself;
    or if you lend, count it as lost.(E)
13 Do not give collateral beyond your means;
    consider any collateral a debt you must pay.

14 Do not go to court against a judge,
    for the case will be settled in his favor.
15 Do not travel with the ruthless
    lest they weigh you down with calamity;
For they will only go their own way,
    and through their folly you will also perish.
16 Do not defy the quick-tempered,
    or ride with them through the desert.
For bloodshed is nothing to them;
    when there is no one to help, they will destroy you.

17 Do not take counsel with simpletons,
    for they cannot keep a confidence.
18 Before a stranger do nothing that should be kept secret,
    for you do not know what it will produce later on.[e](F)
19 Open your heart to no one,
    do not banish your happiness.

Chapter 9

Advice Concerning Women[f]

Do not be jealous of the wife of your bosom,
    lest you teach her to do evil against you.[g]
Do not give a woman power over you
    to trample on your dignity.(G)
Do not go near a strange woman,
    lest you fall into her snares.
Do not dally with a singer,
    lest you be captivated by her charms.
Do not entertain any thoughts about a virgin,
    lest you be enmeshed in damages for her.[h]
Do not give yourself to a prostitute
    lest you lose your inheritance.(H)
Do not look around the streets of the city
    or wander through its squares.
Avert your eyes from a shapely woman;
    do not gaze upon beauty that is not yours;
Through woman’s beauty many have been ruined,
    for love of it burns like fire.(I)
Never recline at table with a married woman,
    or drink intoxicants with her,
Lest your heart be drawn to her
    and you go down in blood[i] to the grave.

Choice of Friends[j]

10 Do not abandon old friends;
    new ones cannot equal them.
A new friend is like new wine—
    when it has aged, you drink it with pleasure.
11 Do not envy the wicked
    for you do not know when their day will come.
12 Do not delight in the pleasures of the ungodly;
    remember, they will not die unpunished.

13 Keep away from those who have power to kill,
    and you will not be filled with the dread of death.
But if you come near them, do not offend them,
    lest they take away your life.
Know that you are stepping among snares
    and walking over a net.

14 As best you can, answer your neighbor,
    and associate with the wise.
15 With the learned exchange ideas;
    and let all your conversation be about the law of the Most High.
16 Take the righteous for your table companions;
    and let your glory be in the fear of God.

Concerning Rulers[k]

17 Work by skilled hands will earn praise;
    but the people’s leader is proved wise by his words.
18 Loud mouths are feared in their city,
    and whoever is reckless in speech is hated.

Footnotes

  1. 8:1–19 The prudent will be circumspect, avoiding conflict with the powerful, the rich and insolent, the impious, the irascible, and judges (vv. 1–3, 10–12, 14, 16). They will not associate with the undisciplined (v. 4) or the ruthless (v. 15), with fools or strangers (vv. 17–19), but with the wise and the elders of the people (vv. 8–9). Caution is a recurring theme in Ben Sira.
  2. 8:3 One should avoid increasing the ire of those who are hotheaded; cf. vv. 10, 16.
  3. 8:5 We all are guilty: cf. 1 Kgs 8:46; 2 Chr 6:36; Jb 25:4; Eccl 7:20; Rom 3:9–10; 5:12; 1 Jn 1:8.
  4. 8:11 Giving in to the wicked only encourages them to take advantage.
  5. 8:18 To keep a secret, or a confidence, is a major concern of Ben Sira; cf. 1:30; 22:22; 27:16–21; 37:10; 42:1.
  6. 9:1–9 Ben Sira writes about women only from the androcentric viewpoint of his culture. Cf. 25:13–26:27.
  7. 9:1 Jealousy may lead to suspicion and may prompt a wife to those actions her husband fears.
  8. 9:5 Cf. Ex 22:15–16; Dt 22:28–29; Jb 31:1. Cf. note on Ex 22:16.
  9. 9:9 In blood: perhaps refers to blood revenge; cf. Lv 20:10.
  10. 9:10–16 The second of Ben Sira’s poems on friendship; cf. note on 6:5–17. In choosing friends, adherence to the law of the Lord should serve as a guide (v. 15). Associate with true friends (v. 10), with the righteous and the learned (vv. 14–16); avoid the company of the mighty and of sinners (vv. 11–13). Cf. 8:1–19.
  11. 9:17–10:5 Public office as conducted justly or unjustly benefits or destroys the people, according to the axiom, “as the prince, so the people.” God, however, has sovereignty over both.

Prudence and Common Sense

Do not contend with the powerful,
    or you may fall into their hands.
Do not quarrel with the rich,
    in case their resources outweigh yours;
for gold has ruined many,
    and has perverted the minds of kings.
Do not argue with the loud of mouth,
    and do not heap wood on their fire.

Do not make fun of one who is ill-bred,
    or your ancestors may be insulted.
Do not reproach one who is turning away from sin;
    remember that we all deserve punishment.
Do not disdain one who is old,
    for some of us are also growing old.
Do not rejoice over anyone’s death;
    remember that we must all die.

Do not slight the discourse of the sages,
    but busy yourself with their maxims;
because from them you will learn discipline
    and how to serve princes.
Do not ignore the discourse of the aged,
    for they themselves learned from their parents;[a]
from them you learn how to understand
    and to give an answer when the need arises.

10 Do not kindle the coals of sinners,
    or you may be burned in their flaming fire.
11 Do not let the insolent bring you to your feet,
    or they may lie in ambush against your words.
12 Do not lend to one who is stronger than you;
    but if you do lend anything, count it as a loss.
13 Do not give surety beyond your means;
    but if you give surety, be prepared to pay.

14 Do not go to law against a judge,
    for the decision will favour him because of his standing.
15 Do not go travelling with the reckless,
    or they will be burdensome to you;
for they will act as they please,
    and through their folly you will perish with them.
16 Do not pick a fight with the quick-tempered,
    and do not journey with them through lonely country,
because bloodshed means nothing to them,
    and where no help is at hand they will strike you down.
17 Do not consult with fools,
    for they cannot keep a secret.
18 In the presence of strangers do nothing that is to be kept secret,
    for you do not know what they will divulge.[b]
19 Do not reveal your thoughts to anyone,
    or you may drive away your happiness.[c]

Advice concerning Women

Do not be jealous of the wife of your bosom,
    or you will teach her an evil lesson to your own hurt.
Do not give yourself to a woman
    and let her trample down your strength.
Do not go near a loose woman,
    or you will fall into her snares.
Do not dally with a singing-girl,
    or you will be caught by her tricks.
Do not look intently at a virgin,
    or you may stumble and incur penalties for her.
Do not give yourself to prostitutes,
    or you may lose your inheritance.
Do not look around in the streets of a city,
    or wander about in its deserted sections.
Turn away your eyes from a shapely woman,
    and do not gaze at beauty belonging to another;
many have been seduced by a woman’s beauty,
    and by it passion is kindled like a fire.
Never dine with another man’s wife,
    or revel with her at wine;
or your heart may turn aside to her,
    and in blood[d] you may be plunged into destruction.

Choice of Friends

10 Do not abandon old friends,
    for new ones cannot equal them.
A new friend is like new wine;
    when it has aged, you can drink it with pleasure.

11 Do not envy the success of sinners,
    for you do not know what their end will be like.
12 Do not delight in what pleases the ungodly;
    remember that they will not be held guiltless all their lives.

13 Keep far from those who have power to kill,
    and you will not be haunted by the fear of death.
But if you approach them, take no false step,
    or they may rob you of your life.
Know that you are stepping among snares,
    and that you are walking on the city battlements.

14 As much as you can, aim to know your neighbours,
    and consult with the wise.
15 Let your conversation be with intelligent people,
    and let all your discussion be about the law of the Most High.
16 Let the righteous be your dinner companions,
    and let your glory be in the fear of the Lord.

Concerning Rulers

17 A work is praised for the skill of the artisan;
    so a people’s leader is proved wise by his words.
18 The loud of mouth are feared in their city,
    and the one who is reckless in speech is hated.

Footnotes

  1. Sirach 8:9 Or ancestors
  2. Sirach 8:18 Or it will bring forth
  3. Sirach 8:19 Heb: Gk and let him not return a favour to you
  4. Sirach 9:9 Heb: Gk by your spirit